Here is my story in a nutshell: my boyfriend and I met 3 years ago, everything was perfect in the beginning, really a pure and true love. BUT after a year he cheats on me, I understand and of course we separate ... there are several difficult months in which we are not together, but we hear each other on the phone ... After a while the girl gets pregnant ... he does not want to be with her ... but it's too late! We keep seeing each other ... she gives birth to a wonderful child ... we decide that they should be together for the sake of the child, to try ... we get together, we separate, we hate each other, we love each other ... and what not! This lasted for a year ... in the end I couldn't stand it and I just put an end to this torture, he was categorically against it, but we still broke up ... We haven't heard or seen each other for 1 year .... even "Hello" we haven't talked in the streets ... he lived with her ... I went out with other men, but I didn't feel anything with any of them ... just a void, I was in a hole from which there was no way out ... and so on until a few months ago ... when we saw, we talked, nothing had changed ... we love each other, we want to be together ... but how? do we have the right to this happiness ... can he live with her only for the sake of the child, can I continue to live alone with my dreams?
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Oh, the same with me .. So the one where she adjusted, may be the mother of his child, but I do not see how she can be an intruder, to push him, and through the child to manipulate him, to spoil the true happiness in life you, and to separate you .. For me, this woman is impudent .. She must be a Sagittarius .. -ha-ha
№1, what if he pushed it and made her a child, who is to blame? Author, the man is not aware and does not waste time with him.
I wonder what to bet on - that what is written from number 1 is an irony, or that it is incredibly stupid. It seems more likely the latter. I apologize for the insult, but the statement is really stupid! The woman was impudent! And what exactly is she brazen about? That she wants to live with the father of her child, and probably her lover? !! Author, give up. He already has a family. Even if you have any feelings for you at the moment, they are temporary. Besides, he already had a chance with you, which he wasted.
Yes, I do not rule out that this man loves you, but it seems that his angel is weak and it is foolish that he allowed a child to be reached. It is not bad to get together, the child is not a reason for two people to live together, but you must be strong, because it is possible that this will happen again with another woman.
That he loves me too, there is not a gram of doubt ... my hesitations come from the fact that maybe I will feel remorse if we get together ... but is it right to feel sorry for myself all my life and accuse that I am not tried when I had the opportunity ... He was wrong, yes ... he realized, he is bitterly sorry, but we can't go back in time, the child is a fact and he loves him with all his heart ... And as for the mother of the child, it is normal to make every effort to save the "family" in which no one is happy at the moment :( I want this man, as he wants me, we want to live together ... but everyone is against and we will hurt too many people around us for our happiness; (
Well, your idiot got what he deserved. In other words - what he has crushed, it itches. I just didn't understand what you were pushing between the slaps. Instead of fainting as much as you love him and how dishonest he is, take stock - do you have to shit about this ajeba rubbish and are the decent men done, so this one has so fatally captivated you? With what? Your infidelity, your stupidity, your frivolity, or being a jerk? All qualities worthy only of love, really ...