My marriage was falling apart, and he was arguing with his wife. A spark ignited which turned into a fire and we both gave in. He doesn't suppose that I can experience such a thing, I don't know if it has happened to you - to tremble from a kiss, to feel as if a swarm of butterflies has settled in your stomach and around the clock, you feel such happiness that when you walk the streets and the people around you start to smile, to be able to look the person in the eye and to have the feeling that the world stops spinning, to stand next to him and it's like the last part of the puzzle - you feel whole. And so for 6 months. After the holidays, it turned to ice. I could see the fire in his eyes, but he looked down. I didn't need to ask - he had reunited with his wife. And I got divorced, but to this day I have no desire to live with another man. Even with him, when I was there, I wondered if I would live with him in other circumstances, but I always answered emphatically - no. Now I have another relationship with an unattached man, everything is very nice, calm, sex is amazing, but the fire is missing, I keep it away from me and I have no desire to deepen things. I am afraid of losing my freedom again. I have a panicky fear of a serious relationship. I guess this is from the nasty marriage I had, but can anyone tell me if that will change Not that I'm sick, I'm wondering if it's a normal reaction or not. I have a panicky fear of a serious relationship. I guess this is from the nasty marriage I had, but can anyone tell me if that will change? Not that I'm sick, I'm wondering if it's a normal reaction or not. I have a panicky fear of a serious relationship. I guess this is from the nasty marriage I had, but can anyone tell me if that will change? Not that I'm sick, I'm wondering if it's a normal reaction or not.
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How old are you? Do you have children? Do you miss that ...? Are you afraid that they will hurt you and that's why you don't give in completely or you just can't? "Actually, you're careful." If you want to experience the real thing, you must deliberately decide that you are giving yourself to the end of your relationship. Or fate may point you to that choice, putting in your path whatever is needed there. But is it worth the wait?
From the author. The last years of my marriage were a nightmare. It is difficult to live with a painfully jealous alcoholic. And so far he does not leave me completely and continues to threaten me sometimes. I have two children already adolescents. And they have a hard time with everything. I am afraid to give myself completely to another relationship because I am responsible for the children and if something does not work out again I do not want to disappoint them. All my acquaintances and friends say that I just haven't come across the right person who will be worth it. Maybe so, but is this fear a normal reaction? I am happy that even for a short time I experienced something real, and until the other true love ..... obviously I will wait.
It is normal to be afraid, don't worry. I fully understand and sympathize with you. I have experienced the same even now I am at a crossroads. With a few disappointments, especially with a jealous man and an alcoholic who tries in every way to harass you even after marriage and then you came across the wrong person again and you put your feelings there, how can you not be afraid? You are a woman who knows what she wants, I think, but there is no one to give it to you. Children are always victims, but I think they need time to realize what happened. Don't think you're disappointing them, I'm sure they want you to be happy. From what I read you are a strong woman, live as you live and do not worry, and this fear protects you from another mistake. Head up and go forward, don't look back and don't regret anything. That's what I can say, I hope I've been useful to you.