I am a 27 year old boy and I am afraid of women. That's why I haven't dated a girl yet and I haven't had sexual intercourse. I am shy. I don't go for companions because I'm afraid that they will spend me and just take the money without satisfying me. I have suffered 2 times from such and that is why I do not dare 3 times. If anyone here is interested in going to a companion's together, let me know. I don't go anywhere alone. And the second time they took the money in advance and ran away. I neither lost my virginity nor saw what sex was. They were very rude girls. The women have become very rude and can't turn me on. With them I can be a friend and a good colleague, but nothing more. The world is obviously very rough. Probably not the problem from me. My doors have always been wide open for friendship and more, but no one wants anything. At work, my colleagues often hang out with me, but that's it. I can't think of anything more than friendship. All my colleagues are married, I didn't think anything would happen to them. All this is an obstacle to having a family in the future. As I get older and rise in my career, I want to have a family, but I'm worried that things won't happen. I'm not one of those people who likes to intrude. It does not happen with intrusion. The person on the other side must want you. Alas, no one wants me, not even the companions I pay to get something in return, when in fact I get nothing and just take the money for themselves. The only thing I enjoy and can't take away from me is love. I imagine that there is a girl next to me that I like and she likes me. That alone makes me feel good. At work, I like all my colleagues, without sharing them and without knowing. So far, this is the only thing that makes me feel good, albeit virtually. Within this fantasy and this imagination, I get what I need, but I don't get the physical contact and connection that many people dream of. Maybe that's better for me. All evil is for good.
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And I'm just so I'm 20 when I see a girl near me and I'm ashamed and turn red. If you can find one, some more modest and kind and not very rude, but I don't know where to look for one.
I will tell you a public secret! They are all afraid of women, especially those who bark at them the most. If you are not intrusive, then you may not be one of these villains, and if you are not one of them, then the situation is not so bad. It can be done with a little more contact with people. I will tell you another public secret - women are more and more sharp with men and with life precisely because of this type of complexes. A pure and simple causal connection. From there, on the chain, those writhing in anger, even more unable to survive that they can not pretend to be great slaveholders, vomit even more malice ... and so, an endless war. Abe, don't be an evil narcissist, overestimating your abilities and everything will be right. ж22
<3> That's right - you're right, but for the United States. There, the men are already afraid to tell them a button because she has just decided that it is a sexual hint and come to "Mi tuu". Not to mention those who remembered that 10-20 years ago someone touched them on the knee and a horse left. It's for fear;) Look, you're not very right about this, but I'll tell you one thing: No matter how much you curse women, you always stay below and it will always enter you;) And the more you move, the more you enter;)) Because even if you don't want to - we choose which one to line up for;) and this is temporary;) So; P
Ehhh, I've heard a saying, and it's "God doesn't give a prickly cow horns." I say this because I've never been lucky enough to work in a women's team, and it's a huge dream of mine because I'm pretty sure I'm going to score something, even if it's temporary. If you get the chance to fuck a colleague, which even if she is married, take advantage. Firstly, it's a big thrill and secondly, this way you will break off. I wish you success.
You are afraid because you overestimate them. Suppose you are a child of a single mother. There was no one to teach you what women really are and how to treat them. You'd think they should be as kind, gentle, caring as a mother and Disney movies. But they are really rude, mercantile and cocky. Which at the same time makes them unreachable for you, and undermines your own self-esteem. But as you yourself say, all evil for good. Looking at them from this side, maybe it's more real. I will tell you a secret - no man can love a real woman, only his idea of her is always "virtual". Some men are more popular, and their wives line up and try to get into that notion, to lie to them. But this is a temporary role. In a sense, it is taken away from you, but it also takes away your chance to be disappointed when the role collapses ...