Hello. I am communicating with a girl who is older than me. Let's say she's 32 and I'm 28. It strikes me that every time we write about who likes what, she says she likes the same thing ... I've shared ten things that I like her 10 times. answers with the same ... What kind of attitude is this? Is he trying to manipulate me, feeling that at this age it will be difficult to catch a younger one, like me or have a mental problem? I ask because I don't have much experience with women. My last girlfriend was 8 years ago (the fourth in my life) and I have been alone ever since. She almost broke up with her boyfriend. The subtle point is that we haven't even seen each other. We have been writing to each other for 4 months. Help me to be a little shocked by what is happening. : D
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There is no such thing as "almost torn." Something is bothering you.
It seems that the mental problem is in you. I am 24 years older than my girlfriend and both of us like very few things. It would never occur to me to lie to her about what I like just to keep her.
Man, well, she's probably been like that since she was little ;-) There are people, both men and women, who are ready to say everything, just to please the other side, to get approval. Which is kind of sad, because her parents are usually to blame for this behavior ... they were probably pretty much ignored by their children as a child, criticized, disrespected her opinion, and from there she developed an emotional need to please herself. a person who liked it, feels close -> name a bug in your system ... (In general, the key to understanding the behavior and character of any person in general is to look into his childhood.) If I'm in your place, I'll it is quite annoying, even repulsive, because a person who does not express his own 'I' is impersonal. But be tactful with her and cut her carefully, without mocking her in any way. pp: I still can't 'grasp' the ones you download via the Internet. ж30
It is clear from your post that the one with the problem is you. First, it's funny to think that a 32-year-old woman is so old that she can't catch anyone - very limited reasoning on your part Second - look at yourself - you had a girlfriend 8 years ago, have you ever wondered why and that the problem may be in you? Third, you've taken something so serious written on the Internet that it also says you have a problem
It is possible that she is stupid and does not have her own opinion. But she is more likely to try to manipulate you. It's not worth doing, she's shallow, unless you like them.
Ole ole ... You are much younger ... Be careful that this bad poop at the age of 32 doesn't take away your virginity .... and to answer your question YES what you want to hear ... But I don't believe it's because you are MUCH younger ...
Well, look at you, what are you waiting for? And how are you sure he's looking younger? I couldn't understand this "She almost broke up with her boyfriend." Four months.
Well, it shows you that you are on the same page. As far as whether she will catch a younger or an older one - it will hardly be a problem for her. Don't think you're the only sandwich on an uninhabited island. You yourself have a serious problem finding a woman -8 years. So don't hunt for nonsense before you're 18. And what do we mean we like the same things. If there are some trivial common likes, what's so weird about him?
It is not mature behavior for a woman of this age. As for the younger ones - I'm 30 and lately my friends are still 26-28, which I don't like a bit. Many men at this age like even women around 40, so author, you're wrong with this slit for younger men ...
And I'm shocked that you think it's hard to catch a younger one in those years. First 32 is not much yet, second why do you think he wants younger. He also imagined that he really liked the same things. 10 are not like everything. Either she likes to like some of the things related to him or she likes to please. There can be many explanations. If she manipulates you with such behavior or she is shallow or thinks you are shallow, she pushes you cheap tricks .... We can guess until tomorrow! 1
I am the author. I asked her directly what caused this behavior and she replied that we just look alike ...