Feminism And Sexism

No, dear readers. This will not be another topic in which the meanings of these words are analyzed, nor will the difference between "extreme feminism" and "gender equality" be analyzed.

I hope the administrators approve the topic and also attract your attention with this (already banal) title, which I see excites a lot of readers here, and people in general.

I hope you don't get into another heated discussion in which we fight "who is stronger, smarter, better and more self-sufficient".

People, I'm sick ... I'm telling you honestly ... I'm sick that men and women are ready to fight each other for "achievements in science" and "who has done more good for humanity."

I am not told about the new methods of reproduction or about the political movements.

The problem is much deeper, and not just because "it was premeditated to be done by 'leaders' like Marx."

The damage was not caused to us only by the global manipulation, but by ourselves ...

We make this possible ourselves. But why, when we are sick of it?

Why should we quarrel over who is greater than the other, when we are equally important?

In the discussions between men and women, various arguments are regularly made, such as achievements in science, contribution to humanity by science, evidence of science that one is who is more perfect than one who ...

Why didn't anyone think of one of our natural needs called "love"? Have we forgotten that word? Or maybe we used the term without knowing the meaning ...

Yes, this same love, from which everyone trembles only at the utterance of her name ... The one that cannot be compensated by the love of mom and dad, because one day everyone grows up and wants to have a partner. Even children can't fill the lack of this love, because one day they grow up and leave, and you ...

Do your achievements in the profession warm you at night when you need caress?

Can non-binding sex and "paid love" replace this ... worship of a loved one and your attachment to him?

Perhaps I will be attacked that nowadays people who allow themselves to love do not receive love or respect. And you are right, dear readers!

You are right that nowadays love and respect are forgotten values.

We replaced them with money, we replaced them with technology, we replaced them with disputes, with illusory self-sufficiency, with artificial methods of reproduction and, of course, one of our pride ...

the same pride that prevents us from trusting others so that it is not trampled on. The same pride that has suffered even more than our feelings when our hearts were broken ...

we choose it and the stupid modern slogans over love, because we think "the risk is not worth it."

But we do not think of something that not only our favorite science has proven, but also our experience in life and intuition always draw us to it.

Love for the opposite sex, this same passionate love, taken with approval, company, attention, friendship, respect and some strange kind of obedience and power taken together ... it is our natural need ... I would not want to interfere with homosexuals relationships because they are another topic.

But to tell you the truth, I'm sorry. I feel sorry for the time when men were heroes and women were ladies. I feel sorry for the time when the "knight on a white horse" defended the honor of his beloved, and she did not consider it humiliating or offensive, and there was no need to pretend to be "heavy" (as modern people put it) or be a feminist, to have self-respect ... yes, the time when a woman could afford to be weak and tender, because she knew that there was someone to protect her honor if someone encroached and someone to fight for her happiness .. and men proved their strength not by beatings and violence or insults.

But now I'm wondering something ... I haven't experienced these times ... I've only heard about them and watched them in the movies ... were there really such times? Or are they just a figment of someone's imagination?

My romantic views have not been influenced by all modern trends ... you will probably consider me crazy, but my question is the following. Do you really have enough of this self-sufficiency that you all fight so hard for?

Because I myself believe that every "strong and independent lady" dreams of being loved and adored by her lover, but unfortunately the lack of love has turned her into ... "a strong and self-sufficient woman who is proud of it." ..

And the men who brag about how good they are and can do better without us ... would sex with a prostitute replace the caress of your beloved? Or did you not have such a favorite because sex and supremacy are more important?

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natalia_blue answered · July 14, 2020

The caress of my beloved placed on the scales turned out to be light as a feather to her endless pretensions, grumbling, dissatisfaction, unresponsiveness, laziness ... I have not used a prostitute because it is not a problem for me to find one who wants (agrees to) sex without commitment. Admitting feelings during sex today, unfortunately, does not lead to anything good. Precisely because of the title, so to speak.

widdni answered · July 14, 2020

Okay, but how do you imagine two people falling in love, getting along and not getting together because of ... a "slogan". Nowadays, everyone expresses all sorts of nonsense, provocations, etc. to attract attention, because there is the Internet, there is the media ... Regarding the comments here ... Well, there are men who insult women (ie verbal aggression) and women respond in the same way (extremely). Of course, both opinions are extreme (and everything is not very good). About career ... Well, nowadays people don't have enough ... it's not about gender.

beautifullychocolate answered · July 14, 2020

"But now I'm wondering something ... I haven't been through these times ... I've only heard about them and watched them in the movies ... were there really such times?" There was yes. But after the Cold War, everything went to hell. Then I had a girlfriend I trusted insanely. I was the first, she to me too. He was waiting for me from the barracks. It came to my oath. He came to visit me whenever possible. I ran away from the barracks to serenade her. Then we lived in Student City on potatoes and compote. What tears we shed together ... What difficulties we went through. Four years. Then she started cheating on me. 6 times. Since then she has changed more boyfriends than I have fingers and toes. She currently has a child from one with 3 marriages, her child is his 4th. He has never seen it. She is a single mother and has no breast milk because of worries about how she will look after him alone ... Oh, yes, she is one of the most sworn feminists I know. I really like what you wrote, but a little idealistic, so I'll tell you that. Women don't want princes. They are the princes and now they are. They don't want gentlemen. They do not want respect. They even vomit from good treatment. They want to be valid. They want social status. They want angry peasants to fuck them roughly. Chalga clubs are full of women. Aren't women choosing? If they go to chalga clubs, then they want to choose them. Accordingly, they find such. You are a girl, think carefully about what you want ... Because in this corrupt time it is easy to slip and then your idealism, which you wrote about here, will easily evaporate. However, it is obvious that you are one of those 20% of women who have their heads over their shoulders. How long it depends on you ....

halo_star answered · July 14, 2020

Men and women were not created to live together. This is the whole drama of human society. Everyone is self-sufficient. Males and females have nothing in common - they are too different and come together only under the pressure of society and / or the body's commands to reproduce. The male sex is expressive, it should not be placed in frames such as family, monogamy, etc. From time immemorial, women have done everything possible to limit their husbands, which is contrary to their primordial nature. As for male-female opposition and the spread of extreme feminism in recent decades, they have also been created artificially and for purposes that do not benefit people.

stella_love93 answered · July 14, 2020

The truth is in the middle! Yes, it's nice to have ladies and gentlemen, but in the 21st century to flutter helplessly with lashes and wait for a man for everything? !! Well, no thanks! And then why until the beginning of the 20th century the woman was owned by her husband. I will not forget the scene from a movie about a widow and they refused to take possession of her deceased husband's property because she was a woman. And she said the following: As a child I was the property of my father, as a wife I was the property of my husband, now you deny me something that rightfully belongs to me just because I am not someone's property. Well, not to be seen, I think I only had some value as a prostitute! It was a western, but my point is, our great-grandmothers were ladies, but at what cost? At the cost of FULL obedience first to the fathers, then to their husbands, and one day, if they remain widows, to their sons. Well, no thanks! No education, no right to own property, no own income or minimal income, because eventually women are allowed to work from home. Is this called a good life? But yes, she was a lady! And staggering to the other extreme is also not good, however. A 50-year-old lonely careerist who has no one and is insanely afraid of what she will do if she loses her job, because she has no one to rely on for anything. And she doesn't want to think at all about what she will do when she retires, because she will be sitting alone in the luxury apartment and wondering what she will spend her time with. So I think it's best to find the golden mean. Yes, I work, I love my job, but in the evening I can't wait to go home to my beloved man so that we can cook something for dinner TOGETHER and snuggle on the couch and enjoy the time together. I'm not a bored housewife waiting for her husband to take care of everything because she was a "lady" and couldn't do this or that, nor am I one of the chicks who works 16 hours a day and comes home to bathe and to sleep a few hours before running back to build a career. Yes, sometimes it takes effort and compromise to have such a relationship, but it's worth it.

5uckscocks answered · July 14, 2020

Number 5, you didn't understand what I meant. When I say 'lady', I don't mean the old-fashioned meaning of 'fluttering eyelashes' and 'owning someone'. Many hard-working and self-supporting women are ladies because they have personal self-esteem and radiate femininity as an attitude and attitude towards appearance, but this does not mean that they want to live alone like cuckoos. And a "gentleman" is not a man who "owns his wife" or who supports her. A gentleman is a man who views a woman as a being with rights and respect, not as a breeding animal, a "satisfaction device," or his property. Nowadays, however, women think that they create such an impression by proving that they do not need men. That's why I think a lot of these women are unhappy. I do not agree at all with what number 4 says. Yes, we are really different and that is why we were created to complement each other. In my opinion, at least. I think that it is no coincidence that nature has created two sexes for us, and only between these two sexes can a child be conceived naturally. Just as Yin and Yang complement each other, being different. And how are we not created to live together? After all, the family is built of both sexes and the child needs both the male and the female model? Please do not interfere with the problem of homosexuality! If we are self-sufficient, why can't we reproduce on our own, and why do we naturally feel drawn to and need what complements us? For me, "different from mine" is not unnecessary, on the contrary! It is necessary precisely because you do not have it by nature and it complements you as well as you complement it. I am not saying that we should be weak and belong to our husbands, nor that a man should be a powerful tyrant. Does the fact that a woman works means that she is self-sufficient and that there is no need for caress? Does the fact that a man is strong mean that he must be an "evil dictator" towards the woman? Amy, of course, the stronger ones have to prove their strength by defending the weaker ones, not by harassment and violence against them. When I say "ladies" and "gentlemen," I do not mean the noble type of the Middle Ages and the Renaissance. I mean a more modern (if I may call it that) model, in which both sexes have the right to work and education, but are not at enmity, but help each other. So, I mean times when career or personal development does not replace your need for a partner and does not make your relationship with another person unnecessary. Does wanting to be successful mean you don't need love? Many people choose a career over love. Well, they succeed, but they have no one to share those successes with. They have no heirs, no halves. They are strange to me. Should a man be ashamed if his wife works? Or to oppress her that "she was weaker and he was the head of the family"? Emmy no, if your wife works, then she helps you and the whole family and her contribution should be respected. But many women refuse to marry or start a relationship for fear of being "enslaved." Somewhat justified fear, but I wonder how many of these women are really happy alone. Yes, it is true that no woman will want to be a slave. Loneliness is preferable, but I do not believe that it makes us happier than True Love, which neither enslaves us nor makes us lonely. I don't like this image of a strong and self-sufficient woman, because it is not feminine at all .... And cavalry is a sign of masculinity, in my opinion. But what do I understand. To be honest, I'll go through some neo-feminist periods when I was a teenager, but I never thought I'd turn that into the maxim of my life. And no, I'm not alone now. I'm just tired of these modern trends. It is true that men and women are very different from each other, and that is why we should be valuable to each other.

mooreraven111 answered · July 15, 2020

I read this with mixed feelings. The cynic in me was smiling condescendingly. The "old-fashioned retiree" stared sadly, as if peering out of a slightly open window at the bizarre and beautiful valleys long overdue. The pragmatist kept annoying with annoyance that this was a chewed-up dilemma from which nothing new would emerge. Or useful. Or permanently. In the end, it seems to me that the author has confused the section. And the weather. And the place. But I hope at least she will be lucky and meet a person who will be on her waves, otherwise the future will not be so pleasant for her ...

evenaughty84 answered · July 15, 2020

Or maybe the author should stop expecting someone else to make her happy, hmm?

jakluvall answered · July 15, 2020

Number 8, I'm not waiting for someone else to make me happy. I'm not really alone in life, I'm just upset that nowadays the boundaries between masculinity and femininity are so blurred ..

sexykarensexy answered · July 16, 2020

Feminism is not about women working, it has always been in some form. Feminism is a satanic movement that seeks to distort women's nature and turn women into transvestites by making them behave like men. See only the last shoots of the devil's worshipers in Hollywood - Batman is replaced by the bat woman who sprinkles left and right feminist slogans for "strong" women, Superman is replaced by a super-throat, even Santa Claus wants to replace him with a woman or with a "gender neutral image" that is, gender. In the States and in the specialty, Hollywood is also full of transvestites / transgender people who think of their favorite actresses, singers, etc. and they are actually genders who have undergone sex reassignment surgery and are taking hormones. All this comes from Satanism and hermaphroditism in occult religions, which is transmitted from secret societies to the general public through the media, conventions and the like. Let's be clear - all this comes directly from the devil.

zoebabyhot answered · July 16, 2020

Author - what you are talking about is intentional and done on purpose. People are just heavily manipulated. I also believe that women should behave like women and men like men. After all, after we are born in a body, it is right to experience all kinds of experiences related to our gender, not the other person's.

hairydaddy54 answered · July 16, 2020

People, we all know that it was created on purpose. Let's see the result of all this manipulation - unhappy people, broken families, loneliness and lack of morality everywhere. Well, it is right for the manipulated to get rid of the effect of the manipulation.

hunghulk20 answered · July 17, 2020

There used to be men, there were women. There were no other "genders", there was no "feminism" and everyone loved each other. Now there are neutral sexes (or there as they are called), there is a division between men and women and we are stuck We are all the fruit of this love of the past because we were born. My family even to this day (my parents are 70) are together and their relationship is strong. And now there are no children. There are single mothers. There are also divorces. I think these facts are indicative that SOMETHING IS WRONG! People, they are manipulating us!

braingirl answered · July 17, 2020

That's why the floods! To cleanse the earth of abominations. Movies and shows have brainwashed people. At first, supposedly fun, and then hell. Plus the internet, provocations everywhere. It has always seemed to me that extraterrestrial intelligence is ruining the human. Because man was created to be constructive for good. And today at every step of nonsense. Well, if we weren't so pessimistic, there are options to get out of the traps. And at the time I was watching some opinions here, someone was watching a movie where the woman was not respected. Well, it's exactly the movies that brainwash us. Neither my grandmother nor the other was owned by my grandfathers. On the contrary, they were healthy families, they were hardworking, they respected each other. And my great-grandfathers died in the wars at the beginning of the last century, and there the families were somewhere with morals. So turn off the TV, limit the internet and keep the mind clearer.

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