Hello, I am a 35-year-old woman. married to a beautiful child. But for some time my husband and I have wanted to have a second, but he wants us not to deal with clinics and hospitals and wants me to conceive naturally, and if you go to Bulgaria. in clinics your pocket should be full! So I want to share the following - my husband wants me to go out with a much younger boy than me and to conceive from him without knowing the boy, he is young and for many years he wants to have sex with me. I am facing a very big dilemma, I both want and doubt what will happen next - our marriage is happy! I just don't know what to do and I think that there may be the same case here - if there is, give advice, but without judging !!! Thanks in advance....
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Olele. I wouldn't do that. This is neither good nor at least a little moral. You're together, you're talking, and why can't you have one? There is always a way to get pregnant by your husband.
Fiction squared.
Enough with these fabrications! And read a little!
Doesn't your husband have his own sperm, why should you conceive from another ??
This is complete nonsense. What normal man would make his wife sleep with another man to get pregnant and then he would look at the child as his own. Absurd. Are you again, troll!
It is not clear why you need to be fertilized by another? Better a poor horse than no horse at all.
I think it would be a very ugly story. Living in such a lie is not normal at all, you will lie to everyone around you and this child too. This is not normal, if one day he or those around you find out, what are you doing? If the happy marriage is over and the DNA test turns out to be a weapon aimed at someone? If you were told now that you were a child of some uncle and not of your father, how would you feel? My mind does not understand how you can want such a thing at all.
Do not do it. This will undermine your relationship forever, and it is unfair to the biological father and the future child.
As long as people are not fair this is a nasty scam.
You write that you have one child. Is it from your husband? What's wrong with him that you can't have a second child? I do not understand?
Please !? Isn't your husband 90 !?
Your husband is a fool. Because of ONE ECONOMY will he experiment with his family? I went through IVF recently and I have observations. 1. At 35 it can take you 6m attempts naturally. That is, prepare a sex marathon for 3 days, every 3 hours. The more time passes, the harder it becomes. The husband can get quite sour. 2. It is impossible to predict what attitude he will develop towards the child, he can be negative and declare him "foreign". 3. The donor can develop paternal feelings at any time. EXACTLY FOR THIS savings and experiments are not made. The cheaper option is artificial insemination, the most expensive IVF and PGS.
The story is made up!
If you want cheap fertilization, this young boy can give you sperm in a test tube and the author can inject it herself (or her husband can do it), but it seems that the donor is not the donor, but the injection itself, it seems he wants a young foal to ride it !? If the author is young, is the husband 90 years old? And even if he is 90, he can still semen, and insertion can be done by other methods.
Horror - I don't believe what I read. That this is not a patch to tear it apart? This is a child. Forgive me, but is your husband mentally well?
And it's funny to me how different people reacted with some super emotion to this fictional story. I don't care if I have to be present at your reactions to any real things ...
I didn't understand if your husband is 50 years old or what is the problem? Don't you think that hospitals also mean clinics - what a stupid combination of "clinics and hospitals". It's like saying you don't want to travel by bus or coach, but the whole article is full of stupidity.
When I read "Fertilization" I immediately imagined a larva of a mantis. Don't you have so many other activities that you wonder how to use a young and unsuspecting boy as a donor of your absurd fiction. Your poor child does not deserve such crazy parents.