This is probably the most banal story, but I just want some advice on that. I had a girlfriend - we were like Siamese twins and after about a year since we were officially best friends in the whole thing a boy intervened. She went with him and I did not mind - they were happy, and once I went out with them, a few days later he he dropped it and it turned out that it was because of me and I, as the biggest idiot, tied up with him and went with him. She hasn't spoken to me since. I've tried all sorts of ways to get along with her - to no avail. Now I miss her, but I'm not tired of crawling for an apology, and I still miss her ... Give me advice, please !!!
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Hi darling and I had such a problem with a friend. I was looking for her to apologize to her, I tried to reconcile with her, but all to no avail. I stopped looking for her and did not talk about her in front of mutual friends and about a month later she looked for me herself
Well .. I think you will need the opinion of a girl on the other side of the problem ... I experienced almost the same thing with a girl I knew for 5 years .. she was like a sister to me .. She made this mistake, I forgave her. Every day she explained to me how much she loves me .. more than her mother .. etc., She roared on my shoulder .. And I thought only about how to take revenge on her so that at least 1/1888888800 would hurt her from this pain , which I experienced .. I haven't seen her for almost half a year .. and I don't want to .. She will remain a garbage for me .. Since then I haven't loved, I haven't fallen in love .. I haven't wanted to falling in love .. NO LOVE! There is only a call ...
You acted badly, it's true that life is nasty, but in that case "itch your potpourri" and be careful not to give it back!
If you really still hold on to her, not only apologize to her, but also do something nice that you know she will like, show her that you are really sorry, and if she still holds on to you, she will forgive you.
It's late, kid ... But if you want, try to explain to her that he made fun of both of you. And there is love. When and where it will come is another question.
apologize and forgive yourself