So I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been together recently, but yesterday he invited me to sleep with them. I went, we watched a movie and suddenly things got more serious. I told him I was a virgin, and he told me he hadn't even thought about having sex. He said he didn't even take condoms, but things came together so he asked me if I wanted to do it. I told him I didn't want to do without a condom, he almost calmed me down, he said I had nothing to worry about. I don't even know what happened and what we did. . He explained to me several times that I had nothing to worry about, but I really wasn't very aware of all this and I was wondering if I should trust him. I'm really asking you to explain or give me advice ... is there a chance I could get pregnant or I don't know. I've just been very confused since last night and I don't know what to do ...
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I will not judge you that it was without a condom. But one piece of advice - if you don't see the ejaculation itself, by no means believe the man that he hasn't finished in you. He may have dropped it, but then he will hardly start wiping.
There is always a chance. In this case, I don't know what to tell you - only you two were there, we are not fortune tellers here. If he hasn't finished in you and only scored a few times, this chance is very minimal (but he still has it). If it's over in you, there's something to worry about, but since he says it's not, in this case there's nothing you can do but believe him. I don't advise you to take a pill if you're not sure it's over inside. But this situation should be a lesson to you. Sex without a condom is aerobatics and definitely not for tanned 16-year-olds. These men always say you have nothing to worry about, I'll keep you from other nonsense, but then if something happens, it will be on your head, not his, right? That's why you have to take care of yourself. He just doesn't have unprotected sex. It's very nice for the boy to melt the pepper naked, but then who takes the consequences and the worries? You. I don't think you're pregnant, but just in case, take a test after 14 days and don't let him flirt with you without a condom unless you want to become a parent.
I think he emptied into you in half a minute and wiped it in the curtain.
Well, at 16, your head is now absorbing knowledge like a sponge ... Couldn't you take 2-3 hours to find out about it? And don't you teach them these things at school? How can you wait until the last moment, and even miss it, to remember to learn something? Nor do we know the situation ... "he did something" - and what is it? A condom costs pennies. Should you do such nonsense?
Has it penetrated you or not? If it has NOT penetrated, you cannot get pregnant. But I would advise you to leave this boy for sex and wait another year or two. If you're 16, I guess this is your first boyfriend. My advice is this, DO NOT give yourself the virginity of the first is early. And the rest I will tell you read sexual topics, I see that you know too little or talk about it with a mature person. I wish you success. Paris
I doubt it so quickly. My boyfriend and I have been doing this for several months and I am not pregnant.