Hello, I am writing here not so much for advice, because I have already received a lot of it, but just to share, because I need to talk! My story is quite long, I will still try to write the most important and I will be grateful if you read it to the end! I am a 23-year-old girl from Pazardzhik. I went to study in Sofia and recorded something that I had no idea what it was, which I still regret to this day. There were five boys in the course, one of whom had sympathy for me, and we slowly began to write to each other. He had a relationship just like that, and I was wondering how to tell the boy I was with that I no longer had feelings. He was also my first boyfriend in life, but we were not intimate with him. So we started talking about this topic and I didn't like it at first, but I call myself a weaver and I'm alone, and there are five boys in the course, I'll try. And we were together non-stop for two and a half years. The bad thing is that he is from Vidin and is terribly attached to theirs, while I am in constant conflict with mine. And during those years I cried almost constantly and even wondered how he put up with me, but he said that he loved me very much, that he wanted a child, here with me ... Time passed, he finished, I was still dragging my exams. Now he will be enrolling for a master's degree and we had agreed to live in Sofia, and I somehow felt that this would not happen, maybe because I am always negative or why, but I felt it. And a month ago he started writing only for good night and good morning and I wanted to test him and I said that this could not continue and I think we will have to give ourselves time ... something I did not think, but I wanted to scare him .. he first called to see me and talk, but then suddenly he served,
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One thing I can't figure out from the whole story (hoping you can stand criticism) is how a 23-year-old girl can write this way, given that she most likely has a semester of higher education? !! You are illiterate and you want to multiply? I don't understand which self-respecting person would allow this to happen ... As for your question, I can tell you that these are children's stories - your relationship has long since flown away and weathered, and the boy in front of your eyes has continued his life . Whatever your style of speech, you are also emotionally illiterate. I would advise you to calm down a bit and take the reins of life very seriously, because I'm sure you don't want to end up like a doormat no matter who :) Life hasn't fucked you enough, because you seem to be quite sloppy.
Overcome it you have no choice.
Your boyfriend broke up with you, and ??? I don't understand where the big drama is, that your life has collapsed? If something happens to you that really ruins your life, you will probably commit suicide. Tighten up a bit, at 23, not 13.
Off, wow, that's how I knew you would start right away ... I wanted to write as many things as possible and do you know at the moment how much I'm int what is written, I know for myself that I'm smart and I won't prove myself to anyone .... I wanted to share my pain simply, but I was obviously wrong ... and I was thinking about suicide, because imagine that there are such people and only I know what happened to me and my loved ones
This is a standard woman's wear and tear, a classic scenario. Here it is: the main thing is that she thinks of herself as special and that everything should revolve around her and satisfy her whims. She burdens her partner with her problems and constantly wants attention, she thinks that she is special and he has to take care of her needs. She herself does not invest as much as she takes from the relationship. The plant-like relationship begins to wither, there is a lack of life-giving juices, the woman is too selfish and exhausts love, leaving only an empty shell. She knows deep down that it's her fault, but she complains in forums and other women reassure her that it's not her fault and he's a user and a scoundrel and the cycle continues.
Do not turn back. With this connection you do not have a good present, let alone any future. Forget it and move on. It is difficult, but in time it will fade and you will find the right person. Good luck!
It's not because of you, it's just that your relationship has run out, you've changed as people, it happens very often. I know it hurts, but you have to take care of yourself. What is a man for you who constantly changes his mind and does not know what he wants. Pay attention to yourself, in time you will find a more suitable one
I understand you perfectly because I am so very difficult to go through the separation with a loved one, but you have to make him young and the future is before you. Find another wedge, wedge kills this is most effective.
What can I tell you, probably the distance from Pz to Vn is very big, you probably cry too much, probably because of what you want, maybe he can too. Offff, I'm tired of writing in your language, I'll drive in mine, and you, if you understand me well, if you don't understand me, well again. In this case, you teased yourself by offering him time, obviously you expected them to fall to your knees and kiss your feet, but you didn't realize that the "wet" ones are dudes and they don't get flat numbers. To garnish all this, he is preparing for a Master's degree, and you are still dragging your exams, which is a very serious signal that you are disorganized and no one wants to drag someone else's yoke. Your stories about your parents tell you something else, unless it turns out that you support yourself - otherwise you are ungrateful, and no one wants to fall into the situation of "Feed a dog, bark at you." From your second post, something else is clear - it is very easy to get hold of things that are in fact the truth itself. Do you think that he also did not notice (in your numerous novels) that you are illiterate and cannot organize your thoughts? And to top it all off, but I don't believe he cheated, because every summer I'm here in Pz, and he's in Vidin and it hasn't been that far, and we were in Sofia non-stop together and he didn't even have time to have another, and he also said that if there is something better to tell the person ... "- what infidelities, what 5 levs they suffer, you probably wrote to him about these phantasmagorias, and nobody likes to blame him for something he hadn't even thought about. And lastly, about ruined life and suicidal thoughts - well come on, do it, do you think that anyone will be impressed? They will put you in the column of another madman and in a month they will forget you - you think that someone's cap will bend, even if it bends, you can't see it and experience another masochistic pleasure from cutting the branch, on which you stand. Sorry, but you messed up the pages you are sitting in, your only chance is to get out of them on your own, and this only happens in one way - you sit on the alphabet, finish your education, show others that you are a person you can count on, you take the helm of life and stop whining that others have harmed you, underestimated you, cheated you, etc. When and if you read what I wrote, your tears will dry up, you will be overwhelmed. rage and you'll want to tear me to pieces - use that energy and tear up the textbooks, show me that you are better or at least not worse than the others, finish what you have already started and set a new goal! Last but not least - fix your relationship with your parents, the relationship with them is blood, not sperm!
From the admin: What kind of people are you? Do you have hearts? Do you know me to insult me? I explicitly said that I write like this because I am emotional, as I am now !!!!!!!!! Is this the most important thing how I wrote it in a moment of pain ???? Who did you stand for ???? I'm sorry I shared my story at all. I just wanted to share my pain and I always hoped that there were other people like me who would understand me. Write what you want now, I will not read your insults. And to the people who just expressed their opinion, thank you from the bottom of my heart and I appreciate it !!!!
"Админ"?!?!?!
Some do not differentiate between admin and author