Hello to all of you who think that your life is nasty and you get depressed, various nonsense or that the boy from the next class doesn't pay attention to you! Yours is not a nasty life - it's mine! At the age of 22 and I feel like 50, I have no friends because as a child I had an illness and I was always more depressed than the others - I was the object of ridicule, so I ended up without friends. I had at least my relatives, noooo alas ... One of my grandmothers burned alive in a house, my grandfather died from drinking a lot, my uncle died in an accident. My other grandmother died - the second died and my grandfather died, the third - my father - from cancer! Is there anything to live for - my mother and my brother are left ... but the problems don't stop - my brother almost didn't go to prison because of an accident - now he is ruined ... and what ... how to i do how i feel. My mother is ill because she is stuck in loans and no one can help us, her salary is small - everything lies on her! I haven't had a job for 3 years now - I just have nowhere to find it, I've tried but without money ... Life so hardens me that I'm insensitive to everything ... nothing makes me happy for years, and can a person live without happiness ??
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g30: You have a net, so you can look for and find a job ... Not what you want, not what is suitable for you, but ANY job. Don't just rely on your mother. What if she's gone tomorrow? !! You weren't the only one with the disease. MANY other people are sick even now. Not only you are without friends ... Many people are without friends ... Friends are not those who are constantly by your side and with you, but those who are by your side in difficult situations. But you should not look for them only then, but share the VERY happy and VERY sad moments with them. And what do you need to change and do to make it different? Think about it, change starts from the inside out ... Good luck!
If you can't find a job in your hometown, look for the resorts ... There are many ads and you can always get information if they are good employers. There are jobs for saleswomen and maids ... And if you know languages even better, reception, flyers or service (and if you gain a little experience you can go to a nice place), and if you are nice and polite you will make good money. .. You will be able to help your mother ... There is enough work in this country, but we are either bored or our expectations are high ..
I fully understand some things. About how you feel because you have no friends and let me tell you so am I. I'm home all day and I feel like hell alone. It's not because I'm stupid or congested, for example, it just happened. Some things in my life made it happen. Now I see no way out of this situation. I'm 21 and for more than 2 years I also can't find a job, I'm looking everywhere, but it still doesn't work. I'm already wondering what to do ... Of course it can't be a comparison between us, because you have experienced many great losses and misfortunes for your age. I don't even know why I'm telling you all this, I just wanted to tell someone ...
I wish I could help you. I understand that so many losses and serious illnesses are deeply imprinted in your life. I don't know where and how to look for happiness after all this. I could hardly be stronger in your situation. That is why people go to churches, or some circles of people with common interests - they find solace in the friendship of people like or able to listen without giving judgments and criticism. At least you can tell someone without getting even more depressed.
Well, now you think only of yourself. If, God forbid, you commit suicide, for example, your mother and brother will totally go crazy. It's as if only you feel all the filth. People have lost so many loved ones, now her child is dying because she can't take it anymore ... You make things more complicated. You will manage. Life fucks up, but gives opportunities to fix things!
I was very sick when I read the story to you; but it would be nice to find a job here to earn money for tickets, etc. of course if you decide to go abroad and find a job there. divorced .. and my mother and boyfriend and work in Germany and now when I'm done I'm leaving .. and one more thing .. make your mother happy .. if you don't have a job ... clean the house ... wash the dishes ... make her happy .. say and often that you love her very much; (.. I even cried ..; (... I wish you a lot of success and luck; (