In connection with the last topic on the subject, I was left with the impression that a great experience of a man means a large number. I want to ask if you think the experience is in the number or in the time spent in sex / relationships. In a sense, isn't a man more experienced who has had regular sex with 1-2 women, but in long-term relationships of 10 years (for example), than someone who has slept with 50 women, but once or twice. I have an opinion about myself, but I am also interested in yours and especially in women. If you think about it, a man even with a long relationship of 10 years, may have had sex say 2-3000 times, while a man who slept with 100 women in some fleeting relationship, for 2-3-5 times, will have had sex 300-500 times. Purely mathematically, the woman will have 5-10 times less sexual experience, not to mention emotional, but I am left with the impression that only the number is considered for the experience.
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The numbers will be worn to the other world - alone and complex and the problem is only theirs
It doesn't matter how much you slept, it matters what you did with the person. To sleep with 50 women but only the dog, or to sleep with 1 woman for years and tried all sorts of poses and techniques. Who do you think will be more experienced. And sex is not nuclear physics. The important thing is to be free and not care when you do it.
In my opinion, the experience comes with the fact that every woman is different - there are different requirements, feelings and so on. Also, the experience is influenced by the experience of the partner, so the truth is in the middle - it is good to have some experience, but not only in one-time relationships.
That's two different experiences. For example, the one with long-term relationships has learned what it's like to live with a woman, how relationships change over time, they've known each other very well sexually, and they've seen what it's like to relax completely with someone in bed. The one with short relationships has encountered many different characters, had the opportunity to compare, met many sexual styles and realized how different every woman is. On one the experience is more profound but limited, on the other the experience is much more comprehensive but more superficial.
From this point of view, I will give the following example. Imagine that you move with a partner all your life in a plane and this is your experience. Whole life. Now imagine something else. That in your life you go through different terrains ... deserts, jungles ... mountains ... rocks. I think he got the idea of the experience and the numbers. But the truth is that with this sexually uneducated society, the chance of catching someone with whom to gain experience from the first partner is minimal. Apart from the age and level of desire to try something new. So sex and experience are not black and white to describe. They are individual for everyone. But as a rule, with a few exceptions, people with more partners have more experience (excluding those who do it only for the number and lie on their backs for 15 minutes, of course).
It depends on what experience we are talking about. Sexual experience is achieved through relationships with different girls. No matter how much sex you have, no matter how much you diversify with the same partner, I can't accept that you gain a lot of sexual experience. As for attitude - 2-3 long relationships bring you the necessary experience to start a family. You get used to living with someone else, to make compromises, to adjust your character. So - who is looking for what.
It's different for everyone. It depends on childhood, environment, character, what you are looking for, do you need time to make a living, do you want a serious relationship at all - everything is reflected, there are many factors. As a woman, I would recommend something to still young and inexperienced men. However, it is important for a man to be infinitely honest with the women in his life and to show that he respects them. To strive to leave behind not a bunch of deceived and injured women in order to raise their self-confidence, but good memories. If you're not sure you can give a woman what she wants, just don't lie to her, because going back doesn't hurt much. If you don't like her as a woman - be delicate, but don't lie to her either. This distinguishes a man from a boy. There is nothing wrong with the large number, as long as you observe hygiene, safety equipment, etc. It is not bad to look for great love and not put up with less. Maybe it's really better for a man to have experience, even a bitter one, with relationships before starting a family. In this way he will both appreciate what he has and the temptations will not attract him so much, he will react more adequately in different situations, he will not be childish and a consumer with unrealistic expectations of the woman will play him.
As a man he slept with 50 women, he did the same with them, and when he slept with 3-4 but was with them for years, he learned other things in sex, how to satisfy, how to he doesn't think only of himself, he has learned what a relationship is. I would choose the second. For both a woman and a man it is not good to have many partners - for me it is unclean, because you can catch a disease and do not think about the consequences.
It depends on what you mean by the word EXPERIENCE. If you've had sex with one or two women 3,000 times, that doesn't make you more experienced than a man who has had sex with 70 women 2,000 times by the age of 40. When communicating with many women, you get to know the female character and nature. From 2 women you will hardly understand the different sexuality of women, as well as their characters. Every woman is unique sexually. One woman wants one thing in sex and another woman doesn't want to hear about it. One woman is temperamental and another may be frigid. One woman gets a vaginal orgasm and another just a clitoral orgasm. Some women experience only one orgasm, and there are women who experience multiple orgasms. Female sexuality is different. If you have had two women in your life and one has experienced only a clitoral orgasm, and the other does not always reach even one orgasm. And what you personally learned from your experience with the two women - almost nothing. And a man who has had sex with all sorts of women with different sexualities and different personalities has a much greater sexual experience and knows the female soul better. He will choose as his wife the woman with whom they are most suitable both sexually and as a character with whom to build a healthy family. He will satisfy her sexual needs as she will his and will have fewer family problems or even almost none. The greater sexual experience of men with more women will certainly benefit him when he decides to choose a family partner in his life. He will choose as his wife the woman with whom they are most sexually and as a character with whom to build a healthy family. He will satisfy her sexual needs as she will his and will have fewer family problems or even almost none. The greater sexual experience of men with more women will certainly benefit him when he decides to choose a family partner in his life. He will choose as his wife the woman with whom they are most sexually and as a character with whom to build a healthy family. He will satisfy her sexual needs as well as she his and will have fewer family problems or even almost none. The greater sexual experience of men with more women will certainly benefit him when he decides to choose a family partner in his life.
9, for the first part you are right that many numbers lead to a more diverse sexual experience. But that women had healthier families is nonsense. The reason is very simple - a person in many fleeting relationships never learns about relationships and maturity, on the contrary, he only learns to consume, because he is just used to fuck a few times and go to the next. He is not accustomed to solving problems, he is not accustomed to compromise, he is not accustomed to maturity, to help, to sacrifice when necessary, he is not accustomed to patience and understanding to the other even, he is accustomed to take his and bye. Not to mention that very often the habit remains, and often such people are just polygamous by nature and giggle after marriage and do not sleep at all for a wife and children.
Number 10, there is no polygamy by nature, otherwise I agree with the rest. Millet number 9 is a representative of the male part resembling women, who deny that the number matters.
M 20 years. So far I have not done it. And now I prefer not to do it because of the worry that I will expose myself. Nowadays, 14-15 year olds start to squirm. At the same time, if the girl is not like a model, I can't be impressed, and those who are like a model going to bed with someone who is his first time, I guess they will be quite disappointed, which makes me stay as a monk :(
№ 13 - do you look like a model? You know, your models are paralyzed - how many millions do you have? Do you have fantastic or at least decent sex? Once the answer to the three questions is no, head to the monastery. Or watch porn.
Every woman is different, that's it. I'll explain it to you. If you've slept with 30 women, you've probably learned not to be ashamed and you're good at dirty sex with strangers, which is not like sex in love. Well done, that's something. If you slept with 3 women, giving each of them a few years, then you learned almost everything about these 3 and had the time and opportunity to improve your technique, movements, rhythm, endurance. Well done again, that's something too. Now let's say you and I are leaving. In both cases, you will have experience with other women, but no experience with me. This is what really excites me ... Some women like fast sex and others like slow sex. Some fall for squeezing and others for gentle touches. Each is different. Whatever experience you have, well done to you, but you will not have experience specifically with the next one, until you learn what she likes and you learn to do it. Many years of experience with a woman will teach you much more than the experience with 10 different ones in one night, but it does not matter, because the next one will come and you will still have to pay individual attention to her. No matter how much you think that the duration with one partner makes you good, remember that it makes you good for this partner, and not in general and not for everyone.
In sex is feelings and imagination. The average intelligent and mature person knows this. Also a lot of passion. There is no experience.
15, i.e. you mean it's important for you to pay attention to you long enough and learn what and how you like. However, the question arises, if I am of the womanizer type, what is the probability that they have the patience to give you so much time and attention, and not out of habit to poke you twice and forget you. If I've slept with 100 women and I haven't stayed with any of them, why should I do it with you? Hey that's the question.