Hello, I'm a 16-year-old boy and I have an awful lot of moles (flat) all over my body and neck. I don't have legs. I can go out as a complex, but the problem for me has always existed and always when I went to the pool with friends or in the locker room I was more or less ashamed of them. I decided that with more training I would make a body with which moles would not matter at all. I'm stronger now, but I'm still annoyed when I look at the tiles or the back, for example, and see a lot of moles. My question is this: Girls, are you influenced by your choice of a boy or moles in general (in large quantities) do they matter much when you see a boy (if he is beautiful, for example, I am blond and have had fans and boyfriends)? Because lately I've been stagnant and I feel like I'm rolling myself up, that moles are making me ugly and I want to make sure that this is not something decisive. I know it affects your judgment, but do you think you would go with a boy who has a good character, good body, sports, intelligent? Would moles stop you?
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I'm 16 like you but I'm a girl. In my opinion, it doesn't matter how many moles you have or whether you have a good character :)
Oh God, there's nothing shameful about that, I even find it cute: 3 That shouldn't bother you. I read somewhere that if you have a lot of moles, you will live for many years, and I don't know if it's true. At least I'm glad they're not embossed :))
of course, you don't have to worry about that, and I think it's charming.
Oh it's very sweet. : 3 I'm a girl. I think it would be nice to see a blond boy with freckles all over his body. Don't worry at all! And if you have a nice body ... good luck to you! M
I'm 15: 3 And there's really no reason to worry at all. It's even cute, at least that's my opinion. I don't look like a superficial idiot, but once you have a nice body, they don't matter at all. And if you have a good character. Definitely do not worry about this small detail, but enjoy everything positive in yourself!
Hey, sweetie, that's your problem. In many cases, moles are the charm of a person. Don't worry ^^
No. I'm a girl and I don't care at all. Even at all. It is more important to be a dude and to have a charming smile and strong teeth ... Hehe .. Don't worry at all! Come on success!
I don't care about that either, but even a gram !!!
We girls don't care at all how many freckles, moles, etc. a boy has. My friends and I recently discussed something like you and we think it's terribly charming and sexy. (;
Well I'm a girl, but I'm a little younger than you and recently I liked a boy who had moles on his body, he actually had a nice body, tiles, etc. But it doesn't matter if you have moles or not to get you girls like it! I personally like blondes ... (only this site knows about it; I haven't told anyone else; E) Don't worry about having moles, and if you like a girl, you should tell her! I know that most girls like grateful boys who are not ashamed to admit their feelings! And don't fuck with moles at all;)! :)))
Thanks for the consolation, and yet to clarify that we are not talking about freckles but about relatively large and quite moles ... like spots with a diameter of 1 to 4 mm all over the body from the waist up. I was at the pool recently and I was with girls, I was ashamed, but they didn't react at all ... I tend to think that they really don't matter ... Thank you all! From the author
No need to worry. This for me personally is also even cute. Character is extremely important, moles make them cute, sexy :)
Hello, I'm a 13-year-old girl. My problem is that it's already summer, and I have an awful lot of moles on my body. The ones that bother me the most are two - one on the upper lip, which lowers my self-esteem a lot, but I somehow tolerate it, and another, which is just above my left breast. Last summer I could hide it with a swimsuit, but now my breasts have grown and there are no swimsuits with which to hide it :( I'm terribly ashamed and I don't think I will go to the beach at all :( What should I do? :( To the author - I think that it is charming for boys, and you have a nice body :)
Heh ... I'm reading and I'm super interested in how things are going from the side ... Now I'm just going to point out an interesting fact that I noticed. I have a problem and I shared it in order to get any reassurance, which is what I received. And now I see But 16, who is ashamed of the same thing, saying that it's not bad to have moles, but she's ashamed of herself. As a boy, I seriously consider girls with moles to be attractive, especially since I know what it's like to have and I know that they are not something you can change (like weight), they are something innate, which is a defect that you have to we reconcile. And now it's my turn to calm you down, go to the beach and try to make sure that others don't even think that you have moles (in my case, I tightened up and started training so that my body could stand out in front of moles ... I think I almost achieved it). So tighten up and don't think about it. Good luck at sea! From the author
I think it's very sweet .. I have a girlfriend who, like you, is worried about it and still has a lot of fans .. don't worry;) !!
Well, see for example Diego Barrueco, who is terribly sexy with his many moles and freckles :)
And I don't think there's anything to be ashamed of and I was like you before because I have a lot of noise and it's not my right cheek I just couldn't take it, I'm even covered with stickers but I was small of course and now it turned out that there is no such thing a big problem is even charming so you should not worry but on the contrary, and if you have a body and everything is great :)
I'm a girl, almost 14. So moles, huh? Eee, that's your problem! 4 mm (as you said) is not much! These are harmless moles that many girls find cute and sexy. Calm down, dude! I am very white, with freckles and I am often compared to an Irishwoman (why do I say that: D) and there is no summer in which my first day on the beach does not burn in the sun and in which I do not get even more moles everywhere (in arms, legs, etc.), but barely noticeable. Before, I, like you, was ashamed, I wondered what to do to hide them, but it doesn't make sense. Live with them, they are your given. :)
Moles attract me! And I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks so ... don't worry :-)
Hi I'm a girl, and I have a lot of moles, some of them bigger. For as long as I can remember, I have had a problem with them, I have always been ashamed to go to the beach or the pool. I was especially ashamed of two symmetrical moles on my waist and one on my shoulder, because of which I was ashamed to wear tank tops. I shared with my relatives and friends, they laughed and told me that this is not bad, but on the contrary that it is good. I looked in some sites and realized that on the one hand this is a good thing and here I realized that even for some people it is charming. I stumbled upon a famous model (Gigi Hadid) she has really a lot of moles all over her body. When I saw her, I really realized that moles shouldn't bother me and that they can even make me more attractive in the eyes of some people. I am no longer ashamed of them and I do not bother to wear tank tops, go to the beach and more.
There is no person who completely likes his body. Everyone has defects. At least you only have moles, my whole legs are covered with stretch marks, because I really didn't know that when I started training and losing weight this would happen. You have to like yourself, and the soul is more important. I personally would feel bad if my boyfriend was very beautiful and I looked like a little troll, like Dobby
And to repeat myself like everyone else, moles can in no way spoil my impression of a cool body, whether male or female (not to mention your character and personality, because I don't know you, but for the girls who go out with you, it will matter even more, believe me). It is very good that you play sports and take care of your body, continue in the same spirit and develop your personal qualities !!! Don't worry about the so-called "stagnation", everyone has such periods and even needs it to relax and focus for a while. From what you describe, I don't believe you will miss fans in the future. Look at things positively and know that when you find the right girl for you, you will feel it inside. Good luck and don't worry about "flaws", which I guarantee you that 95% of people haven't even noticed you have. We humans have a habit of being the harshest critics of ourselves.