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For Love, Money And The Future

By iriagparente September 16, 2020 17 answers Last updated September 16, 2020

The more years go by, the more I connect money directly with love. I can't imagine a life in which the man next to me doesn't provide me with the things I need. This repulses me strongly from men. I am financially secure. I have my own home and a nice car, but I think the job of the man next to me is to replace these things with newer and better ones. I expect the man next to me to take me to dinners, to buy whatever I want and for him to pay for it, to take me on vacations at his expense and to cover all the bills and expenses. When I was 16, I didn't see things that way, but over time, things got deeper in that direction. I had several serious relationships for 2 and 3 years, but I could not stay with my husband because I had to save and compromise, as well as pay for myself. This seriously disgusted me with men. Now that I'm 25, I've realized that love is impossible without money. For some reason, I realize that this is wrong, but I still can't have a relationship with someone who doesn't treat me that way. I am very caring and I work miracles for the man next to me. I love sex and give a lot in bed. I also think about family and children. I have a good job and a good standard and income as for the city of Varna. My family is also very educated and good. I hope to find such a man soon and start a family. The main reason for this not to happen so far is exactly the money. As much as I love a man, if he denies me what I want, I can't be with him. I do not rely only on beauty. I have an education, a job and everything else that most women my age don't have. For now, I only miss my personal life, and for that reason. I have sympathy for men aged 30-35, not so much to my sets. Please give me advice on how to find such a man!

Answers 17

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mikedjordj answered · September 16, 2020

   With this thinking, you will not find such a man. If a man is financially independent enough, he will see that you have enough income to cover your needs and will not cover everything you want. As you think for yourself, so he will think for himself.

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doseofdesiree answered · September 16, 2020

   People like you - as much as you want, you offer what all women have .... Men like you are looking for - quite a few, offered by a very limited number ... Who do you think chooses in this case?

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shadow5689 answered · September 16, 2020

   He is looking for a well-settled foreigner from a Western European country. But you have to be ready to live in a closet with him. I did so and now I have everything you describe.

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aprylsjones answered · September 16, 2020

   Clearly, instead of evolving, you are seriously degrading.

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zoepastelle answered · September 16, 2020

   Hello, author, I am from Varna, I often go to concerts and exhibitions at Radio Varna, "Rakovina" stage - I only need 2 leva for the bus, I don't have a car and I don't need it! I have already turned 36, I love cultural events and to be part of the defense society - artists, musicians, others! I don't have any yet, but this will happen too - I keep my city and I don't leave it to keep up with the events here! To go on vacation, restaurants forgot it! I also have some contact with the people at these events - organizers, coordinators, performers! Don't you go to such events? If you don't start, we can see each other and talk about your and my life! I also have a camera with which I film the events! I love folklore, classics, children's songs, exhibitions! In honor of the 85th anniversary of Radio Varna, some of the events are held! Say something about it? I'm interested and that's why I go! And I hope my partner will one day share my interests!

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casnick1 answered · September 16, 2020

   And you have nothing but to offer your used, smelly vagina, don't you? More and more men are aware of female hypergamy and how women always want to be in a relationship with someone better financially than them, intellectually and, if possible, physically. And that's perfectly normal, I understand. Natural instincts. But you just feel like someone, almost ... you DON'T owe it to you, with your story you described female hypergamy and natural narcissistic behavior quite well. You don't love men for their own sake. And because of what they do for you! By the way ... since you are 25 years old. you only have 2 years left. up to 27 years age at the latest to find a future husband with whom you will go for at least 2 years. before you gave birth to a child. The men you are looking for want women under 30. for mothers, if not 25-26 years. And no one cares that you give yourself away in sex. Sex is not some kind of currency, will you use the golden vagina to catch some sugar daddy or a man's pussy? You have to have sex for your own pleasure with a man who attracts you, but the deep truth is that you want someone young like you, but they have no money ... right? There are applications for sugar dads, but if you go there, you will have to maximize your appearance and be a good mother. Now you ride a cock carousel from cock to cock you sit, you fuck those where you are physically attracted and now you look for a male pussy supplier to take care of you and your children. Sleepy men with money are not fools ... they don't spend their money on women so easily, you have to prove yourself first. They are looking for attractive young women with more traditional currencies. P. will you use the golden vagina to catch a sugar daddy or a man's pussy? You have to have sex for your own pleasure with a man who attracts you, but the deep truth is that you want someone young like you, but they have no money ... right? There are applications for sugar dads, but if you go there, you will have to maximize your appearance and be a good mother. Now you ride a cock carousel from cock to cock you sit, you fuck those where you are physically attracted and now you look for a male pussy supplier to take care of you and your children. Sleepy men with money are not fools ... they don't spend their money on women so easily, you have to prove yourself first. They are looking for attractive young women with more traditional currencies. P. will you use the golden vagina to catch a sugar daddy or a man's pussy? You have to have sex for your own pleasure with a man who attracts you, but the deep truth is that you want someone young like you, but they have no money ... right? There are applications for sugar dads, but if you go there, you will have to maximize your appearance and be a good mother. Now you ride a cock carousel from cock to cock you sit, you fuck those where you are physically attracted and now you look for a male pussy supplier to take care of you and your children. Sleepy men with money are not fools ... they don't spend their money on women so easily, you have to prove yourself first. They are looking for attractive young women with more traditional currencies. P. but they have no money ... right? There are applications for sugar dads, but if you go there, you will have to maximize your appearance and be a good mother. Now you ride a cock carousel from cock to cock you sit, you fuck those where you are physically attracted and now you look for a male pussy supplier to take care of you and your children. Sleepy men with money are not fools ... they don't spend their money on women so easily, you have to prove yourself first. They are looking for attractive young women with more traditional currencies. P. but they have no money ... right? There are applications for sugar dads, but if you go there, you will have to maximize your appearance and be a good mother. Now you ride a cock carousel from cock to cock you sit, you fuck those where you are physically attracted and now you look for a male pussy supplier to take care of you and your children. Sleepy men with money are not fools ... they don't spend their money on women so easily, you have to prove yourself first. They are looking for attractive young women with more traditional currencies. P. they are not fools ... they don't spend their money on women so easily, you have to prove yourself first. They are looking for attractive young women with more traditional currencies. P. they are not fools ... they don't spend their money on women so easily, you have to prove yourself first. They are looking for attractive young women with more traditional currencies. P.

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rosaperrotta__ answered · September 17, 2020

   Find a sheikh

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tesss_13 answered · September 17, 2020

   love are are chemical reactions, dopanin, hormonal radiation, nothing more. the rest are nurtured values, accepted morals. nothing more.

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harleyxquiverzz answered · September 17, 2020

   Your title is wrong - only money interests you. Love is immaterial.

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ricosuavepapi answered · September 18, 2020

   # 2, you men are missing something very important, and that is that most women prefer to be alone than to reunite with a loser. On the other hand, most men will not refuse a beautiful woman, even if only for sex, because these are more or less the things that most men are looking for at the first sign. Not that he has nothing else to give. But sometimes even the more a woman offers, the more she scares men. So what you say has no one to startle. Author, I understand you, at least to some extent. If a man cannot provide for his family, he more or less becomes redundant. I don't expect my husband to make all the money, to have everything on his shoulders, or to provide me with a standard. But if he does not see it as his duty, he complains about it and does not seek to do so and take care of his family,

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yuri_ebihara answered · September 18, 2020

   And what do you offer the person next to you besides good sex? Loyalty, humility, upbringing, respect for the other, tact with relatives - do you have these qualities? It seems to me that you are another muffin who, after receiving everything, will wonder what to do and then she will go to take off her pants in front of other men out of boredom or for some reason. Every summer I fuck a Bulgarian woman who is married to a Western European and has everything you describe, but still something is not enough ...

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yesmyboss answered · September 18, 2020

   A fictional theme-fantasy of a 35-year-old.

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sionajane answered · September 19, 2020

   It's good that you know what you want, I, at your age, thought that love would order everything. Well, from my normal standard of living I had to come to complete misery, I didn't know there was one. Everything was inaccessible to me, no light in the coming years. That's how I learned the lesson, I didn't want my child to live in misery. I broke up with the young man, full of the promised man, and gave a good life to the child with an already stable, confident and fulfilled man, financially normal and mentally mature.

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bostonbwc answered · September 19, 2020

   I look and I do not believe my ears. What satisfaction it would give you for your husband to buy you everything you need. In this way you will become a consumer without a gram of purpose in life. All your life to feel indebted to someone because he bought you a car and a roof over your head. Those men who will lie to do it will be quite demanding of you. One at the expense of the other. Everyone pays their price differently. You most likely with your freedom.

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maciejkot.official answered · September 19, 2020

   To number 6. He made me laugh a little. What exactly do you have to love men for themselves that I do not remember. You wrote it yourself. The only thing that attracts the opposite sex is the reproductive truth. In the light years are from each other in emotional intelligence, way of thinking, soul. Everything. Personally, when I'm with a man, I feel like a wall. Flat, superficial beings (in terms of thought), no depth to things. Apart from using them for money and children, I don't see them for anything else. Although I would never do it to myself. A man to take my freedom and buy me things in return ... simplicity

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big_boy_next_door20 answered · September 20, 2020

   If you know how many people like you are waiting like that. It will be easier for you to find a woman with common interests and to buy each other various things and to go to luxury restaurants and vacations together. And without that, some here write that they have superfluous men, especially if they are not financially satisfied. The whole world is unstable and not everyone can be well-off. Not everyone succeeds, despite the much sacrificed time and effort. We all know what environment we should live in. Open your eyes and ears and get out of your pathetic boxes. Today some have a lot, tomorrow they may have nothing. You live on a conveyor belt and that's it.

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hiltonnewsroom answered · September 21, 2020

   Number 15, hahaha, what kind of thought does a woman have exactly, because the world has not seen anything so far, when will you start designing something from this "female thought"? Only you can get together "femininely" and talk absolute nonsense. It's good that we're fooling around, otherwise you're for the garbage ...