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By saboreandocanarias September 16, 2020 11 answers Last updated September 16, 2020

Hello readers of the site. The topic may seem trivial to you already, but I did not find other ones. Since I never gathered the strength to ask men some delicate questions, here men would you answer me, but sincerely. My question is - why when a man claims to love a woman, he sings all the women and wants to fuck them? Wasn't she the only one and he loved her? These are my personal observations, towards my male friends or unknown men. Everyone will say - such is the nature of a man, etc. Yes, but things are not so .. In fact, that's why I want to be alone, I do not want to doubt and lie to me. Not that I'm very sensitive but ... Yes, maybe there are 1% of men who are not, but I have not met such. Thanks!

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realjknoxville answered · September 16, 2020

   Very stupid question, if I'm with one I don't need others ... but apparently there are only animals around you.

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abutler2900 answered · September 16, 2020

   A food, no matter how much you like it, can you eat only it? So it is with the desire to have sex with other partners, in my opinion, in some Western societies have already solved the problem with swing parties, or a threesome or another couple, diversity is important, as long as it is possible and only sex remains.

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flmtvondemand answered · September 16, 2020

   Change your male environment.

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mcgui answered · September 16, 2020

   Author, you see an example of a primitive creature number 2, just such pigs you chase them from your environment. They don't do it for "diversity" or even sex, they are just pathetic little complexes with nicknames like "Grandpa Torbalan", which, however, they remove when they feel more frequent pressure from normal people to stop spreading their nonsense ...

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honeyspit answered · September 16, 2020

   The stupidest possible reason to be alone. Men who are more sexual are affected by every beautiful woman, which does not mean that they will necessarily sleep with her if possible. Sexual desire and love feelings are different things. The first is on a biological level, simply the brain reacts to each attractive individual of the opposite sex, while the feelings are already in another part of the brain and the reaction is caused only by the chosen partner. That is, any man with a stronger libido would look at a beautiful woman on the street, but this does not necessarily mean that he will sleep with her. While men with low libido hardly look just because they don't care. More troubling for you is the problem you have with this. Behind it may be pathological jealousy, total insecurity, low self-esteem, obsession. All things

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fergaibor answered · September 17, 2020

   This is not the case for you. For another, they may be just like that. People are very different. Everyone sees the world differently. Just because you know one, two or five people who look at someone else's doesn't mean that everyone is like that. Just because a man looks at other women doesn't mean he wants to fuck them. And that he wants to fuck them. does not mean it will. You want to be alone because you are weak and insecure. Remember the story of "Unborn Petko". Yours is the same. Life is one and we are young only for a short time. Take a cat and watch it. In fact, it's not a good idea. And the cat will walk on chicks, dispersing. With this thinking you will never understand what love is, what it is to love, to be loved. What is it like to have a family and your child. Take matters into your own hands and grow up. M37

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pm237services answered · September 17, 2020

   "Yes, but it's not like that." He said and cut off ... I'm glad when a woman asks a question (which is a rare phenomenon, most "know everything"), but when a topic is discussed, arguments are needed ... Do you understand? Let's return to the topic of birds and bees ... The male reproductive organ generates gametes called sperm. And it generates them, as if there is no tomorrow, huge quantities and into old age. That is, a man, if he wants, can have thousands of children, literally ... That's why ... obviously his biological strategy for reproduction is to have sex with as many women as possible. This is already a FACT because there are arguments. Conversely, women have an exact number of gametes, and at some point the tap turns. That's why women generally try to catch a man who is the best party. Don't talk to me about love and other fantastic stories - that's how both sexes work, because ultimately everyone is selfish. Love does not make us less selfish - on the contrary - bigger. It just seems superficial that you are doing something for someone else, but in reality you are doing it again for yourself ... Why don't women complain that "they don't lack male attention". And why do they think so? Because they are great as a character and people :)? C ... because of what I wrote above - your gamete is more valuable than ours, and therefore sex for men is "cheap", for you it is "expensive". That's why they are looking for you, but with that there is the other side - it's not just you. These same men revolve around at least a few dozen other women. And whether we like it or not, this is the "balance of power". The woman's strength is to make herself inaccessible, the man's is that he can break. The opposite is not true. If a woman makes sex "cheap", yes, she becomes a whore because she denies the value of her own biology, the egg she has. These simple lessons, unfortunately, are no longer taught in school, they make them transsexual there ... That's why they once invented something called marriage. He is not part of "love", he is part of the responsibility you take on the other and on society. Looking at you is one thing, but getting to infidelity is another. One is biology, the other is choice. The question nowadays is which choice weighs. To take the responsibility and the shortcomings of being in a relationship, or to play the trick, and when it passes - pass. Marriage is not for everyone, it is also a fact. The problem is that exactly those for whom it is not, ruined it, so that it does not happen for those to whom it suits. So I will agree with your final conclusion, that nowadays, if you want a stable relationship, there is no way, and a person better to be alone. But the problem is far from who cares about his eyes, but the lack of psychological attitude to be with someone else responsibly, for something more, out of fun. Because what really happens is that the fun ends at some point, and from just staring, you move on to the next stage. And this applies to both sexes. Today's women do not have enough of one man, they are always looking for a better offer, or if there is no such, at least something new for variety. moves on to the next stage. And this applies to both sexes. Today's women do not have enough of one man, they are always looking for a better offer, or if there is no such, at least something new for variety. moves on to the next stage. And this applies to both sexes. Today's women do not have enough of one man, they are always looking for a better offer, or if there is no such, at least something new for variety.

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godolert answered · September 17, 2020

   I'll tell you honestly - there is no single answer to this question, as well as to many others like him. The reason for this is that different people are at different levels of awareness. Those who have primordial thinking and awareness as much as animals, but they are guided by hormones and biological laws ... Those who exhibit greater mental activity are more aware and from this point of view are closer to the gods than to the animals, and with them things have a more channeled and purposeful appearance. Love is awareness, not instinct. And now you remember that if two people start arguing at different levels of awareness, they will contradict each other, they will argue to the hilt, and everyone will be right for themselves. So you better think about what level of awareness you and the people you meet are.

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skmtgram answered · September 18, 2020

   The author clearly catches men like "models", but with a great personality type. She probably doesn't look at those under her, then she complains that they treated her like a piece of meat hihihihi

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sahityasanskruti answered · September 18, 2020

   Abe and we men ask ourselves a similar question - "why, as if he loves me, put my horns" or "he kept telling me how much he loves me, and dumped me for someone else." In short - whatever they answer you here will not help you in the life situations that lie ahead ...

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genmhayden answered · September 18, 2020

   The answer to your question is with a question ... And why when you claim that money is not important and you are not interested, but only love, you look at expensive cars and look at someone else's potty, which has wiped a rich man ? And you want to have her vacations, her sleek lifestyle ...