Hello, Quick question to men, I will ask for something-SINCERITY! What do you think of a virgin girl at 25? I have been in a relationship for a little over half a year, what to do so far I have not found the right person, but I definitely feel uncomfortable in front of my friend when it comes to this! Maybe the inconvenience is one of the bow, I feel ashamed and afraid of what he will think! I know, I hope the gentlemen here will help me with an opinion, and why not the ladies! Thank you!
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If he really loves you, he wouldn't make it a problem, he would even be happy.
As one of your sets of 25 I will give you an opinion, from my point of view. Honestly, I don't know why I keep going to this site, but I'm interested in how people think about different topics. We currently live in such a time and in such a society that to meet a woman who has not had sex up to 25 with 10 people, for example, is a rarity. Of course, there are such women, but there are also women who deliberately reduce the number. in fact, it is three times larger. I will be completely honest. I would be very happy. This is a great way to get to know each other even better, talk and really build a very great relationship between you. If I have to be even more honest, I even envy your friend nobly. The last thing that would stop me from having an affair with you if I liked you would be that you didn't have sex. Yes, maybe in the beginning there will be a slight inconvenience and adjustment between you until you find out who likes what, but then everything falls into place. For me, this is a huge plus in your favor and you have nothing to be ashamed of. Since I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, I want to meet a woman like you. You will like sex in time and that is clear, but there is nothing attractive in sleeping with 100 people, believe me.
If your boyfriend has endured half a year without sex, then he either wants you very much and is ready to wait for you, or something is wrong. Let's assume that it is the first, that is, that he wants you very much. Once you've been together for half a year, it's okay to tell him that you're a virgin and that (I guess) you already want to have sex. So just get started. The easiest and most painless opening is by finger penetration, at least in my experience.
Now Torbalan will come here to explain how troubled and insecure the commentators are that they would agree to wait a few months for a virgin woman.
Human "culture" is a fun thing. 50-100 years ago, the question would have been - I'm super uncomfortable and ashamed that I'm not a virgin, how can I hide it. Today we are at 180 degrees, I am super ashamed to be a virgin. True, this mammal is super adaptive, as if to the point of total invertebrateness, without a personal opinion on matters of right and wrong. What others tell him about "normal" is ... I'm looking for someone like you, a matter of personal taste. It is also a matter of personal taste what you are looking for ... Stop walking like a zombie with the crowd and think about some questions for yourself ...
Advantage, so I personally would think of having children with you if you have other qualities, but since a woman of 25 is a virgin, it is her choice to defend her principles, not to compromise with yourself and what you are. , accordingly, it is clear that this choice of yours hints at the necessary qualities for it to be taken (the choice). You are much more suitable for a mother because you can teach them to be as they understand them, and not necessarily to follow the established rules. Naturally, such a statement will not be to the liking of unprincipled and "modern" women, obviously unfit to start a family, a problem and disadvantage that of course applies to men, not only women are responsible, but they as the most callers should at least understand that men will always prefer women like the author.
I would be surprised, but also happy if it happened to me. I don't think you have to worry about up to 25 years. you haven't found the right man. I would say that this one is very lucky :)
You will probably tickle his self-esteem, especially if he has not been a virgin until now. However, sex with a virgin is greatly overestimated. Hard experience, instead of relaxing, you have to be careful, to caress her. I never found out, does he know you're a virgin or not? Grandpa Torbalan
I am not one of the deep moralists, there is no right person for me because everything good has an end, the right people suddenly become the most wrong. It is commendable that you have survived these years on the one hand, on the other hand you have missed a lot. But once you are afraid to do it and feel that unique feeling, you will understand. In my opinion, the guy with whom he is not very sexually active after half a year is waiting for you .. now they will jump on me and tell me love ... then love love but most of the relationships fail precisely because of lack of sex, good quality sex . Which quota to tell me sex is a big part of the relationship. Take from life the quota you can, that the moment comes when he starts taking and you start breaking your head. I wish you a painless set!
Enough with these pieces, very quickly from a virgin can become a k .... a. 1 - You are old enough for a serious relationship / to start a family. 2 - Abstinence from sex at this age is not healthy. 3 - You haven't seen anything from relationships and sex. These are your cons. On the topic: There is nothing to whine and worry about, because in this way you avoid the moment of intimacy, so you can play for another 10 years. Now is the time to indulge your boyfriend, I don't think he'll cut you off because you're a virgin. Men have always wanted to be a woman's first - caressing the ego.
Mani these virgins. They do not know how to touch you or how to move during sex. They are full of wood. Not to mention the whistle. Especially old virgins have built up some dreams and imaginary situations over the years and have some wrong expectations and ideas about sex. Sex with virgins - up to 18 years, while you both study.
I'll just tell you that you are extremely valuable and any normal man will want you ... even for a woman. A deep bow to you. If you were with me now, I would give you a flower. I hope you find the right man.
Up to 13 It is valuable why? Because she is a virgin? I don't know a man who looks at this, even if he appreciates it, then he looks at many other qualities, especially whether his wife suits him in character. I'm telling you, I'm 28 years old and a virgin and not only, but I'm not here to advertise.
I cannot understand what the guarantee is that now that she is a virgin, after losing her virginity, she will not catch up. Every woman was once a virgin. I say this because I have a cousin who married one, supposedly from a strict family, supposedly very modest, supposedly from a village. What fire happened almost a year after the wedding is not true, there is no stopping, constantly with different men. You became a typical bitch. I don't know why you exalt virgins so much. Don't turn out to be a time bomb ...
Number 12, looking at you, is the one with the wrong understanding. That's right - a lot of porn, a little reading.
15, the chance of a virgin wanting to catch up is less than a whore deciding to stop. The latter tends to zero.
Number 17, are you able to argue or is it a personal opinion? Number 13, is virginity enough value to justify any flaws in character? If a virgin is vicious, lazy and stupid, is she more valuable than a smart, hearty ebony? Grandpa Torbalan
18, personal opinion based on observations.
I don't think that virginity is a criterion for good or bad in character, BUT it's better to be a virgin at 20, 25, 30, etc., than a woman who started having sex at 14 and a whole nation went through it! There is nothing guaranteed that the author in question, because she has not had sex, is the perfect woman, BUT she will be a better mother and wife, because being a virgin at this age is a matter of principles, because even if you are as ugly a tramp as you want. !! Well done to the girl, the man next to you is the lucky one! You don't care at all what they write and say, for men it is very important for the woman, the future wife to carry the qualities of a husband, caring and worthy to be a parent! M32
Being a virgin at the age of 25 does nothing to make you worse than other women. Don't push it like a complex.
To number 20: I'm so "lucky", mine was 26, a virgin, I was her first, at least as far as I know and the only one so far. I am married to her, we have two children. Sex ... well, it's awful! He doesn't want to, he just doesn't need it. Before we got married there was a desire, she got pregnant, we got married and that's it. There was another flash when she decided to get pregnant again and point. Otherwise we understand each other, we live with her lightly, kindly and with a smile, but in bed there is unearthly sorrow. Girl, if you don't have sex, find someone asexual, don't tarnish the life of the other or your children. I am with mine because of the children I love, because of the sense of duty, I have somehow accepted that my sex life will always be a secret, a movement in the shadows and a sense of guilt. Such was my luck.
to 22 And in our country, the "lucky one" is me ... My husband is the one who pulls and will not have sex ... His only flash was when we made the baby ... Since then it is ... unearthly pain for me too! That's how lucky I was ... fucking! ... Well ... you're not alone ... Your wife needs a workaholic like mine who only knows how to do repairs and repairs ... A twisted friend of mine who got lost she had told me something from a whore, amazed "Men tell me I want a look ... but only yours looks straight at me and doesn't seem to see me ?!" Hmm, mine doesn't reflect any woman at all, but lives in her own, masculine world ... without even suspecting that she has a fountain woman next to her ... Except that I only spray myself by masturbating through tears ... How was it ?! Unearthly torment, yes ... Courage! I will grit my teeth until one day the glass overflows and I don't think what will happen then.
22 that you don't have regular sex what does it have to do with virginity at 26? You may be the one in the case! Otherwise, next to the author, don't worry, I would be happy, something like that would caress my ego.
You seem to have gotten a little out of the idea of the question. It doesn't matter what happened ... the girl wants support. I personally understand you, because I was a child until I was almost 22 years old, and when you turn 20 you think you are defective and now I wonder why. I fully understand that you feel ashamed, because all sorts of friends attributed it to me. When you start some sex topics and you feel nasty and out of place. And my current husband is wondering how I did it for the first time at 22, he had never heard of such a case before. Well, to be honest, it was a complete mistake! I found a man then who was also a child and seemed like a good idea. Yes but no. I called it my chance to get rid of awkward situations in the most shameless way, but it happened that I forced myself with a man, which I did not want and rather to this day I wonder how to get rid of all the additional complexes created. Please don't make my mistakes. Do what is in your heart and soul. Who wants to think whatever and never forget that exactly those who made you ashamed of your childhood do not care about you at all
25, and I wondered. I was dumbfounded by his "conclusions", but I didn't think it necessary to answer him. He gives an example from his life and that must mean something of his that he is convinced of. But the "cause" may have nothing to do with the "consequence" in this case. And each case is for itself. Just because it was the case with him doesn't mean it's the case with everyone.