Hello, I am a 29-year-old man married with a child. My wife and I have a good relationship, sex, etc. As a teenager, a friend of mine and I often made French love, and we both liked it a lot. After graduating from school, our paths parted. For many years I had not thought of this type of relationship. For about a year now I have been thinking and imagining sex with a man, and I even bought sex toys and secretly started having fun with them, and I really like this feeling. I haven't had sex with a man yet, but I really want to try, and most of all I want to try a threesome with a man and a woman and me and the woman to satisfy the man. The thought of it drives me crazy. I don't know what to do and what to do.
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I am 35 years old and I have been married for 10 years. I have not had intimate experiences with a man, but I really want to try. Like you, I imagine it as a threesome with my wife, but she is adamant that she would not like it. I have several models of prostate massager, I also tried a vibrator. I'm definitely heterosexual, but I'd love to try it for purely physical interest. Both the passive and the active part of the act. I've been wondering if it's a good idea to hire a transvestite for this purpose.
Tell your wife. I shared my deepest sexual dream with my husband, and believe me, it's quite spicy. Few men would curl up. The important thing is that he accepted it calmly and told me that he needed time to make it happen. And now we both feel great. Don't you say this threesome with your wife or another woman?
A set of ours who has a wife and two daughters, and he's like you. He divorced and now has a boyfriend. Some later realize. Well, Kim Kardashian's father - Caitlin Jenner ... he is also a big gender, he changed his gender to a woman. Personally, I am disgusted by such things and I always claim that there are mental problems that lead to such personality confusions. Hormones are not right for you, obviously. Beat some testosterone. Dunno.
If you imagine it with a man, then your wife doesn't do so well with whistles. It is normal for men to make better blowjobs, given that they know how and what pleasure to give to the other.
Seriously, go to a psychiatrist, these anomalies are treated successfully and painlessly. In order to have such thoughts and ideas, there is something in your soul that torments you, you will not recover if you realize your fantasies.
Why don't you just teach your wife how to blow you or go to a prostitute ... Don't betray the team, please.
To the first number, say something more about prostate massagers, what it feels like, some tips, if you can. Thanks in advance.
To number 10: If you decide to try, start with the ones with a more correct shape without many curves. You need a secluded place and free time to relax. It works best in the evening after a shower in a darkened room. For example, I work when my wife is on a business trip and I am alone for a few days. Get enough lubricant and do not save it - it is very important, apply often and abundantly. Don't expect miracles in the beginning, you need patience and activities while you get to know your body and relax to feel these feelings qualitatively. The prostate is a very specific organ and is not always set to give you a pleasant feeling - sometimes it just does not work, the important thing is not to give up. I proceed as follows: Walking on all kinds of needs, then a hot long shower or bath, with good emphasis on the hygiene of the respective places / washing, hair removal, massage /. Then, completely naked, I close myself in a warm room with a blindfold and ear pads / the goal is to take away part of the senses so that you can sharpen your sensitivity to other signals from your body /. I lubricate the massager with a lot of lubricant, as well as the butt as far as I can get with my finger inserted / the gadget must be washed well before and after use /. All movements must be slow and patient to relax the muscle itself and take the toy inside you without pressure and without pain. Once everything is in place, I lie relaxed for a few minutes and try to adjust the toy only by breathing and very slightly tightening the pelvic muscles. If a spontaneous erection has not occurred, you can secure it with a light touch on or around the member while it is erecting. Once you are aroused you can now experiment with breathing, tightening and relaxing the pelvis, inclination and posture of the body, position and inclination of penetration until you feel the touch of the prostate / you can not mistake the feeling - a heat spills from the inside out all over the lower part of the pelvis and spine /. If you feel this caress - you just try to keep it, repeat, etc. If at some point you feel dry or that the massager does not move freely in your body - you take it out and return it. The goal is for the gadget to move freely and smoothly inside, controlled only by your muscles and breathing so as to caress the prostate. When you get used to it, you will be able to control your pace and pressure without effort, and this will eventually lead to uncontrollable convulsions and prolonged orgasms that you never dreamed of. I did not believe that we could experience multiple dry orgasms, but a fact! In addition to all this, the exercise is useful for prostate health, and also for better control of ejaculation during normal sexual intercourse. I wish you success in your endeavor and I hope I have been useful to you. - From number 1
And people, are we normal? I am a 31 year old man. And I sometimes want to try a man because I've never tried before and I might like it. I have a girlfriend but I don't have children yet. And you who even have children want to try with men. I wonder what it means to be bisexual? Doesn't it mean that we want to be intimate with men that we are fagots or gay? Are we a psychiatrist or is what we want normal? Okay, try a man, but shouldn't you have done that when you're still single and have no family? I hope to find someone very smart and deep inside these things to tell us what we are and what to do. Comment, please!
For women it is clear that most of them are bisexual, but maybe some of them are men :) and sex itself is an exchange of tenderness, kisses, pleasure ... ie only pleasant things ... if a man is had an unsatisfactory sex life with a woman, maybe with a man he would have more pleasant emotions. If the media didn't instill in us their strange stereotypes and pseudo-understandings every hour, maybe number 15 wouldn't be so shocked :) abroad, where I live, no one is so fussy about such things, and they are quite common.
To number 1, brother, I am very, very grateful to you, I did not expect such a comprehensive answer, I will listen to your advice. I wish you health.
I don't know, people, I'm 28, almost 29. When I think about doing anything with a man, I get sick. Obviously everyone is different, but bisexuality doesn't seem to be the same for me
There is nothing shameful about bisexuality, but when you start a family, you should not spoil it in any way because of such actions. I personally experience bisexual tendencies, but rather in my mind they are far more arousing than reality, I have tried blowjobs several times and I am even glad that it is so. I like it to some extent, but when you have a chick, it satisfies you, everything is ok, I personally do not have and would not need someone's penis, and it was more beautiful, bigger than mine and so on, because in general in the man else I personally do not see attractive ..
When you start buying such toys, try to use them with your wife during sex. He may then agree to fuck you with a penis belt. We do it with mine quite often.