I met a girl. We decided to go out and it happened quite quickly (in 2 days). When we went out we talked, talked, everything was fine. It was obvious that something could happen in the future. The next day she called me. And I came to the conclusion, by the way, that when a woman likes you, she wants, she doesn't want, she will look for you. But not to get carried away, look for me and we talked a little again. I asked her when we would see each other again, she said she wanted a lot, but she didn't know when because she was at work in the next few days. I said well and accordingly waited a modest 3 days for it to pass a bit and it was Friday there. I called to talk at last. All right, I asked her to go out again and she still didn't know ... Okay ... I climbed for a few more days and called again and was busy again. The fourth time, I just asked her, "Are you and I going out this year at all" And she said, " You do it unconsciously with someone, even at the moment I'm sure !!! So maybe my question is, what the hell are we men doing to get you women out by behaving like that?
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I've happened to do this with guys I really like, but I really don't get a chance to go out. I often don't have time. Sometimes I don't have money and I can't afford to go out often. I would be very dumb if the boy reacted like you, but what can I do. F 22
Maybe he doesn't like you enough to have a love or sexual relationship with you and that's why he avoids you. You are also pleasant for conversations, but hardly for anything more. I do this when I see that the man has some expectations and I don't want anything to do with him, I'm not a bad girl to cut him directly and I start with these twists in order to stop looking for me and not it weighs on my conscience. Not that I'm arrogant and with great self-confidence, but when someone is not close to your heart, things don't work out and you can't waste your time with meaningless meetings.
I don't think the problem is with women! You need more experience with them. If you said in front of her, do you want to be !!! лафиме !!!! it is normal for nothing to happen :) Forget about the stupid rules of the variety, wait 2-3 days to call her. Believe me, most will not remember you, do you remember your breakfast from 2-3 days ago? Don't think, "Why do women reject me?" To do so, there are at least 1,000 reasons that may come to mind. I do not know exactly what advice to give you, because I do not know where you are wrong, I will write you the mistakes that most of us men make in a dump (in my opinion)! The important thing is to look good and smell good! When you are!! лафите !! , tell only the truth, don't copy things you can't do! Don't look around if a chick passes you! Look the girl in the eye, but not staring! Smile! Listen to what he really says! Women love to talk, ask your questions so that they suggest a long answer from which you can really learn things about her! For example, you realized that a colleague of hers was annoying her. When you call her (up to 1 day after your appointment) ask her if she has fixed the problem with the colleague. Show interest in her! Don't become a nuisance - the dude who calls every day after she says she's busy! If she refuses you twice and tell me when she is free to call you and move on! You can give more information about what you are !! лафите !! Show interest in her! Don't become a nuisance - the dude who calls every day after she says she's busy! If she refuses you twice and tell me when she is free to call you and move on! You can give more information about what you are !! лафите !! Show interest in her! Don't become the "annoyance" - the dude who calls every day after she says she's busy! If she refuses you twice and tell me when she is free to call you and move on! You can give more information about what you are !! лафите !!
And don't you do it? I will give you an example. I (I'm a girl) and a boy liked each other, so far so good, but when I saw that things were starting to get serious, that I wanted it to be something more than a flirtation, I withdrew, stopped writing, ringing, picking up the phone? So tell me what it is, I still didn't have time, I wanted a lot from him? Otherwise, women, they do it either to make themselves interesting, or to lose the boy :)
Emmy, don't touch me, but I don't think she liked you enough and she was embarrassed to tell you directly, that's why she turned you around .... I also sometimes bother to tell people that I don't like them and I'm waiting they can either think for themselves or just give up on me ....
Safe from such. Read that there are at least 10 topics identical to yours. I broke my fingers from writing, but you don't need to read and you need to complain. You want to say how bad these 6-7 women were, how you did everything for them, and the corpses behaved badly. It's all your fault. That's your character, if you have one at all. You are ready to take down stars at every meeting, to adjust, to annoy them and what not. Most men are sticky, interested in what women want and how to adjust to it. It's a pity because I'm a man too and I have to tell you that because of people like you, women hate men and think of them, but weak-willed shit with an apology. Why didn't it happen to me? How come 6-7 at least 5 want to be with me? Safe from unscrupulous.
Find another one .. so she does it once you go out she didn't like something in you, there is something she doesn't like or annoys her, but she can't tell you .. or the other option may be one of these women who like to play with men, so she cheated on you in some way and gave you some hope and now it seems kind of inaccessible, and if you stop looking for her after a while she will look for you to arouse again your wish and then either it will pull again or something will happen between you or it will not call you at all and will wait for you to give it up .. I sincerely hope I helped you .. if nothing happens upside down there are others;) Ani; *
number 6 I'm sure you're pretty pissed off with the talk and you can lie a lot about going out with you.
8 I don't think I have to report to you or explain to you who I am. And even if I did, you still wouldn't believe me. And I never lie, because lies are like a boomerang, they always come back with double force, and when you lie, how will the person next to you get to know you and how will you build a useful relationship :)
"because I sat down and thought and it turns out that 6 out of 7 of my attempts go in exactly the same way. You go out, call, busy. And so on until you give up. I realize that to happen to me once is normal, twice too, but it's constant. " --- You don't walk among women, brother.
Something like this happened to me once .. but since I didn't want to deny the boy and I had a reason I couldn't go out with him and I confessed it to him .. the reason was that I had only one pair of sneakers and I had sent them to myself that very day .. of course maybe I'd better lie to him that I'm busy because he started making fun of me and making fun of me and cut me off completely .. I never wanted to pretend to be a muffin .. I stretch according to my rug and so I learned to I judge people .. real people understand you !!!
Hello, author! If she looked for you again, then she was definitely interested. He doesn't immediately draw conclusions like "what the fuck is this!". It has also happened to me a lot to like a boy, but not to be able to go out at the moment and procrastinate. Obstacles a lot - I either have a lot of work, or an exam, or I have to help my parents with something, or I don't have money for going out or 100 other things. So men, do not act hastily-if the girl likes you, but you refused a date for one reason or another ...
It's very simple why we do it. We just don't like you and don't want anything to do with you, but at the same time we don't want to hurt you. We come up with all sorts of reasons for this. If I want and want a man to go out with him directly, there is no point in doing free essays. Look for the guilt in yourself. Keity
Unfortunately, you are not the only one. He just obviously doesn't want to cut you off, so he hints at you so as not to offend you. In my opinion, this is stupid. You can always cut someone clearly, precisely, categorically, without leading to personal insults or attacks. Men withdraw in another way. Many of us are just looking for sex or something frivolous and because of that we then dump our partner. In my opinion, you are doing the right thing by not dealing with such women anymore. It's one thing that they probably don't like you, it's another thing that they're not serious, and that's evident in their attitude towards you. Don't listen to fools that you weren't a man or anything. Almost every acquaintance of mine has been in a similar situation and it is best to be direct and clear to the woman you like. Otherwise, it will hang you all the time.
Until you realize that you are not the center of the world for someone you know will soon be so. Everything happens in this dynamic life, everyone has problems and obligations, can not always fly to you when you think of him. If you don't comply with the other from now on, where are you going then? No sense in telling you now - I don't wanna ruin the suprise.
№6, hammer writer! Chukcha is not a reader!
Just reading you and it is clear to me that on the one hand I understand the chicks. The confirmation of her will not look for me, you are guilty, you are one-of-a-kind, there is no way not to tell you that in 6 out of 7 cases the reason does not seem to be in the women ... a reason why some men promise to call and they don't - you just don't like them. Instead of digging for answers in the forums, why not try to change your approach. Q. I'm glad you didn't like people like me .. I was "kind" with such numbers "I can see you, I don't know" I was up to 12th grade, then I learned to easily and simply cut someone who doesn't I also liked to save wasting time with one "do you seriously think I would go out with you again after our last meeting, where I sit, spit on the street, spit on women, that they were commercial blood and you didn't stop complaining about your life ??? (tru⁇ story). Beauty does not happen by force
From 14. Number 15, I agree with what has been said. But I don't think it's right when you first give vain hopes to someone and then start hinting subtly that things won't happen. For me, a man if he is serious (be it a man or a woman), if he does not like someone, he will cut him off categorically and without unnecessary insults and dramas. If I don't like a woman who liked me, I will always find a way to tell her so that she doesn't hide her vain hopes and struggle. That's what I think serious people do. However, in order not to be a 14-year-old boy, we have to behave like adults.
Men just think that when someone gives us a phone, we like it. And if he comes out with us once - then he just wants us to get married. No - not for women. An average beautiful woman has the attention of at least 4-5-6 men. Ie she can choose who she wants from them and deal seriously only with him. He may have a boyfriend and still raise his shares with 1-2 quick meetings a week (which I don't think is right, but it is done).
Well done to you, your problem is that you didn't surprise her at work. When you meet someone, ask her where she works, take an interest and when there is no time for a meeting, go to work with a flower and you will see each other again.
Oh, we are not only women like that, there are also men who act in such a way that the woman is confused and does not know what the other person wants. I am personally glad that I have learned to be tougher and not to dodge, and not to give vain hopes to a man - I cut directly. It may be rude, they even told me I was bad, but there's really no point in keeping someone in suspense and not knowing what to expect from you. It just doesn't make sense ... but a lot of people don't understand it. Sometimes we really have to be rude, for the good of the other person, so he will continue to look for a suitable partner, not to tread in one place. Doriana