For Second Marriages - A Question For Men And Women

For many people, the third marriage is the same. I speak if people are not drug addicts, alcoholics and gamblers

The first is a donkey and the second is a queen.

I don't believe in meeting a man for a serious relationship at all, let alone a second marriage. It even borders on the absurd. Around me only married or single at 60. The situation is bad, but I'm used to it. I will live alone with the children, as before.

I was not married, I lived with the man from whom I have a child. We separated and a year later I met my current husband. I would say that the second time is much more successful than the first for me.

I met her 3 m after the divorce, age difference about 10 years, I have a son, she has no children, for now I think I have found a soul mate since we have been together for 5 years and we have not quarreled once, madness

Are men up to 3-60 years old for disposal?

Of course there is happiness after divorce - come on now - you won't sit down to die, her. Before you meet the new "half" - in all probability you will meet the 10th mistress / s, so do not think about it from now on. And where - where you are looking. :)

My mother and father divorced when I was 2-3, 7 years later I met a new man and she has been married to him for 14 years, she is just next to a man.

Well, my mother divorced when I was 11 and got married when I was 27. She's had relationships before, but I've never seen anyone, obviously the relationship wasn't so serious that she met me. On the other hand, she had the time and space to complete her higher education and develop a successful business (she was 71, gave birth to me at 18 and had not studied). She always said about marriage that she would not make the same mistake again, but her husband persuaded her with a very kind proposal. His daughter and I witnessed them. They also signed a prenuptial agreement, because they have both achieved a lot, and his daughter and I do not want to ever get into property disputes, etc. My mother says something very nice about my second marriage and I want to share it with you: The second marriage is a grace. You already know yourself well and you know what is right to compromise with and what is not. I don't know how a single parent feels, it must be very difficult. Yes, God does not let me know. But my mother's decision to divorce was the best possible, thank her for her courage, because I grew up in a normal environment. She overcame thousands of difficulties, but you know, she didn't give me a moment to worry about our future. He always said to me, "Darling, what haven't we both done so far?" After the divorce we lived, maybe a month in an unfurnished apartment. We ate on a blanket on the floor, she had bought a picnic basket and was reading Haytov's "Wild Stories" to me, and somehow she turned this experience into a fond memory for me. There was no one to watch me and I went to work with her, we went out with her friends, we went to folk dances, we traveled. She had the unique ability to create happiness and security regardless of the conditions. Her motto is "You accept the situation as it is without resisting and think only about the possibilities", such as what could have been, who was right, means to just stay in the situation longer. This is a very valuable lesson for me. I am now a mother of two and I am even more delighted with her strength to keep her composure and not lose heart. I wish you her strength and courage and to have a very happy life with your children. Do not postpone your happiness for when I have a person next to me / when I am more financially stable / when the children grow up and focus if you have to look for happiness in the present moment with a magnifying glass. Because after all, if a person does not like his life, if he is difficult, deprived of happiness and fun, who would want to enter it? And in my opinion, single mothers in most cases have every right to be proud of their decision to be like that and to live happily with him.

Number 9, at the age of 11, your mother took you everywhere with her, and read you stories? Isn't that a little weird at that age?

Thank God I have preserved and preserved my marriage. Despite the many difficulties we have gone through. I know that it is not easy for divorced people, I know that everyone will give an explanation for their divorce and that many people do not divorce for good - but .... I think that there are many frivolously broken marriages, because of lovers or at the first difficulties that every family faces. Divorce when it's unbearable, there's violence, drunkenness - yes, I understand. But to get divorced in the hope that next time will be better - that's very strange to me. There are few problems of second marriages - adopted, found, natural children ... Sometimes a little patience and common sense are invaluable.

Number 10, I have no idea if it's weird, but we needed to be both to be calm. At that time we did not have mobile phones and the opportunity to hear and see each other constantly. Ah, Wild Stories read them and you will understand.