I will ask one, perhaps awkward question - why do women in our country (and not only, of course) so naturally accept sexual intercourse as part of communication with a partner? And why almost everyone thinks that if there is no such thing in a relationship, then something "is lame" to her ... And why shouldn't such a thing start after marriage? I understand that people want to "try" before that; I also understand the pressure of desire, but I also see the huge mess that this emancipation in sexual intercourse generates ... And another question - I wonder if a woman really stays the same after sleeping with three, five or a dozen different men ? It is not that she has lost her human dignity (it is never lost), but that, as I think, after such a rich experience, something painful and destructive remains in her on a conscious, subconscious and bodily level. .. For me (I'm not saying this as an example) it would be VERY DIFFICULT to marry such a woman, even if I love her (sounds weird, but it's true). I understand that there are many men who think differently, and yet I am curious about your opinion. Why, as far as I can see, do women today not value virginity as something particularly valuable? It is in my heart to ask - nothing that I can sound to someone as a fossil from other times.
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Let's just say it. Nobody wants second-hand goods. No matter how good or good a woman is, if I find out that she has been with many men, I run straight. Not because it is experienced, but because it is widely used. Right ... we're talking about a serious relationship. I am horrified to hear that a 25-year-old girl has been with 5 boys so far. That's a low number ... we have to be happy. However, women do not agree. You won't be happy to be served food, will you? Or a car that has been driven and appears to have been driven.
You are beaten by the sauce. Sex is pleasure and health. It is not normal for a woman or a man not to have sex. I know some, they all have some emotional problem mostly. And to be a virgin with 1 partner in the 21st century is a bit strange, virginity, purity and proving innocence are unnecessary and obsolete things. From such ideas my girlfriend over 30 is a virgin, waiting for the prince, but while waiting for him she will miss the opportunity to give birth, family and child of stupid prejudices and moralistic parents.
Virginity is not 'something valuable' at all. Something valuable is what skills and knowledge a person has, what character he has, how he is with nerves - how he copes in tense situations, for example, etc. Whether he has had sex with 17 other people, for example, or has had sex with 1 only, or with few, does not matter. People who judge a person by how much sex he has, does or does not have are simple and simple creatures.
Because unless the two are asexual, it will be very difficult for at least one to sleep every night with someone who attracts him, but not be able to have sex. It is a living punishment if someone asks me!
We accept them naturally because they are something natural. If I reunite with the first man I fall in love with, I won't have a problem with not being and not sleeping with others. But this rarely happens. And sleeping with someone before you marry is a must for me. You have to like yourself sexually with this person, how else will your relationship go? What if you have a very different libido, you don't like something physically, you get a lot of different things aroused, someone has problems with sex? It is too late to learn after marriage that things are not going well in bed.
See, things don't turn out the way you think. You imagine the "good old days" in which people were monks and nuns and waited for the "chosen" - this is nonsense. A normal person should not be left without sex. In the past, a lot was attached to virginity, marriage, family, etc., but people got married at the age of 14-15-16. As soon as they became children of teenagers, regular sex began immediately! Now, because all this is destroyed and there are no rules, you fall into two other extremes - either you have sex without restraint and not with one but with many partners and they change or monks and nuns are created who are afraid and do nothing. and wait. For me, the right thing to do with a partner as early as possible, these relationships should be ahead of education, career and everything else.
Author, unfortunately, there are very few literate girls. Virgin girls are literate because they want to preserve their virginity for someone who is like them, and not an attacker who had several pieces before meeting her. It is best for a virgin girl to have a friendship with a virgin boy, and not to associate with the failed. The same goes for virgin boys. Unfortunately, our society is dominated by whores and whores (men), from whom one cannot expect a stable relationship, marriage, family and children. It has been proven that in couples who have had several partners, they do not marry, they cheat on each other. To tell you the truth, I'm tired of hearing our failed, perverted whore society "proud" that: - we have illegitimate children - we are champions in abortion, chalga, "student city" debauchery, unmarried couples, illegitimate and backward children - that Bulgarian women are the whores of Bulgaria, and Europe - that Bulgarian men are whores We take and eat the bitter fruits of our perversion, our community is corrupt because we do not respect morality. Most of the Bulgarians are intoxicated and intoxicated by chalga and debauchery. See what our situation is in our failed Bulgarian society: Many make fun of those who have order and morality. Many make fun of virgin girls and boys. Many mock those who have a stable marriage, family and children. Unfortunately, I do not see any hope in such a society. I will ask only those who have at least dignity, honor, reason and morality: - if you have a little spotless girl or a virgin big daughter - keep her away from the majority! Keep it as the pupil of your eyes! - if you have a virgin boy - keep him away from the other boys! They don't matter to you how to communicate with failed, depreciated girls and boys!
I fully agree with you. I am 22, so far I have had a single relationship that lasted 2 years. I was her first, man, there is no greater pleasure in touching a woman who has not been touched before you, it is magical. And yet, if you find a girl who has been with boys before you, but you love, understand and see, that she is right and holds on to you, why should you turn your back on your happiness because of the shadows of the past? :)
Number 5, and if you meet in old age, when he doesn't like it, and you still have this one about sex, how will you like yourself sexually and start a relationship? No matter how you spin it, there is no such thing as a sexual liking movie. If he is decent in character and you can talk about something for at least 30 minutes without killing each other, you don't need sex! If only sex saves you from being killed, why get together when you're old enough to get away with it anyway? Or then you will look for someone with a more comfortable character and you will not have sex anyway? Your whole concept is wrong - the relationship does not revolve around sex, but about the two being able to be together and not to influence each other badly. If he makes you a better person and you make him a better person, give it! Otherwise, the coolest sex in the world is not worth it! For moments of pleasure, you sacrifice your whole life and your future. By that logic, just marry your vibrators!
Author, where are you? I've been looking for you for years. I need a man like you.
To the author and number 1 You better go look somewhere, according to your logic / if we think like you / women will also not want men who have slept a lot, because it is also obvious "use". That is, you are breastfed with the idea that you can use people as things and finally look for a brand new product. On what basis, however, since you yourself have also been used? !? You think it's funny, and besides, a smart woman will never tell you who and how much she slept with, because it's her job, then how will you know if you don't know her and you don't know her surroundings, for example? !? : Д
To # 9 of # 5 Let's not turn things around, I'm not saying that only sex is a factor, and communication is not important. But men I only enjoy interacting with, not wanting to call friends. Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. If it wasn't, there wouldn't be so many people complaining that their partner wouldn't let them. Or that he wouldn't let them do this and that sex was boring, that it wasn't long enough. When you're old enough that you can't or don't want to have sex, you get together for company. But until then, what will you do, children? I did not understand your problem with sex what is it? You don't like it, you don't want it, explain?
Don't be surprised if the author's dick is too small and he wants to have signed a marriage, only then to show it to his wife, because after a signed marriage it is harder to throw it away. He wants the woman to appreciate him for his other qualities and he hopes this will keep her with him. He draws some idiotic conclusions about the usability of a woman's genitals, as if the females are worn out and the males after use are the same. He hopes that a woman who is a virgin will not have seen a churka and will stay with him all her life and will think that his 6-7 cm is big. He thinks that the female genital organ is deep and wide according to the use or that if it is used then it is expanded, by this logic the used male genital organ should grow after each use !!! Let him take a few books on gynecology and find out
Author: Thanks, very thoughtful answers. This page is a wonderful thing, because we talk completely frankly, precisely because no one knows each other, and this saves us from creating some imaginary realities, and also gives us the joy of meeting like-minded, albeit hopelessly anonymous - it does not matter. I will be grateful to receive new comments if you wish, of course. I am also very interested in the statement that if people do not sleep before marriage, then they risk falling into something like a trap - sexual incompatibility, dissatisfaction, etc. It seems that even if they like in bed at first, this it is not easily destroyed then by infidelity, clashes, etc. So which risk is greater - the fact that you may not "fit" or sleep with your boyfriend / girlfriend, but without a guarantee of marriage - nothing, that "sex is great." I personally think that the latter is more risky - especially considering the ubiquitous manners. And I think the main victim of these violent sexual relationships that ended in failure is the woman. Of course, it depends on the way of thinking, but in general, you women are more sensitive and more striving for stability, ie for marriage. We, the Bulgarian (and not only) men, however, seem to have found the soft on the pie - to get ours, but if possible, free or without commitment, by suggesting to women how great sex is, until we arouse their sexual hunger. And many of them believe us, and they repeat it ... And then another big mess begins - cooling down, more twisted buttocks, sobbing on the phone, depression ... Very good, nothing. We can't stand it, men can't get to know each other, commit firmly, and then get involved. However, the urge, the omnipotent urge, is raging. :) ... I really liked the comments of the people (namely the people, not the numbers!) Under numbers 6, 7, 8, 9 ... and 10, of course! :). And at 14 I will say: brother, but you did not understand anything - you are still moving in the field of zoology and mechanics, it seems to me. But dare - you will gather fans - this is the way! It is supposed to be a place for support, but look - there are also mockers for cadets. Nothing bad. :) Be healthy! I love you, I love you very much, even though I don't know you! And thanks to the creators of this page. Comment, I wouldn't want this to sound like a final chord. but you didn't understand anything - you are still moving in the field of zoology and mechanics, it seems to me. But dare - you will gather fans - this is the way! It is supposed to be a place for support, but look - there are also mockers for cadets. Nothing bad. :) Be healthy! I love you, I love you very much, even though I don't know you! And thanks to the creators of this page. Comment, I wouldn't want this to sound like a final chord. but you didn't understand anything - you are still moving in the field of zoology and mechanics, it seems to me. But dare - you will gather fans - this is the way! It is supposed to be a place for support, but look - there are also mockers for cadets. Nothing bad. :) Be healthy! I love you, I love you very much, even though I don't know you! And thanks to the creators of this page. Comment, I wouldn't want this to sound like a final chord.
Well, a man, as it is VERY DIFFICULT for you, had thought about it when he was 18. At 18 you could marry your virgin boyfriend from school, for example. Now you must be an aging dude who thought yesterday that he wanted to get married, but to be a virgin. Emmy, it's your fault, bang your head and don't grumble about such stupid topics. He is very right 14.
It's always funny to me when I hear about men looking for a virgin, at the same time they have shaved off 30-40 women, prostitutes and all sorts ... and finally they are waiting to come across a serious woman who doesn't seem to understand his past ... and by the way - It is ugly to call a woman "second hand". The innocent to look for the innocent, what was once. And many "rushing" men are looking for rushing women to have balance ..
To number 14: Arrogant opinion, but everyone has the right to say what he thinks. In the gynecology books he writes about the physiology of the genitals, that's right. But he doesn't write other things there. Like that, unlike a man, a woman has a womb, a uterus called a cinnabar field, which stores the energy of every man she has sex with. And the strongest is that of the first man to penetrate there. She remains the strongest throughout her life. When a woman becomes pregnant, the energies of all who have been "marked" there are involved in building the fetus. The child will have the most features of the first man who tore the hymen. Therefore, the more a woman cries, the more it will harm her child. Because it will not be the result of a pure relationship, but will be a mixture of many. This is the reason why our society is deteriorating with each passing generation. Indiscriminate sex disrupts the gene. Yes, the female genitals are not physically exhausted by many partners, but a woman's womb becomes dirty. After 4 partners the process is already irreversible. If the woman has had an abortion, it is the worst. That is why it is best for the children to be from the first partner in order to be clean, then the woman can have sex with others. If you don't know these things, you can read materials on the topic of energy exchange between a man and a woman and the cinnabar field. There is a lot written on the Internet, you can freely inform yourself if you wish. Otherwise, I had the opportunity to try a new one and I don't know which use. In the beginning, I barely put my finger in the new one, and the first few times it hurt a lot, it was so tight. but the woman's womb is polluted. After 4 partners the process is already irreversible. If the woman has had an abortion, it is the worst. That is why it is best for the children to be from the first partner in order to be clean, then the woman can have sex with others. If you don't know these things, you can read materials on the topic of energy exchange between a man and a woman and the cinnabar field. There is a lot written on the Internet, you can freely inform yourself if you wish. Otherwise, I had the opportunity to try a new one and I don't know which use. In the beginning, I barely put my finger in the new one, and the first few times it hurt a lot, it was so tight. but the woman's womb is polluted. After 4 partners the process is already irreversible. If the woman has had an abortion, it is the worst. That is why it is best for the children to be from the first partner in order to be clean, then the woman can have sex with others. If you don't know these things, you can read materials on the topic of energy exchange between a man and a woman and the cinnabar field. There is a lot written on the Internet, you can freely inform yourself if you wish. Otherwise, I had the opportunity to try a new one and I don't know which use. In the beginning, I barely put my finger in the new one, and the first few times it hurt a lot, it was so tight. you can read materials on the topic of energy exchange between men and women and the cinnabar field. There is a lot written on the Internet, you can freely inform yourself if you wish. Otherwise, I had the opportunity to try a new one and I don't know which use. In the beginning, I barely put my finger in the new one, and the first few times it hurt a lot, it was so tight. you can read materials on the topic of energy exchange between men and women and the cinnabar field. There is a lot written on the Internet, you can freely inform yourself if you wish. Otherwise, I had the opportunity to try a new one and I don't know which use. In the beginning, I barely put my finger in the new one, and the first few times it hurt a lot, it was so tight.
Number 19, if you really believe in the nonsense you wrote, why did you allow yourself to "try" the "new"? Isn't this 'new' one day another man will ask her to become the mother of his children? Where is your male solidarity? Where are your principles? https://www.ted.com/talks/nina_dolvik_brochmann_and_ellen_stokken_dahl_the_virginity_fraud#t-24354
I'm number 19. It's not a question of whether or not I believe in these things, it's just how nature works. I expect to be spit on a lot, especially women, but no problem. This information has been known to mankind for many centuries. The topic is quite extensive to discuss here. This is observed by all religions. This is the reason why the church does not allow a woman more than 4 marriages. The bad thing is that young girls embark on indiscriminate sexual adventures, not realizing that this will harm their children one day, even their grandchildren. Especially if the woman has a daughter, then she will be encoded the same desires for numerous sexual contacts, a kind of spirit will always be looking for the perfect partner. Otherwise, I agree that if the author is looking for a virgin partner in adulthood, his chances are minimal. But I guess it's not about the size of his dick, but, as he put it, "there's something destructive about it." One feels things, but obviously does not know how to formulate them. The textbooks say that life is created through the recombination of the DNA of both parents. Undoubtedly so, but it's not just that ... Towards 20: I haven't violated my principles. First, the term "new" sounds vulgar to me when it comes to a person. I used it only in response to a previous comment to share that there is a difference in a woman's genitals, rules and rules of vaginal sex. This is for a purely physical condition. Second, this "new" has long since become a mother. We have two very beautiful children and a happy family life. I wish health and happiness to all. but he clearly does not know how to formulate them. The textbooks say that life is created through the recombination of the DNA of both parents. Undoubtedly so, but it's not just that ... Towards 20: I haven't violated my principles. First, the term "new" sounds vulgar to me when it comes to a person. I used it only in response to a previous comment to share that there is a difference in a woman's genitals, rules and rules of vaginal sex. This is for a purely physical condition. Second, this "new" has long since become a mother. We have two very beautiful children and a happy family life. I wish health and happiness to all. but he clearly does not know how to formulate them. The textbooks say that life is created through the recombination of the DNA of both parents. Undoubtedly so, but it's not just that ... Towards 20: I haven't violated my principles. First, the term "new" sounds vulgar to me when it comes to a person. I used it only in response to a previous comment to share that there is a difference in a woman's genitals, rules and rules of vaginal sex. This is for a purely physical condition. Second, this "new" has long since become a mother. We have two very beautiful children and a happy family life. I wish health and happiness to all. sounds vulgar to me when it comes to a person. I used it only in response to a previous comment to share that there is a difference in a woman's genitals, rules and rules of vaginal sex. This is for a purely physical condition. Second, this "new" has long since become a mother. We have two very beautiful children and a happy family life. I wish health and happiness to all. sounds vulgar to me when it comes to a person. I used it only in response to a previous comment to share that there is a difference in a woman's genitals, rules and rules of vaginal sex. This is for a purely physical condition. Second, this "new" has long since become a mother. We have two very beautiful children and a happy family life. I wish health and happiness to all.
But you are very interesting to me, such men! So you should shout, and we, the women, should stand with our legs crossed until we decide to get married! And then there's "Mine doesn't let me", "She doesn't want to give me blowjobs," "She doesn't want anal sex," "My wife is a tree in bed," etc., all in that spirit. Don't you think that sex is studied part-time? !! I don't feel sorry for any man I slept with before I got married, because that allowed me to find the right partner! Because I knew what I was looking for! For me, men who want virgin women are insecure and hope that if a woman has no basis for comparison, she will adore them. Yes but no. At one point, as her eyes open, and as she winds her flag to the left and right, then these same men begin to wonder where they came from.
№19 / 21, these chatter of yours has an esoteric taste. The church, whatever it is, has nothing to do with esotericism, however. Really big nonsense - doesn't every man have energy left from every woman he's had sex with, do you think? The energy between two people is exchanged during sex, but I do not believe that it can be stored in a woman forever, and that it affects the future child. Everyone has karma that they create for themselves.
I'm glad that my wife before me no one taught her how to give a blowjob, take it anal or whirl in bed. I would never complain about that fact. If your criterion for the right partner is how much and how you have fucked so far ... I do not agree. Purely human qualities are more valuable in May.
From number 22 I have before my eyes an example of how a family friend was happy to be his wife's first, and he had trained her as he wanted. And now his wife walks like a rascal, even walks the streets with her lovers, and he pretends not to know her when he sees her with another lover. As well as the opposite option, but with other family friends. He was a virgin, and now he's catching up.
I read, I read and I wonder, so many thugs are bent over that there are hardly any experts in sex from them !? Opening 14, knowing that a child's head can go through what you are arguing about, what size penis are you talking about? There is no man on earth who can fill such an opening with his penis, even if it is an elephant. Apparently you are all boys and you do not understand the author's idea. First, second conspiracy, as if you were buying goods from the market. And have you heard about morality, or for you only the physical is important, is it the first use !? For the new cars there was such a joke at the time, it may be ZAZ, but it smells new. After sex, any woman, when she takes a bath and perfumes, becomes like new, but her morals remain rotten inside. men. It has not worn out, but the notoriety it has accumulated is then repaid severely. Now this has become a daily occurrence for women, but in the past, such specimens were saved in distant and unknown small villages and towns, far from the people who knew them, otherwise no one wanted them. In today's emancipation, women have won equal rights (even if they have indiscriminate sex), but we also see what happens to families, there are almost none. After indiscriminate sex, as the critical childbearing years approach, the woman catches an inseminator, gives birth and remains a single mother. Over 50% are like that, what kind of families are you talking about? And the demographic crisis proves it, they have sex but do not want to give birth. The world became confused, the animal prevailed over the spiritual! such specimens were rescued in distant and unknown small villages and towns, far from the people who knew them, otherwise no one wanted them. In today's emancipation, women have won equal rights (even if they have indiscriminate sex), but we also see what happens to families, there are almost none. After indiscriminate sex, as the critical childbearing years approach, the woman catches an inseminator, gives birth and remains a single mother. Over 50% are like that, what kind of families are you talking about? And the demographic crisis proves it, they have sex but do not want to give birth. The world became confused, the animal prevailed over the spiritual! such specimens were rescued in distant and unknown small villages and towns, far from the people who knew them, otherwise no one wanted them. In today's emancipation, women have won equal rights (even if they have indiscriminate sex), but we also see what happens to families, there are almost none. After indiscriminate sex, as the critical childbearing years approach, the woman catches an inseminator, gives birth and remains a single mother. Over 50% are like that, what kind of families are you talking about? And the demographic crisis proves it, they have sex but do not want to give birth. The world became confused, the animal prevailed over the spiritual! but we also see what happens to families, there are almost none. After indiscriminate sex, as the critical childbearing years approach, the woman catches an inseminator, gives birth and remains a single mother. Over 50% are like that, what kind of families are you talking about? And the demographic crisis proves it, they have sex but do not want to give birth. The world became confused, the animal prevailed over the spiritual! but we also see what happens to families, there are almost none. After indiscriminate sex, as the critical childbearing years approach, the woman catches an inseminator, gives birth and remains a single mother. Over 50% are like that, what kind of families are you talking about? And the demographic crisis proves it, they have sex but do not want to give birth. The world became confused, the animal prevailed over the spiritual!
Well done, the last comment is from a person who understood the essence of the author's question. In my opinion, the current 15-year-old girls are making fun of their virgin peers because they are behind with the "material". What to talk about morality or some values, counting is important. This is very true for single mothers, I myself know a few who regularly leave their child to their mothers and look for entertainment for one night. Because with a child it will be difficult to find a permanent partner. The popular opinion of women I've talked to on the subject is that if they haven't tried with at least 5 partners before the current one, they seem to be fucked. I read comments from women who have done group performances, various anal adventures and what not, and are wondering how to keep this a secret from their current partner. There are many topics for families in which a third partner is invited for an orgy. It's just as if people no longer make love, don't court, don't show feelings. They just fuck, that's about sports, about one, primary instinct. Animal instinct. The decline is complete.