Hello! My soul was broken by a man who did not love me and kept me close to him only for his benefit. The moment I realized he didn't love me was the worst of my life. The emptiness I feel cannot be described in words. I was kind to this boy. I made a lot of sacrifices, and he didn't make any for the few years we were together. I really keep wondering why? He could just let me look for my happiness elsewhere ... but he didn't. Today I received the last message from him, in which he told me not to look for him unless it is very urgent. I expected at least a little that he would look for me, this time I decided not to run after him as I always do, but to see if he would do it ... And he didn't. This turn of events crushed me. I don't even cry anymore, I just stare blankly at the wall. I am emotionally devastated and I have the feeling that I will never love someone so much again. The gap I mentioned above is deadly and I don't know if I will ever be able to fill it ... all I need is a few words of encouragement and advice, of course. It doesn't seem very difficult and scary, but mine is hard and scary, and it hurts a lot.
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You're not alone. We will pass, give yourself time :)
I understand you ... I was cut off by a girl ... who supposedly liked me. And in principle, the girls are not interested in me. Seeded by my appearance. However, this was different and he accepted me in spite of everything ... and then left me without a logical reason. It broke me emotionally .. Two weeks of severe depression .. it was soon .. it still weighs on me .. I'm still waiting for him to write to me but .. he doesn't. And that thought only torments me. I get easily traumatized - I think this is when something bad happens to you that you can't overcome over time. But I really believed that I was interested in her ... at least a little ... And I missed her. In your case, I think you will easily outlive the boy in question. If he didn't really care about you. Don't think about it - you have nothing to regret but the weather - I've outlived friends I've been with for ten years. It just comes when you realize that ... if it was a lie ... it's your fault. And I was young and naive. You will find another. This time evaluate well. Choose carefully. :))
Do not give up! Remind yourself that in the beginning it is difficult, and then it gets easier and you just have to spend some time like that. Fill your day with some things, even if they are nonsense that just keep you busy and distract you from it, and in a few weeks the hole will start to disappear. Just find salvation for your mind for a while.