Hello friends. I recently learned about this site and decided to dig here to assess its value. I was very pleasantly surprised by the advice given and I decided to share with you my life story, which is extremely instructive and inspire hope to people who are on one occasion or another in a difficult stage of life. I am now 48 years old and have not lived in Bulgaria for a long time. Exactly 20 years ago I was diagnosed with a very unpleasant disease - adenocarcinoma. For me, the world has turned completely upside down. I had serious trouble with some terrible people and the strong stress triggered the disease - at least according to the doctors. My family had a hard time because the cancer was malignant and the hopes were not very high. Then I suddenly got scared and decided to look for a woman from my past who has always been my only great love. I had some ridiculous actions and staggers that she found out about and withdrew, I also gave up and our paths finally parted. That, of course, didn't mean I'd rip it out of my heart. So, then in this difficult moment, the need to see her and share with her what was happening to me outweighed the shame of what I had done to her.
I didn't expect him to agree because she had a husband and she would be very unfair to him. At first, when we met, she was skeptical and almost certain that I had lied to her just to lure her to the meeting. At the tenth minute he realized that everything was true. He reviewed the research and was horrified. It's time to tell her why I called her. The answer was too clear. I needed to see her, to feel her energy again, to remember how different I was, when that burning, strong and true love that I believe meets once in a lifetime hovers between us. I completely forgot about the disease that had taken over my whole consciousness. Then I abruptly interrupted her and asked her not to talk about the disease. I wanted to enjoy every second of meeting my dearest being. We talked a lot, recalled past mistakes and how much we meant to each other. Her laughter and voice literally acted as a healing medicine to me. After a few hours we broke up. That was enough for me. She went home to her husband, I went to the oncology again for another exhausting procedure. I started to get worse and was admitted to hospital permanently. Nevertheless, there was hope and I hoped for it to the last. One day I was told that I had a visitor, but I was not expecting anyone and I was very excited to see her. It was her - my girl, my true love - the one who only complemented me and whom I once loved. I don't know where she learned from, but she came. He knelt by the bed and cried. She took my hand and said that she forgave me for all the pain I had caused her, that everything was in the past, that she knew that I was not really a bad person and that I had always loved her in that unique and hot way like no other. It started coming every day and it got me up emotionally. It made sense to wake up every morning, I gained a strong will to fight and after a few months I got a lot stronger. I recovered thanks to her. - of her warmth, devotion and love. After I was discharged from the hospital, my treatment continued for a long time, but we continued to maintain a relationship with her. I was already sure I couldn't do without her, I just couldn't. She is my strength, inspiration, meaning, dream, love. She healed me. After a while we got together. Rather, we were brought together by true love and the thirst for life.
To date we are a very happy family and we have 3 children. We have left the bad moments in the past and every day we thank God that we are all alive, healthy, that we are together and that he brought us together again - to live the rest of our lives together. This is my story, dear readers. I want to encourage you never to give up the struggle for your great love and to believe in its undisputed power, which literally managed to snatch me from the hands of death. Fight, fight if necessary for it, because only in this way you will be complete and your existence will make sense. I wish you a pleasant evening, be alive and healthy and do not forget - only love will save us. I beg editors to publish my story, as it is completely authentic and would have a stimulating effect on those who are in a dilemma as to whether it is worth fighting for one's love. Thanks.
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A story with a good ending! But sir, what a great love we are talking about after you fell for one, it repulsed you. One, second, third fifth. You're out of luck. I don't know about another place, but in Bulgaria many people are lonely and cannot find love. They just can't. They want it, but it doesn't work out. Philip 36
Sorry, but I can't seem to. Many disappointments and at one point you suffer and do not bother about almost anything. Nice story, but it seems as distant to me as the characters in a children's tale. I do not see any sense in modern relations, because there are no rules, it is complete chaos and everyone does what he wants, today he feels one thing, tomorrow another, today we love each other, tomorrow we fight, the next day we cheat, then we look for student love, etc.
And her husband? How happy would he be to read this? How much feeling and strength did he put into his marriage to finally submit to the "power of love"? I'm not judging you - it can happen to anyone - but, I'm sorry, with all this happiness there is, as the English say, a "skeleton in the wardrobe." Don't forget your abandoned brother.
I was speechless, thank you! At the moment I am in such a dilemma, I have been struggling for a long time, but still without success ... Your story seems to give me new strength to keep doing it!
Your story made me cry. Very strong and emotional. Meaningful topic and real. I've always wondered what a small part of life is occupied by meaningful moments. Although sometimes they end very quickly, even before they start ... - an example from my past. I am glad that your destiny is merciful to you and you are with it. Great love is once truly experienced.
Thank you for sharing and encouraging people. I'm glad you're healed, my story sounds like a movie. Write a book, tell it to your children. But how did things turn out for her, what did she tell her husband about the hospital visits, when did she decide to divorce.
Hello again! I am very glad that my story has touched you in some way. Indeed, from the side, things look like a movie script, but I have recreated absolutely literally the factual circumstances as they were. Now to answer the questions on number 7. She did not tell him about the visits to the hospital, so as not to create unnecessary tension. With them, marriage was built on very strong and sincere love, but only on his part. She never loved him as she loved me. She was strongly attached to his kind attitude and his heroic attempts to win her over. She really respected him, but that burning love that makes you burn just never existed on her part. He appeared after our first separation and filled the void. I guess you remember what I'm talking about. She definitely had something to thank him for - during the time we were separated, he had made a hell of a lot of gestures. If she had cooled down to me - she would never have come to the meeting - it was 3 years after our last meeting. No matter how hard I try, it is difficult for me to go into more detail - this is LOVE - it is felt, not explained, learned or acquired. Either she has it or she doesn't. I guess you understand me. As for their divorce - because the boy turned out to be understood - they ended quickly by mutual consent in about a month. And how exactly she told him, I don't know. But if you mean, did she tell him about me - definitely NOT. But he's not stupid - I guess he guessed. I really like the idea of the book. I will even dedicate one of the chapters especially to some of my close relatives, who still help me a lot. My wife and I appreciate them immensely. Great people. But another time for them (I promise the head is the thickest for them - I have an awful lot to tell there :)) I got very lost. If you have more questions, ask. Thanks again for the interest. Author
Ohh, how glad I was that you had a happy ending! I hope there is one with my great love, I love her so much ... I hope she comes back to me ...
This is a fictional story by the operators! A woman to leave a healthy man and return to a man who has cancer. He has recovered but it is not known when he will return. Come on, please. This is only available in movies for the purpose of dramatization! Just think if any of you would do such nonsense? !!
I am a woman, but I can not imagine marrying a man I do not love, just out of respect for him, much less to have children. I don't know how your wife married her first husband out of respect and had sex out of respect for him? And you see, he then readily agreed to divorce. And does your wife have children from her first husband? From what has been written, it turns out that your illness provoked her to leave him and rediscover her love for you! So powdered and tearful that I can't believe it. Author, we women are not so stupid and we have the right to doubt, because the style of writing resembles Uncle, who soon did not appear on the site, so he always turned things around so that the former return to their husbands. F32
Just introduce yourself. Your old love calls you and says she has cancer. And you are married. And you say super I'll leave my husband and go back to my ex or my ex who has cancer. There is no such fool. No one wants a sick person next to them. Stop brainwashing people.
Tales from 1001 nights !!!