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Forbidden Love ... !!!

By floretflower October 02, 2020 22 answers Last updated October 02, 2020

Hello! I am a girl of 17 years and a year and a half ago I met a man of 26. He is married and has a small and very beautiful girl. Because our city is small we all know each other and there is no hidden-covered. I started a relationship with This man was joking, but after a while I fell in love with him very much. He and his friends have great fame and name in our city and everyone admires them. My parents understood and tried to separate me from him, but they failed. After a while, his wife understood and started texting me to leave him, finding that she and her child are the most important and so on. When he found out about the text messages, he literally beat his wife in a fight! Several times I tried to he forgets it when I had relationships with other boys, but I couldn't ... And he always forgave me ... During this year and a half, it was as if I was his wife - he took me to birthdays, parties, we were on vacation together,on holidays he was with me .... just wonderful.But this can not continue.I love him, but I feel sorry for this woman who waits for him every night and he does not go home! If I do not end our relationship, he he won't do it because (and he's not the only one telling me) he loves me very much, he sticks to me and he would divorce if it got there. I don't want to break up his family and that's why I have to retire. But please tell me how to forbid my heart to beat hard when I see him and how to forbid my eyes to look at him, how to refrain from calling him or how not to pick him up when he calls me. Please help .. ...because (and he's not the only one telling me) he loves me very much, he sticks to me and he would get divorced if it got there. I don't want to break up his family and that's why I have to retire. But please tell me how to ban my heart beats fast when I see him and how to forbid my eyes to look at him, how to restrain myself from calling him or how not to pick him up when he calls me. Please help .....because (and he's not the only one telling me) he loves me very much, he sticks to me and he would get divorced if it got there. I don't want to break up his family and that's why I have to retire. But please tell me how to ban my heart beats fast when I see him and how to forbid my eyes to look at him, how to restrain myself from calling him or how not to pick him up when he calls me. Please help .....

Answers 22

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sexysweetmonica answered · October 02, 2020

   If you don't do it now, you will be in the role of his wife then and so on with each following ....... because everything in this life is paid and has its price. You choose whether you want to pay it.

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only_dani answered · October 02, 2020

   Heh, but you're as naive as I am. Darling and I thought so, he loves me very much, he is still with me, and when I said that I can no longer stand to choose and guess what he chose - his wife and son. Don't believe the words, when I left him, not only he but also his friends prayed to me, but then I realized that I had lied. I love him, but now we are separated and I feel better. Now I understand what I lost in two years with him - try to understand!

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Dizzy_Bear answered · October 02, 2020

   I understand you darling. It's hard to forget a person you love so much. My friend dumped me 7 weeks before the wedding. He doesn't pick up my phone, he doesn't answer my messages. Don't hide, talk to him face to face until you understand each other. Don't you decide for yourself. You have decided to be together by mutual consent and you have to separate by that. It is very difficult.

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yolanda_jay answered · October 02, 2020

   I THINK IT IS NOT WORTH, IN ORDER TO SATISFY YOUR INTERESTS AND DESIRE, TO DESTROY A PERSON'S FAMILY, THINK THAT THERE IS ALSO A CHILD. YOU, IF ANY "PICKLE" BREAKS YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE IT HAS DECIDED TO BEGIN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND IT'S IN A JOKFULNESS. GIRL , PROVE THAT YOU ARE A BIG GIRL, AND NOT A LITTLE PICKLE, WHO, IN ORDER TO PLAY, BREAKS FAMILIES.

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couplesensation1 answered · October 02, 2020

   3, you're right, we've talked many times on this topic and it's the same. And even if I want to, I can't hide from it, because as I said, the city is small and we see each other every day. see you and I'm a little relieved ..... I don't know, time will tell .....

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mckekel answered · October 02, 2020

   You should have thought before you started something with this man. You broke up the family !! Do you wonder how this child feels ?! Sometimes because of pickles like you who don't know if they pee or fuck, small children grow up stressed and confused !! !!

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huffletease answered · October 03, 2020

   Abe had ruined his family. If she hadn't forced him to be with her, he had chosen to ruin his family, his wife and child were not her concern and had nothing to do with her. From where to where she will think them. Everyone thinks about themselves and their own family, and as far as I understand she obviously doesn't have one yet. And people get married and divorced constantly, everyone is looking for their happiness and comfort until they find it. The child remains his, he will not forget it for sure. This is my opinion, and what will happen if he writes to us, and we will understand :)

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AntonellaVv answered · October 03, 2020

   всеки си пази своята територия,аз също съм на страната на жена му,от къде на къде като знае че е семеен ще позволява да се стига до чукане и намеса,не одобрявам

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stevebabs answered · October 03, 2020

   Are you all blaming either the little "pickle" or taking your wife's side? And has anyone wondered what the role of the "man" is in this whole story? I put the man in quotes because if you ask me this is not a man. I love such molders very much where they find a woman, make a child and then catch a 17-year-old girl. They feel very strong when they beat their wives because they have tried to protect their happiness in some way (as in this case). At the same time, they have some unconscious girls as lovers. Don't take offense girls on the 17th and I've been that far, and I thought I knew what I wanted. So my thought is that it is much easier to turn the head of a 16-17 year old girl with two nice jokes and a promise of a beautiful cloudless life. And these talk of divorce, if necessary, does anyone believe this nonsense? Let me ask again: who is the black sheep in the whole story ?!

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classdeb answered · October 04, 2020

   To have a third between the two is the fault of one of the two who let him enter between them! But we are always the ones to blame the lover regardless of his gender, and why? Where is his fault? Love is blind and no one can dictate to their heart who to love! Why should he compromise and suffer, he / she is a living being like us, they have feelings too? And whether the family will break down does not depend on the third person, but on the one who has made the choice to have another person in his life! Since we are close-minded, you obviously have to divorce first and then catch someone. But I am of the opinion that sometimes when you catch a lover you can actually understand what you have and what you can lose and then you realize exactly what you want !!!

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SensualAssX answered · October 04, 2020

   I think you should dump him, because this man can't offer you anything but lies. But even if you break up with your wife, you will not be happier with him, because this man uses physical violence, beats the woman who gave him the most valuable thing - the child, and what is left for you. I think you can judge for yourself. Good luck.

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peaceboy530 answered · October 04, 2020

   as you said 6 do you wonder how this child feels? My father cheated on my mother with a woman her age living with her for 5 or 6 years even I don't know because I didn't know from the beginning, but when I found out you know that now I can't trust any man? Think of the child, this will leave a mark on him while he is alive

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valerialipovetsky answered · October 05, 2020

   At the moment I have a relationship with a married man, with 3 children, only that we are quite, much older - I do not feel guilty, I think that his wife should keep him with her, right?

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ghasem.yadegari.official answered · October 05, 2020

   I also had a relationship with a married man. I met him when I started working. His wife also worked there, but had gone out on maternity leave, expecting a child from him. We started to get down and soon things got worse, but at one point he told me that he was upset about his wife. Now there is still a thrill between us and even feelings, sometimes we even say to each other how much we love each other as a joke, but I love him no more, and I can't forget him when I see him every day, but he made his choice!

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ray6962 answered · October 05, 2020

   Infidelity has nothing to do with love, but only with small human accounts. One should not cheat on oneself, because this interferes with one's inner harmony. Infidelity is associated with broken promises, ie. contractual relations - IS LOVE A CONTRACT? Everyone who is incomplete, who is boring and looking for someone to entertain them, to convince them that they are great, that they are unique, THAT THEY ARE, are prone to infidelity.

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LittleBoo_ answered · October 06, 2020

   When in a year and a half you remember that you will break his family / ha-ha-ha, you're tired a /. Darling has long had nothing to break. It is normal for a person to be deceived by their hormones, and it is right to impose limitations on the mind. Be a little smarter people! In these depressive times, do not bother with unnecessary negative emotions. Love yourself with reason, do not hurt anyone's feelings.

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hardcockmen answered · October 06, 2020

   My ex-husband also broke up with me because of 1 / as some call PICKLE / 10 years younger than me, BUT I do not blame her, but HIM. She fell in love, it's not custom-made, it's just subconscious. Maybe he fell in love too, I don't know ... I only blame him for not looking at our 2 children since he was with her, he just forgot them and never wanted to talk to me as big, mature people, yes tell me the whole truth and part as friends. SO, MILICA, TALK, TALK TO HIM AND LET HIM TAKE A DECISION AND TALK TO HIS WIFE. You must know whether you will be together or not, his wife cannot live forever in lies and infidelity. Just clarify and no matter how things go, there will be no lies and secrets ... let each of you know who is waiting for what. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, IF HE STAYS WITH YOU, DON'T ALLOW HIS CHILD TO LEAVE

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royalmaidenxxx answered · October 06, 2020

   Please, please, I am a 43 year old woman, married with 2 grown children. I experienced everything in this life, both good and bad, including infidelity. My husband, after 20 years of marriage, and after 10 years of relationship with a mistress, decided that he should go and live with her. They lived together for 20 days and unfortunately or to my joy he came back to me. BELIEVE ME DEAR GIRLS, IT HURTS A LOT. True, he came back to me and our children, he worked hard, he took care of all of us day and night, but somewhere deep inside me the doubt remained. Now, after 5 years, everything is fine at home, but this thought of the other does not cross my mind. I often think of her and her family (because she is also married with 2 big children). Many people reproached me and still continue to accept me back. I thought and cried a lot, I hesitated for a long time how to do the right thing. Finally I made a decision that it is best for children to be all together. It may be a banal excuse, but very easy, I would divorce, the harder it is to forgive. Although such situations are difficult to overcome. For me, as much as he is guilty, so is she guilty. True, there are no limits and age for love, but I think that everyone can put a brake on themselves and decide how to act. So, dear girls or women, before you take another step towards married men, put yourself in the place of their wives and their children for a moment. If you are the wife, how would you react, how much would it hurt for another woman to kidnap your loved one, whom you married for love, from whom you have children, with whom you shared good and bad days. It hurts and is never forgotten. Be patient, pious and resourceful. From the bottom of my heart, please do not spoil families. There are enough good, intelligent and caring uninvolved young boys and men. I believe that everyone has their partner, somewhere in the world. It is very important that every relationship begins and exists on an honest basis, with great trust and true love. And most of all without pain for others. I wish you from the bottom of my heart to always be kind and smiling. I believe that everything is achieved with a lot of patience and love for the people with whom each of us is in contact. All the best and think carefully before taking the first step towards the person you are striving for. Kisses. I wish you from the bottom of my heart to always be kind and smiling. I believe that everything is achieved with a lot of patience and love for the people with whom each of us is in contact. All the best and think carefully before taking the first step towards the person you are striving for. Kisses. I wish you from the bottom of my heart to always be kind and smiling. I believe that everything is achieved with a lot of patience and love for the people with whom each of us is in contact. All the best and think carefully before taking the first step towards the person you are striving for. Kisses.

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SweetdollMAYA answered · October 06, 2020

   I just want to say that he is no longer with his wife, because it turned out that she had another one all the time. They had ended their marriage a few days ago, and if she really loved him, she would try to think about it. But she agreed very quickly. He's just with me now. I never thought of separating him from his daughter. She is with us every day while his EX-wife is at work and I am happy with her. Because she is a little, sweet little angel who is not to blame for his mother and father not understanding each other or just not being for each other. Even now that we know we will have a child and live together, he has not forgotten his first daughter for a moment. I want to tell everyone that I fought for my love and won it. Fight too, if you really think that he is the man for you. I wish you luck ... !!!

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DashaSlut answered · October 07, 2020

   Well done, my girl. Everyone thought a lot - it's easy from the side. You were a pick, huh? How come no one allowed his wife to pee? And what turned out to be the woman also had another. They will make me tired! Anyway - there is no need for someone to pee. Everyone has their own story and their own truth. There is no formula for a proper life. Just be careful, I'm a little worried about the fact that he "beat" his wife ... Keep one thing in mind - a man who attacks once is very likely to repeat. That's all that worries me, otherwise - I wish you happiness!

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emilymouufit answered · October 07, 2020

   Well, what can I say - if he's nailed his wife and his wife is waiting for him every night - he doesn't deserve it. What's the point of this woman living with him? And this girl who asks herself such questions, I think she still has a head on her shoulders. Darling, I think it's best for you and his wife to leave him - to understand that two chairs remain on the ground.

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pheobe_phobos answered · October 07, 2020

   this girl who shares about this relationship is not possible and god said don't divide the family! BUT THIS MAN to look for a relationship with another woman means maybe he is looking for another relationship and I have some reason in the family. N this little one to leave him alone, he will never divorce for now, He is accustomed to dating all sorts of women AMEN