Hello! I am a girl between 16-18 years old (I do not want my age to be known) and I can say that, to put it mildly, I am forgotten by everyone! I had girlfriends and friends, guys who like me, I had a life! Great teenage life until I broke my limb ... I didn't leave the damn house that was suffocating me for 3 weeks and finally when I left us the world had changed radically for me! My friends found new companies and boyfriends, most of my friends went to study, and no boy just pays attention to me anymore! And the saddest thing of all is that to the question "Why are you fucking your best friend for all the other acquaintances?" My best friend answered: "I don't know, there's no reason" from which I was speechless .... How so everything turned upside down? I no longer have a personal life, friends and boyfriend ... that my life suddenly became so gray and boring? 2nd- Why did everyone forget me at the same time? 3rd- Why am I so miserable that I never succeed in love? 4th-When will I get out of this hole of despair and everything will be the same? 5th- Where did I go wrong? :( Please give me advice what to do because I am very confused and I will be very grateful! :) that my life suddenly became so gray and boring? 2nd- Why did everyone forget me at the same time? 3rd- Why am I so miserable that I never succeed in love? 4th-When will I get out of this hole of despair and everything will be the same? 5th- Where did I go wrong? :( Please give me advice what to do because I am very confused and I will be very grateful! :)
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1st- Why did it happen that my life suddenly became so gray and boring? You are going through a more specific period. Look on the bright side. Fate wanted you to understand that you have no future with these people and so it protects you. If you realize this and get rid of the past, very soon everything will work out on its own - you will find a new environment, new friends who will care about you. 2nd- Why did everyone forget me at the same time? I have already answered. This is actually for the better, otherwise how would you rate your future TRUE friends? 3rd- Why am I so miserable that I never succeed in love? Your partner is one and is somewhere in the world. If love was so easy to meet, we wouldn't appreciate it. When the time is right and you have a pure heart, He will come. 4th-When will I get out of this hole of despair and everything will be the same? The greatest successes and turning points in life come right after despair. I am a living example. Despair is actually the last step before liberation, liberation from expectations, from ambitions, from fears, worries. After the release, the heart is relieved of everything superfluous, it becomes pure. You will know his pure heart by his calmness, by his peace of mind, by his spontaneous conviction that everything will be in perfect order soon. And just then miracles come, as they came in my love. 5th- Where did I go wrong? You are not wrong, you are innocent and you have always been. You just went through a dark period. But the dark periods are not bad, they are even necessary to get rid of them and thus unite good and evil in one whole, to build a new higher consciousness, which includes both and with which to create the new and good in your life. Do not look at light and darkness as good and bad. They are both part of you and you are part of them. As you view them as two opposites that are in eternal struggle, you will attract an inner struggle. Look at them as 2 poles of a whole that interact. If one does not exist, the other will not exist. Look at the Yin-Yang sign and think about what it symbolizes. If you remove black, unity and balance are lost. Look at them as 2 poles of a whole that interact. If one does not exist, the other will not exist. Look at the Yin-Yang sign and think about what it symbolizes. If you remove black, unity and balance are lost. Look at them as 2 poles of a whole that interact. If one does not exist, the other will not exist. Look at the Yin-Yang sign and think about what it symbolizes. If you remove black, unity and balance are lost.
I'm sorry you had a fracture, but I think you're dramatizing too much. Slightly lighter things will return to normal for you. There is no reason for your friends to avoid you. Unless you're missing something.
Look on the bright side. Develop new friendships.
You are quite intelligent and I wonder why you call friends, people who do not give five bucks for you. Fuck them. They don't deserve you. Looking ahead, life is full of new challenges and friendships. What did you lose? "Friends"? Hypocritical traitors with fake smiles. You don't need them. Find a hobby, meet new people, different from your previous "friends". Don't despair and never call yourself miserable again. Your happiness may be around the corner and even in front of your eyes, but you can't see it. Listen to your heart, it never lies. "The essential is invisible to the eye" - Exupery. Read carefully in your free time "The Little Prince", there you will find the answer to all your questions. I wish you success.
From the author: Thank you! You really made me feel better! And I really hope things get better! :)