Hello! It says a girl between a hammer and an anvil. I was with a boy for three years. I loved him very much and I still love him. I will always love him because he was my first in many things, except sex. For three years we went a long way to do it, but each time our minds stopped. I was scared. We had a long separation for 5 months and then we got together and it was all a fairy tale. 3 weeks ago we broke up again and I was lost in thought and confused I started writing to a boy (my admirer). He fell in love with me, called me every day, wrote to me and still does. He's very good and maybe I like him in some way. But this sympathy is nothing according to the feelings for my first love. This guy I'm writing to is nice, but he's doing bad things, I'm afraid he'll confuse me, too, although he convinces me that " And whether to start with the other boy, even though I know he's doing the wrong thing. I will be very happy if this story is published and give advice to the confused girl. Thanks in advance!
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As a person who has acquaintances who "work", I will tell you only one thing, and if you are smart, you will listen to me: stay away from that "job", as you call it, because I will not go into details, but you are poor fantasy of what might happen to you. And what do you expect him to tell you? That his "work" will give you incredible headaches?
This first thing is wrong with him. It is not normal to date someone for 3 years and not have sex. It is even more abnormal for you to undress in front of him and for him to "come to his senses". He is obviously input or gay. In any case, there is something rotten. Male 30
You will suffer a lot. You are too naive. You can't tell the value. Whether you have been with someone for a long time or not is not in itself an indication of whether this relationship has been useful to you, whether it has taught you something. Even today's brother can stab you in the back, the brother you spent your whole childhood with. So time is nothing. You are tempted by danger (he does bad things, as you call him). This is because you have not found your vocation, your daily life is boring and you are looking for adventure. I advise you to soon find some activities that will give you a start in life, because otherwise you will be a puppet in the hands of various men. And more precisely, men who have no goals, but with pretensions to heaven for themselves.
Forget about this new one! Seriously, delete it, don't talk to him, tell him that you quarreled with your friend and wanted to irritate him, but in fact you neither like him nor have feelings ... And as for your friend, sit down and talk to yourself about what you are feeling, what is not working and whether you are ready to change it and accept in the other the things that will not change ...