Hello, I'm a girl of 18, I have a question for men and women, and I have a friend for 1 year, we have sex, and he really wants French, but I told him I'm not ready. He waited and that's why I want advice on how to start. I don't hate him or anything in sex. Thanks in advance
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He'll like it and he'll handle it. Dirty Daddy
Anxiety has played a bad joke on countless people. If you love your boy and want to give him pleasure in this way, put aside your fears due to lack of experience and create a little one by practicing. You can play pornography where the actors share just that type of physical intimacy to see how French love is made and to imagine things. If you wish, you can also ask your friend to guide you - how to stand, how it is most pleasant for him to touch him with his tongue and fingers; whether he likes prostate or testicular massage. Don't be ashamed to ask and try different techniques. No one was born a scientist, and no young woman has been an expert in this since the first time. Your boyfriend certainly takes into account the fact that you are young and that you are yet to get along on a sexual level. How to start? If you need a light boost for the mood, be the initiator of a romantic dinner - scented candles, shower together, then a light meal in beautiful plates, nice music. Hug him, start kissing him on the face, neck, chest, abdomen; if you like it, give him a complete massage, there are a hell of a lot of videos on the internet. Blindfold him if it is not a problem for him and if it will inspire you. This will enhance his feelings. Then, at the end of the massage, you can focus on its most sensitive place. First try it with your lips - kiss it lightly along the length, on the testicles, on the curves of the thighs. He deepened the kiss, including his tongue. Then you can start licking it, sucking on top or sideways, experiment. This is the beginning. Then you will feel for yourself what gives him incredible pleasure, and he will help you and guide you. There is nothing scary, only pleasure and ecstasy awaits you in such moments. Important! - Talk about it if there is something that worries you before, during or after the experience. Tell him if you liked it or not. Specify exactly what you (didn't) like. Let time together be a new way to get to know each other, to learn how to have fun. Success!
The theory is very different from the practice. You have to try, otherwise even reading and watching videos will not help you at all. You can't help but worry, you just need to know that it's hard to make mistakes, because it's not that complicated at all. Be careful with your teeth, my advice is limited to this. It is important not to hurt him, from then on you will have time to understand what he likes and how to do it better.