Hello! I'm in 8th grade and you know, new school, new class… I befriended one who at first glance seemed decent, but over time he began to show his true face… Constantly uses me for homework and so on. n, but when I was sick he did not bother to send me the missed lessons and hid like a mouse. I'm tired of his selfishness. I have to constantly comply with him and his whims, because "he is always right" and I have no right to a personal opinion. Whenever I try to oppose him, he "insults" me as if we were in kindergarten and starts spreading various lies and rumors about me to my other friends and classmates, and the worst thing is that they believe him. And this continues until he "apologizes" to him (even though HE is the one who should do it) and until he takes the blame for everything. Today I was fed up with him, I'm tired of being his servant, in the morning something seemed interesting to me again and he behaved like a complete bird (sorry for the expression) and I think it's high time to end the friendship… The question is that I don't know how to do it without starting to attack me again and talk nonsense about me in front of others. I need advice, thanks in advance ...
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Directly, tell him you don't like the way he behaves. Don't let him manipulate, let him tell others what he wants, he does it, 'because you care, if you didn't care he wouldn't do it.
Do his homework wrong and isolate him.
Hello, I have a daughter your age, I will answer you as well as her if she asks me for advice. As soon as you feel used by this classmate, stop all contact with him. Even if it speaks for you, it should not worry you, stand up and say in front of others and your version. Even if they don't accept her at the moment, it will happen after a while, when he bursts out in front of them. This will happen sooner than you think, because this type of people can't play a role for a long time. Children are much worse now than when we were little. And last but not least, don't apologize for something you didn't do. This is how you obey and the aggressor feels satisfaction, he likes it and will still look for a way to get this pleasure - to obey. Believe in yourself and know that people like the one in question do not gain respect later in life - somehow shy away from them. Find someone to share with your mother, grandmother, aunt - someone with a bigger one, because as one of my friends likes to say, "this is aerobatics".
Hey, I have a problem like that, but it's not exactly the same, and she uses me and it becomes the same as in * class, but anyway, don't obey him, I'm also afraid to talk to my parents, because my mother she is my friend with her mother and then I don't know what will happen about it, I recommend you to talk and explain. Thank you for your attention!