My soul is hurt. I have been married for several years and I have two amazing kids. At the beginning of our marriage, sex was once a week, gradually diluted once a month and so 5-6 years ago sex disappeared from our family bed. There were insults, fights, quarrels ... I was repulsed by all indications, but I continued to love him, and I suffered because of children, parents, friends. Whenever he went to work, I would kiss him on the cheek (he wouldn't let me kiss him on the lips), but this time he wiped himself with the back of his hand (it was on my birthday). From that day on, everything broke in me! And so for years alone, but married with children. Where ...
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I recommend two book editions that helped me "Men Are Assholes" and "Manipulate But Correctly". The first edition describes psychological approaches on how to deal with troubled men, its authors are two male psychologists who describe the cases of clients who sought help from them. This book will not completely change the troubled man, but it could help him correct himself. I recommend the second edition to all women who often do not know how to assert their rights and agree with everything. The book gives some basic methods of manipulation, which and using them properly will lead to great results. Write how you are and how you deal with the Ass! Good luck.
I have been in the same hall for years with the difference that my children are already quite old. Unfortunately, they began to copy their father's behavior. I no longer know what to do to please everyone. There are times when I even wonder what to say and how to react, I'm supposed to be a strong woman and I can handle all kinds of situations, but alas - I can't do it with my husband anymore.
You know it best yourself!
You are very strong, nothing. Your children suffer because of one of your masochisms ... tomorrow they will hate you and accuse your children of letting them suffer in such an environment. Your husbands are neither men nor fathers. Sit with them, kiss them ... shame.