People, I'm desperate ... I don't know what to do anymore, I ruined my life with this gambling. I feel like throwing my rope. I am in debt, I have to repay 10,000. I've been in this circle for 4 years now, every time I say enough, but I don't stop, I can't spare the money. I played about 30,000. I take a salary of 700, I give 200 for a month, the others to survive. I am not looking for consolation, but I am looking for someone to direct me to the right specialist, to advise me what to do not to think about money, to continue my life. I ruined everything, no one knows about this vice of mine. I dare not say to myself and I do not want my relatives to understand that I am a gambler. It's not so easy to say stop tomorrow, it doesn't work. I still haven't gambled on my money to get my money, and I'm already afraid of doing something stupid, I can't control myself. I am writing this post to you after I lost 1,900 today, all in order to kill some part of the money and feel sorry for the others, but it doesn't work and it doesn't work and I got stuck. Please give me some advice. I am a young boy; (
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I said it myself - gambling addiction! And without that you spend money that you don't have, give some money for a psychologist. Once you can't stop on your own, give yourself a chance to be helped.
Stop playing if you're not doing well. Forget you played 30,000 start over. Gambling is designed so that when a person loses, he wants to get his money back, but it often happens that he loses even more money. And when he wins, he wants to win more and more, and in the end he may be zero. At one time I had such an addiction, but I managed to give up. I told myself as long as I lost. It's better not to think about how much money I've lost, but how much I can win if I don't play. Forget that you lost altogether and think about the fact that if you stop playing you will gain much more than if you continue to play.
Why give up gambling? Everyone has an addiction anyway, I have one too, but I haven't thought about giving it up. Whether with one or the other, whether you or someone else will spend your money, you still won't have it. So at least you spend them, so do not regret so much, everyone has vices. If we didn't, we would be saints, even gods.
Gambling addiction is treated by psychiatrists. go to the doctor
a specialist will not help you ... everything is up to the inner attitude .... it is difficult but you have to cope, and it will be easier for you if you have someone to help you and stop you and only he knows about your problem. if you think that when you go out you can end up in a casino, don't take your ID card and when you get home, think about it. there is no one to save you completely but yourself
Yes, it is up to the inner attitude. The one who is lucky will show himself from the first time. As you understand, you are not doing well. Well, stop gambling before you sink even deeper. Will is wanted .... and think a little more realistically about your actions and what you can and what you can't afford before you have completely ruined your life.
Those who wrote to you above just don't know what it's about! The truth is that this addiction is stronger than drugs. If you have a girlfriend, I advise you to give yourself completely to her and your relationship and change your lifestyle and hope that love wins.
Go to a psychiatrist who will hospitalize you in a psychiatric ward for a few months or as you see fit! This is one of the most serious mental addictions along with drug addiction. If you don't stop, you can go to jail. I know a Czech woman who was deprived of her parental rights over the children and the house and was forced to flee to Germany, because if she returns to the Czech Republic, she goes to prison for numerous debts! I'm telling you, this is a serious brain disease and you can't handle it on your own, at least not until a good doctor helps you! Good luck from me!
If you really want to help yourself, look for the book Anonymous Gamblers, read it and also find where meetings of Anonymous Gamblers are organized and visit them regularly, following the program, even if they are in another city! You have no other chance! Success!
To 5: Well, that's why he needs someone to show him, not a random person who doesn't understand a person's specific individual problems.
BROTHER, DON'T DESPAIR YOU WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE AND YOU WILL STOP, SO YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT IS IMPORTANT, I LOST AN APARTMENT WOMAN CLOSE AND 250,000, BUT EVERYTHING IS BAD! JUST DON'T THINK YOU'LL KILL SOMETHING.
Look what, don't drool. You can do without gambling, not without water. I am a former gambler, I am currently writing to you from France and I am here because I started my life fresh. Why are you filling the throats of these leftists? What you have lost, you will not take from there. If you win worse, you will become more addicted. The problem is that you are lonely, you have no hobbies, no revenge to get back what you lost. Absurd. You stop, you find a partner who doesn't gamble, you stop smoking, mainly alcohol, because he will take you back there. And so if you continue, you continue to lose. They are for your casinos, to outwit you. You don't play from today, period. Angel
Harart is a disease that cannot be cured. Casino owners know this very well. Casino is mostly attended by ordinary people, with secondary or lower education, with a basic income below BGN 1,000, who earn "difficult" money to spend on: alcohol, gambling, cigarettes, etc. There is no salvation for you, find a rope ...
Hello, my name is Mitko from C ****. I had the same problem. I decided it in a rather strange way for most people, but I liked it and to this day I am happy. I bought a penis belt ... Since I have it, it never occurs to me to gamble. Try it too, Good luck!
I am also addicted. There is a club for anonymous gamblers, I'm thinking of going there
No matter how hard you try at the casino, you will not win. I was a croupier in one of the busiest casinos in Sofia. I've seen people lose 20,000 in a few hours. Find your way out of this vicious circle.