Hello! There is a girl I was very much in love with (and I still think I am ...). We had our moments, but things didn't work out between us. I define it as my greatest love. The problem is that it's constantly in my head - I can't stop thinking about it. It's just that everything around me reminds me of her, literally everything ... Things on TV, on the Internet, store names and such nonsense - just literally everything. I don't know - is fate fucking something with me, am I going crazy ... It's as if something tells me to fight for it, although I know that the chance is almost zero that there is something between us again. Just as much as I want to forget her, I can't ... We study at a university, in a group, which puts me in an even worse situation. Give advice on what to do. I want to forget her, I want to have her ...
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I'm sorry, but once it gets here - there's no going back ... I've been in a situation similar to yours and I'm telling you from experience: And going to "fight" will only be more repulsive and annoying in her eyes. "Your great love"? Nonsense! Just maybe the strongest falling in love ... You don't say anything about your relationship - has there ever been one? Have you been intimate, have you lived together? If not - you just flew (and continue to fly) through the clouds ... If yes - then it's over ...
Ah, if you know how much I've got into your head. Author, why don't you write on behalf of your gender, but present yourself as a man. Do you think you can fool me? How many times do I have to tell you to stop your fabrications. Don't you feel ashamed
Try to win her over as a friend without being intrusive. If he gives in, be patient. You have to gain her trust and then she is yours. Take an interest in her, help her. Well, if she pushes you away, just move on.
Everything reminds you of her, because she is in your thoughts and for this reason YOU connect everything with her and notice the things they have in common. You! Not fate. But my advice is still to try to get together. If you fail, you lose nothing - and now you are not together. But if you succeed? Happy Holidays! :) Ж31
A wedge is killed with a wedge. find another one and you will forget this one immediately. It seems to you that it is something special but it is not.;)
You can never forget her. You will always remember her. I had similar feelings and emotions. After years of fighting them, I set a goal to hate her. Personally, I feel better now.
The same thing happens to the strongest. Remember, but over time it stops being so important and you learn to live again. Don't fight, let the feeling pass. Hit pillows, shout with your whole throat, cry, write, but pour it out of yourself. It passes. You will wake up one morning, suddenly think of it, and realize that it is happening for the first time in a long time.
How do you know there's no chance without trying at all? Why are you so pessimistic in advance? Hey, this fear is a terrible thing! Give it a try! Show that you still care about her, no matter what. Do not give in to fear and inaction. If you don't take risks, you will never win, whether in love or not. I'm going through something similar right now. At first I tried to put things right, but the other side was pretty cool. I decided not to press things and stopped trying. After a while he called me, but nothing special, we didn't even see each other, just phone calls. I often think of him, and I wonder if he thinks of me or wants to be together again. I know it won't be easy if it happens. But at least I'll know I've tried, even if nothing happens again. I will not bother with what could happen if I look for him. Fear, not fear, I tried. Even if nothing comes out, I will know that I have taken a step. So my advice is just to try! You lose nothing, but nothing.
Number 6, a big mistake, and he obviously thought of it in a topic about, "great love" ... With hatred nothing has been decided, it is not decided and will never begin to be decided. Hate is poison, man does not you have to behave so stupidly that you poison yourself, it attracts a person, it's just too easy and with this temporary impact, then it's worse.
And at the same moment, she bursts like a rifle with someone else ...