Hello! I am a boy 8th grade this year I will be 9th grade. I want to write my problem and give me advice! Boy, I'm calm, quiet, I'm not like the other boys who fight and what not .. so at school some boys from our class and from other classes make fun of me and harass me sometimes .. because I'm quiet, calm I don't fight , I don't deal with other people, I have few friends, etc. What can I do to support these people (even people I don't want to call them) just behave like animals some call gay, pedal, fool and (such kind of words). He's very tired, I'm calm, I'm quiet, closed and I don't pay attention to them, and they are even more mocking, teasing, cursing and the children started behaving like that with me ... I'm very tired, I want to move, but I can't don't let me think that when I go there it will ruin my success and the school is in another city .. the teachers are great here, but because of some drummers I shouldn't ruin my education I think .. just another 4 years or 3 years to say how I will I deal with these people here, I want to finish school already. I can no longer hear what they say because of me, how they make fun of me, I don't pay attention to them, but ... Please give me advice! :)
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I think you're great. They are gay, they make fun of you because they are freaks and nobody likes them and you are great, all the girls dream of someone like you :)
Hello, I will recommend you to do something about it, because the more peaceful you are in this country, the more you will be crushed. That is why I suggest you to,, return fire with fire,,. If they tell you that you are gay, plug them with something worn out, but a classic (I will not give examples). In our teacher everyone is aggressive and in order to survive you must be aggressive. There are a lot of open,, beaters, that are clean compressed air. Be bolder! The weak ones crush them. I have friends who are weak-willed and are constantly crushed precisely because they do not take any action from what is happening. If they hit them, tell them that they just don't know you and that if they continue, tell them that sometimes you will find them alone and then they will see them. You don't have to really do it, in this country all things are only said, but not done. From the drunkard, he says,,
Hello, this must be stopped! Education (secondary) is not so important! and to finish with 6 .. it will be difficult to find a job again - because if you know how many graduates there are unemployed .. you won't believe me if I tell you. So don't leave it there because of this education which is not important! to put it mildly, it is mandatory to study afterwards (at university). how to deal with the problem: you certainly can't solve it in a day or two. You're graduating now, aren't you? you have 3 months to do something about it and what do I mean - sign up for some martial arts or fitness. Karate or something like that, maybe boxing! as you go in September you will see how different it will be! no, no - you won't fight you won't fight because you won't have to - no one will jump you in a fight and you won't jump the sport is very good for your health - now you are at the right age to start something! as they have already said - the strong crush the weak ones because there is simply no one else ...? !? right? they must stop crushing you because this will remain a mental problem for the rest of your life! I guarantee it to you - remember this in a few years and if you have not solved the problem - you will see that I am right! if you leave things like that, they will continue (and I guarantee you that) - at the university (if you study), at work (you can't not work), in your personal life (do you have a girlfriend? no - but it's devastating because the girls looking for guys to feel safe with ... do not blame them - they are the fairer sex and it is normal to look for stronger mentally than them) come on! enroll in a sport and in three months you will see that you will go to school willingly (I guarantee it to you - because I have experienced it). If the teachers are good too (you can't change them) - all you have to do is gain a little more self-confidence, I wish you success!
Wherever you move, seeing that you are cowardly, you will always be crushed. Just because you're quiet, good, don't tease, insult or argue doesn't mean anything. My advice may sound a little unacceptable, but if you want to be accepted normally, hurry to join them. If they hit you, hit you too, if they swear at you, you curse them, but by no means let yourself be crushed, because things can get worse.
At this age, people are unfortunately like that, then everything passes, but adolescence is difficult. My advice is to first make a small group of friends and strive to be together, so you will survive more easily. Second, watch them and get rid of the weaknesses of each of the bastards, there is no one without weaknesses, if you decide to respond to them be short but precise where it will hurt them, without arguing with them say things quietly, calmly and calmly, maybe in the form of gossip, this can create respect in them. The third option is to do everything possible to convince yours to move to another school, explain to them what is happening and how you feel, tell them that it also affects your grades, because you feel depressed, if necessary dramatize a little to achieve your goal! I wish you success! I know how bad the behavior of some people during adolescence is. B. 22g.