Hi, I'm 15 and I've been dating a little boy for about 5 months and he's 20. I'm still young for sex, at least I think so, but he's wanted it for a long time. He does everything to excite me to do. I'm afraid that if we do I can get pregnant and I'm very afraid of that I don't want to and I told him the same thing, but he shouts that if he doesn't allow it won't happen, but I'm still too young for sex. What to do to refuse already. I apologize for the spelling mistakes. I am waiting for comments. THANKS!!!
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5 months is not a short time, let him be sure that you want it too and that it will be great.
I don't know if you're small, but I see that you're smart enough when you ask yourself, "Is it right or not?" If you want to have sex and you feel prepared, do it, and if you get along well with your parents, you can tell them first so that you don't get in trouble, because you are still a minor. And if you feel unprepared, just tell him "I'm not ready to take such responsibility" and if he holds on to you and loves you, he will understand you and wait for you to grow up !!! Come on success ...!
Use a condom!
Yes, I said correctly: 3, but condoms also have 3% that you can get pregnant.
From number 2: To the author! Use a condom and take an "anti-baby" pill just in case. And if something goes wrong you can take an escapella ... 3 days after intercourse!
If you don't feel safe, don't do anything and explain it to him. Share with him how you feel and if he loves you and cares for you, he will understand you. Good luck.
Ave, I think you're still young and don't leave it to boys older than you.
In my opinion, you are not small for sex at all. Try! It will happen someday anyway.
Until № 8. Sorry but she is now 15. When she turns 20 and then she is ready for sex she will be a blood prostitute (maybe). Is this what you will teach your children ??? One day they will come and tell you: -Mom I am pregnant, and you will answer them -How can yesterday's paw at the age of 15 make me have sex tomorrow you go to the doctor and have an abortion. This is the truth, but no one accepts it ....
You better break up with him.
Nobody obliges you to do it! If you don't want it - don't, but if you think you're ready - there's nothing wrong with that! Don't despair if you don't like the first time - every next one is better;)
They want me too, but I think I'm small and I'm afraid of the pain ... I'm 14
Author, don't attach yourself to his mind at all! Not only are you small for sex, but he's big for you too! Live your years and his time will come .. I don't blame you, but if you don't let him go, he may rape you, I just guess where you know him best.
Break up with him, that's awful. If he really loves you, he will stop wanting it.
... what are these tips break with him. Just understand man 5 months is not a small amount. I'll tell you one thing, you decide. You only live once. I will try to try everything, of course without drugs ... and I think that the sooner you start the better and I'm sure you will like it :)