Gothic Style

   And I like the gothic style, I listen to that kind of music and I wear that kind of clothes (outside of school when I get together with friends who also like gothic). No one can stop me from being who I am. There is something mysterious, mystical beauty in Gothic. And I like that, that's what draws me. I wear black clothes and black nail polish - some classmates find it strange, but that's me. I don't go to school provocatively, so I don't see anything wrong with my clothes. This is me, my way of expressing myself. I'm happy, smiling, listening to heavy music and wearing black clothes - and I like that! So be yourself without worrying about what others think! "How can you wear such clothes ?! All in black ?! And you're cheerful. It's ugly." - This was told to me by a girl who I did not know whether she was wearing a dress or a tank top. Everyone has their own style. F 14

   It's nice to be yourself, not like everyone else, but first learn how to write, there were more spelling mistakes than a child in third grade. For example, that there is no word "nashte", but it is written "nashte". The letter Sh is a sum of W and T, so it was created, not to write them both together, but that's the least. Pay attention, because at one prom you will be cut for 5 mistakes. So leave that, now for the style. There are a lot of cool gothic girls, but few boys like them. When I was between 12 and 15 years old I was emo, I had such a hairstyle and my clothes were in this style, I liked Cubans, T-shirts with groups, various dresses with hair. Yes, but when I turned 16 I realized that being yourself was not always profitable and you will understand it very soon. When I was 14, I said to myself that I would never change, I told everyone that it was me, the class insulted and hated me, but I liked myself and walked like that. However, now I'm 17 and I feel bad that the guys look at me like I'm a freak and I decided and changed, I have these clothes, but I changed my hairstyle, I wear leggings, platforms, normal blouses and now those who hated me they call me .. oh cute, oh chick ... and I remember how they behaved and I don't pay attention to them, but I see how people look at me and respect me, and before in public transport they pushed me and shouted .. eeeeey freak cut my veins. and I roared in the streets, and now they are looking at me. Unfortunately, people accept your appearance, I'm sorry you were born in this country, they would accept you abroad, I think you should scare them. There's a girl which is very rich and studies in private and theirs are photographers and constantly and do gothic photo shoots and there are Cubans like the group "KISS", they have spikes and a huge platform, she wears black long braids, dresses with an inverted cross, black makeup and white lenses and as if she has no eyes, sometimes she wears very light blue lenses almost white and walks and talks about Satan and she is scary, she has many friends because she is rich, but no one teases her because they are afraid that they will curse or curse. The way is to make them afraid so that they do not dare to make fun of you. but no one teases her because they are afraid that she will curse them or curse them. The way is to make them afraid so that they do not dare to make fun of you. but no one teases her because they are afraid that she will curse them or curse them. The way is to make them afraid so that they do not dare to make fun of you.

   Honey, at your age I listened to pretty hard music and I started dressing like that, but I don't recommend you do that either. Now, a few years later, I ask myself - where was my mind? Gothic clothing is repulsive, so listen to what you want, but dress normally. Do not imitate anyone, be yourself.

   Well done for not being influenced by others. There may be comments from people who tell you that you are crazy, that they are nonsense, but don't listen to them. Be what you want to be. Don't listen to outsiders. People need to realize that everyone has the right to choose - to have the choice they want. Know that it is not possible for everyone to like you. Whatever you are, there will always be people who do not approve of what you do, what you like, how you dress ... BUT you will also find people to fit in with. Be yourself.

   You are not a truly free person if you are constantly influenced by people's opinions. Be what you want to be! At your age, some get drunk like pigs and pretend to be important, but you have to feel bad for being different, right? And your friends are one and a half friends! Follow your heart and drop your prejudices, girl!

   In 2-3 years you will pass and you will be in the chalga restaurants. I know such pieces, where they went with make-up, fishing nets, Cubans, corsets ... and there is a mine quite quickly, they became like the ones with whom they allegedly rebelled. You are 14 and you are just looking for attention - you will get it in this subculture and then you will start looking for it elsewhere. In general, "I want to be myself" and "I want to imitate them" are opposite things. And speaking of gothic - Fields of the Nephilim, Bauhaus, Sisters of Mercy ... something? Hardly, you just want to parade :)

   Hi, I'm a boy, I'm much older than you and I generally enjoy (some) gothic girls. So, if you want, I can give you some other advice. First, think carefully about what you want. You are at an age where interests and tastes change quickly. Now you think in one way, at 18 you will think in another, and at 22 - in a radically different way. I know it from my own experience. Your father told you very well, so listen to his advice. Don't do something you may regret over time. Second, there is a big difference from gothic to gothic. And I don't think the comparison with emo is appropriate. It is very easy to cross the border from the beautiful to the grotesque. In my opinion, in Bulgaria (and elsewhere) very few gothic girls manage to look good. In an effort to emphasize the gothic look, they go to extremes. You get something like chalga style, but in the gothic version. Personally, I like the more moderate and classic elements, so if one does not know what gothic is, not to notice anything extravagant in the girl. I definitely don't like things like: unusual hair color, extravagant hairstyle, a lot of makeup, piercings, tattoos, etc. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be different from others. But don't overdo it. If you like this style - fine. If you ask me, bet on the way you dress (but in moderation) - the characteristic colors: mainly black, to a lesser extent purple, blue. And some other accessory (for example: ring, locket). Judge for yourself, but be careful. Under no circumstances ruin your hair and face. Good luck and smart! I definitely don't like things like: unusual hair color, extravagant hairstyle, a lot of makeup, piercings, tattoos, etc. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be different from others. But don't overdo it. If you like this style - fine. If you ask me, bet on the way you dress (but in moderation) - the characteristic colors: mainly black, to a lesser extent purple, blue. And some other accessory (for example: ring, locket). Judge for yourself, but be careful. Under no circumstances ruin your hair and face. Good luck and smart! I definitely don't like things like: unusual hair color, extravagant hairstyle, a lot of makeup, piercings, tattoos, etc. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be different from others. But don't overdo it. If you like this style - fine. If you ask me, bet on the way you dress (but in moderation) - the characteristic colors: mainly black, to a lesser extent purple, blue. And some other accessory (for example: ring, locket). Judge for yourself, but be careful. Under no circumstances ruin your hair and face. Good luck and smart! to a lesser extent purple, blue. And some other accessory (for example: ring, locket). Judge for yourself, but be careful. Under no circumstances ruin your hair and face. Good luck and smart! to a lesser extent purple, blue. And some other accessory (for example: ring, locket). Judge for yourself, but be careful. Under no circumstances ruin your hair and face. Good luck and smart!

   Well ... you're more or less close to the truth. Do what you like and the right people will come to you! ;] Otherwise there is a small danger. If you decide not to be the same, or find a friend who is not okay with that. Or you find a friend like you, but after a while you decide you're not okay with it. But it does not matter. Learn from your mistakes.

   I think you're another girl of the "I'm different from everyone else" trend. Well, I'm a 16-year-old girl - I listen to rock and mostly grunge and I dress the way I want to. Personally, I am "FOR" people's free expression, but I think you are too silent to look so striking - wait another two or three years, because then you may not want to look like that and the only thing you will be people remember about you will be "terrible with leather clothes and spikes." At least that party girl your age will sit funny. Believe me, no one considers themselves cool when they see a picture of themselves at 13-14, even though they liked it then. I hold on to my head when I see myself farting for two or three years and I wonder "What the hell was I thinking". It's the same with everyone. Wait a little longer and listen to my advice. And it's really naughty for your friends - if they don't perceive you as their mother. Bye!

   There is nothing wrong or abnormal about trying different styles and looking for understanding in a subculture while you are a teenager! I have been through this and many of my friends. We changed our style according to how we felt, we tried many things - that's how you find yourself. And you are exactly in those years now. Most likely two years later you will sing another song, then something else will come to mind. It's normal for your mother to get used to it. It may be a shock to her, but it is to be a teenager, if she restricts you too much, then it will come out through her nose, because once you have more freedom, these desires will kill you in full force. And it is much better to discover yourself when you are young, than to be disoriented and not profitable in old age. With such repressive parents the biggest problems become, I say it from personal observations.

   Is it? Tell me, what will make your life better if you start dressing like a witch in a nervous breakdown? Will anything change? At most, you really lose your friends, because most people will seriously decide that you have moved. And why do you think there are only two styles, of fans of pink dresses and gothic? You can be cool without pretending to be such a miracle. Nobody told you to wear pink and act like a little girl. If you don't like this style, don't follow it. Find your own, but without pretending to have escaped from psychiatry, because with this kind of people will really think of you as a ku-ku and will rightly stay away from you. When I see a man dressed like that, I feel sorry for him. I think something in his life is irreparably lame and he is desperately trying to attract attention to himself through such clothes. Sad!

   Darling, I was like that when I was 12 and I decided I wanted something like that. Well, I did, but everyone stopped talking to me, thought I was crazy, and realized I didn't like it, but I wanted to be different. Everyone wants to be different, it's normal ... I didn't really want it, but if you want you can start slowly, for example darker clothes and patterns, darker make-up. Believe me, if you start painting loudly, getting piercings and behaving inappropriately, you will get into trouble. Anything that is too flashy is not beautiful! Good luck and go ahead!

   My opinion is to listen to your parents and friends. I know you want yours, but in time you will understand why they told you :)

   It's not bad to be who you are ... But what happens to me ... I used to listen to the Beatles, Queen, then ice zeppelin ... But in high school (now I'm 32) the people I met listened to metal .. I don't, but they ... and my brother used to listen to metal ... That is, it influences a person a lot, ie what others listen to me, therefore it is not "what I am". Then I came under other influences ... Unfortunately in the end .. ie now I don't even have close people to influence ... This is actually not the best option at all. And one of the most sensitive people became a skinner then - and I think it happened because he was not accepted by the more "normal" and his sensitivity became a rudeness. I don't know where he is now. And what have I become, another such strange mixture ... However, there is something that I am actually, perhaps, worried about people ... for example, I don't know if I would follow any impulse to go out naked ... Does that mean that I am not myself? I do not know. And why should it be related to what you show to everyone - can't it be secret - only to one person, is it possible to meet someone who, after you reveal yourself and gets to know you, understands ... :) here you can see how insincere my writing really is here ... In fact, to whom am I writing? In front of me? In front of a little girl? strange work is the modern reality together with "communications" Or I write "in front of everyone" -I secretly hope that this is something great :) It's interesting when all these styles - skaters, yothers, gangsters, metals, as well as later in life,

   Why do you listen to others? To top it all off, I will say that you have to be who you want to be, not what others want! But do it only if you really like the style, not just because you want to be different and become part of the "gothic society". I am unpleasantly surprised how much other people's opinion means to people!

   Honey, it took me back to my teenage years. When I was your age, there were many subcultures and all sorts of strangely dressed people (I was a Gothic myself). Not bad, just at your age you do not understand the limits of dress and very often instead of being avant-garde, it comes to kitsch, in search of some individuality. This will be cleared up, the important thing is not to overdo it, as he very accurately described №7. Now that Gothic is associated with the darker colors of life, and is born of 19th-century Romanticism, it is natural to arouse suspicion in others. This is generally the case with the so-called Underground. I can only advise you not to live too much. After all, it is a way for a young person to go through a period of melancholy, the search for individuality, a place in the world, but the most important thing is not to get too caught up in it. Wear your clothes, listen to your music, but communicate with people, do not part with them as different, misunderstood. This is repulsive. Another extreme is also girls dressed as chalga singers - transparent leggings, platforms and evening makeup for school :))) In any case, the appearance sends a message that carries its positives and negatives. At a gothic fest one will dress in one way, but in everyday life one must follow some general rules that apply to everyone - metals, goths, chalgars. You can't go to school with a corset, for example, anything that goes for gothic clothing, and with leopard clothes, like your favorite pop-folk singer. №2, don't speak unprepared because you expose yourself. There is no "our", there is "our" or "our". listen to your music, but communicate with people, do not part with them as different, misunderstood. This is repulsive. Another extreme is also girls dressed as chalga singers - transparent leggings, platforms and evening makeup for school :))) In any case, the appearance sends a message that carries its positives and negatives. At a gothic fest one will dress in one way, but in everyday life one must follow some general rules that apply to everyone - metal, goth, chalgar. You can't go to school with a corset, for example, anything that goes for gothic clothing, and with leopard clothes, like your favorite pop-folk singer. №2, don't speak unprepared because you expose yourself. There is no "our", there is "our" or "our". listen to your music, but communicate with people, do not part with them as different, misunderstood. This is repulsive. Another extreme is also girls dressed as chalga singers - transparent leggings, platforms and evening makeup for school :))) In any case, the appearance sends a message that carries its positives and negatives. At a gothic fest one will dress in one way, but in everyday life one must follow some general rules that apply to everyone - metal, goth, chalgar. You can't go to school with a corset, for example, anything that goes for gothic clothing, and with leopard clothes, like your favorite pop-folk singer. №2, don't speak unprepared because you expose yourself. There is no "our", there is "our" or "our". Another extreme is also girls dressed as chalga singers - transparent leggings, platforms and evening makeup for school :))) In any case, the appearance sends a message that carries its positives and negatives. At a gothic fest one will dress in one way, but in everyday life one must follow some general rules that apply to everyone - metal, goth, chalgar. You can't go to school with a corset, for example, anything that goes for gothic clothing, and with leopard clothes, like your favorite pop-folk singer. №2, don't speak unprepared because you expose yourself. There is no "our", there is "our" or "our". Another extreme is also girls dressed as chalga singers - transparent leggings, platforms and evening makeup for school :))) In any case, the appearance sends a message that carries its positives and negatives. At a gothic fest one will dress in one way, but in everyday life one must follow some general rules that apply to everyone - metal, goth, chalgar. You can't go to school with a corset, for example, anything that goes for gothic clothing, as well as with leopard clothes, like your favorite pop-folk singer. №2, don't speak unprepared because you expose yourself. There is no "our", there is "our" or "our". At a gothic fest one will dress in one way, but in everyday life one must follow some general rules that apply to everyone - metals, goths, chalgars. You can't go to school with a corset, for example, anything that goes for gothic clothing, and with leopard clothes, like your favorite pop-folk singer. №2, don't speak unprepared because you expose yourself. There is no "our", there is "our" or "our". At a gothic fest one will dress in one way, but in everyday life one must follow some general rules that apply to everyone - metal, goth, chalgar. You can't go to school with a corset, for example, anything that goes for gothic clothing, and with leopard clothes, like your favorite pop-folk singer. №2, don't speak unprepared because you expose yourself. There is no "our", there is "our" or "our".

   There is no word "our", and "our" is used in poems, stories, etc. It is customary to write "ours". If you like, don't correct the author wrong.

   Gothic style repulsive? We don't. There are passengers for each train, I'm a boy of 21, I dress completely normally, even sporty, but I have a lot of fun with girls with such a style and generally alternative. Dress as you like, author, so that you don't sleep.

   It took me back a bit :) When I was 15 and I decided that I would be enslaved to the style of music I listened to / black, dark, gothic, depressed ... metal /, I generally fell in love with super perverted bands, so anyway I bought absolutely everything - every T-shirt, sweatshirts, bags ... and of course, bracelets, collars, etc., I made up quite strangely, I put a lot of emphasis on black, didn't I, and in the end I looked like some kind of effigy! I recently looked at pictures and laughed out loud, although on the other hand I looked scary! As if possessed, horror! I would advise you not to do it, not to enslave yourself in this way, but I was also told, but I did not hear ... the choice is yours alone and personally :) Think well, but know that it is really no longer fashionable, especially the emoticon ... And rather carry the music inside you, deeply, feel it, BUT not with your clothes, and with your heart, just keep it there and enjoy. Eunice

   Hello! I'm also 14. I like to listen to grunge and dress black (sometimes) Be yourself! Most people can't perceive you because they don't know what it's like to be yourself. They are always someone else, and they don't realize that being yourself makes you perfect because they can't be like you! I don't know if I will change my mind, but I want to try new things, and I don't care that others don't accept me. And so is my father. He supports me, and my mother ... she just lets me do it. I am grateful! I want to tell you that you know yourself. This is your moment to be whatever you want to be! I support you !!! Even if I don't know you, I believe in your abilities! I SUPPORT YOU! ?? Believe in what you want to be! - Teddy

   I can clearly see that there are a lot of goths here, which is great. Since I love this way of dressing, I want to ask about stores where to buy black clothes at possibly normal prices. And since I'm considering taking New Rock, if anyone from here has worn it, let them share their opinion (are they comfortable, are they worth the money, etc.) Otherwise, author, dress as you like, listen to whatever music you enjoy and in general don't take into account any complex and already conservative people. Be yourself and live as you see fit. M14 :))

   Number 23, the internet is your best friend when it comes to clothes: e OLX has wonderful things, and it can in your city. There are also many models New rock and Demonia, otherwise they sell in "Metal heaven" cool and cheap, relatively, things. And just to mention that gothic music is not metal, I don't know why you decided that. Listen to what you want, but the Goths originally listen to The cure, Joy division, Souxie and the Banshees, Sisters of mercy ... New Wave, in general. In the 80-90s of the XX century the Bulgarian Goths listened to New Generation, Class, Dead Poets - look for them. You don't have to listen to them, but educate yourself, there is a difference between metal and goth. And to the author, and to everyone else - "alternative"? Black. There is a Swede, Mixi Pix, google it - the girl is quite gothic, she only wears the colors of the rainbow. If you have a sense, each color is gothic. And, author, emo and goth have nothing in common. Search tumblr for "trad goth" to see what classic gothic is. Emo is a very, very different subculture. I keep my hair short and topped, like Robert Smith from The Cure, I have about 7 pairs of Cubans and I mainly wear tights and shorts with wide vintage shirts, I have a favorite collar with spikes. As a make-up, you can also include other than black, a little gold or red does not interfere: 33 And do not care about others! Just don't get tattooed so small. And, by the way, I'm your age: I've been dressing like this since I was 10. So, good luck! like Robert Smith from The Cure, I have about 7 pairs of Cubans and I mainly wear tights and shorts with wide vintage shirts, I have a favorite collar with spikes. As a make-up, you can also include other than black, a little gold or red does not interfere: 33 And do not care about others! Just don't get tattooed so small. And, by the way, I'm your age: I've been dressing like this since I was 10. So, good luck! like Robert Smith from The Cure, I have about 7 pairs of Cubans and I mainly wear tights and shorts with wide vintage shirts, I have a favorite collar with spikes. As a make-up, you can also include other than black, a little gold or red does not interfere: 33 And do not care about others! Just don't get tattooed so small. And, by the way, I'm your age: I've been dressing like this since I was 10. So, good luck!

   Number 13 Just because you're in black with Cubans, let's say, doesn't mean you look sad, it's a matter of opinion and style :) that's right, the Goths have something to be like. to be different is a talent :)).