Friends with privileges who have known each other for 4 years, gone through everything, from friendship and sharing to just sex ... but during all these years they manage to keep the passion and attraction to each other. Is it possible after all this for the boy to continue to just want sex and play with the girl's feelings as at one moment he is shiny and kind, and at another moment completely uninterested? How do men manage to just have sex with a woman for so long and feel nothing else about her and why? F (21)
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This is the problem of Bulgarian women - you can easily take a man off and sleep with him, but it is very difficult to keep him and be interested!
To 1 - The same goes for the majority of Bulgarian men - boring, dumb, insanely simple and congested. It's hard to find someone other than what's worth it and want to keep it, but they are there.
It's all about natural selection and the evolution of man and woman. A gene that encourages a man who owns it to have sex with many women quickly spreads in the gene pool of the population because such a man would conceive many women and have many children. So all these male children of his would have the same gene and the same desire for sex with many women. On the other hand, women have a limited number of eggs, they can give birth to one child every 9 months, after which they have to waste time and resources in raising it. And when a single parent raises a child, it is likely that he will remain malnourished and will not live to puberty and thus will not be able to pass on the genes to the mother. While during this time the man may have fertilized 20 more women and the chance of his genes continuing to live is much higher, because one of them can still cope with the task of raising the child alone. Therefore, successful are those women who carefully choose a man to stay with them and help them raise offspring. This is the fundamental difference between men and women. Having clarified this, it is easy to understand why men can have sex with women without feeling for them. Men are created to spread their genes in the most effective way, and this is done through a lot of sex, and sex with many partners. Similarly, if your husband cheats on you, it doesn't always mean he doesn't love you. A man can have sex with other women without loving them. A man can have sex with many women while he loves another. In women, sex is associated with love and commitment, because before the advent of contraceptives, every sex is likely for a woman to become pregnant, and she does not want to raise her child alone. Not so with men. For them, sex is just sex in their thinking. In them, a possible pregnancy of a mistress is not associated with a loss of resources. They can simply run away and leave their pregnant mistress to fend for herself.
The question is why do you sleep with a man who really doesn't want to have a relationship with you? !! Why do you underestimate yourself so much? Let him be just your friend, why are you undressing for him? !! Men can have sex with anyone, without feelings, because they know what your relationship is, he does not have illusions about love. For him, you are the one who always lets go and doesn't have to look. Women confuse sex with love, and for men it is just sex, satisfying the urge. Men will just want sex because they can and because they have decided that they do not want anything else from a woman. Causes of pain. I have never understood this friends with privileges, whether you are in a relationship or not, there is no middle ground for me.
Men are different from women. They can have sex with a woman without investing anything for years. They are not as emotional as women. They do it for sports, for tone, to tickle their ego. The woman is something else. He wants security, passion, devotion, attention, care, etc. I hope it doesn't happen to a player that then he has to play her and ruin her life without caring about her at all. Be careful, girl!
Unfortunately, most men are insensitive, perverted, sick creatures who look only to their own interests. For this reason, the number of male haters is growing exponentially. Men, you do it yourself.
From the author - I have sex with him because I am very attracted to him, I know that he is hellishly stupid and that it makes no sense, I'm just tormented, but I can't stop thinking about him and unbuttoning ... I don't know how to explain the facts to my brain ... What should I do? !!
Up to 8 See, if the majority is "such", then this is its normal state, hence the definitions "perverted" and "sick"; they are simply out of place. Maybe you are in a lot of emotions? Aren't you in a cycle?
To № 2; Looking at the number of women with the behavior of muffins, folk throats and ordinary sluts, I keep wondering why men buy rubber dolls from sex shops, but it seems to me that it is because the dolls DO NOT SPEAK, t f. men are fed up with women talking!
to 8: Unfortunately, the number of misogynists is growing. Women like only tall, handsome and charming men, and we more ordinary men are somehow in the background. Tall and handsome men know that women like them and fuck them at will, but women cannot keep them (because there are a limited number of such men) and they hate all men. Ordinary men, on the other hand, feel rejected and hate women. Women only look at their interests, but it's more unfortunate that you can't realize it. There were even statistics in OKCupid that women rated 80% of men as uglier than average, which is statistically impossible (google "80% of men are below average in looks according to women"). you do.
Off, starting with this spitting on the Bulgarian women. Isn't it clear to you that it's clear to us that this comes from complex men who don't want them for sex, let alone a relationship? Clearly, when you are unwanted, you become angry and women begin to appear to you as some kind of degenerate creatures. But you won't change anything by trying to crush them. And I doubt you'll enjoy meeting someone you've managed to bring down to your level of complexity and crush. It is no coincidence that such people are undesirable.
To the author of 4 Do not confuse physical attraction and excitement with whether he likes you as a person. He may be fine with you, but he doesn't want you for a boyfriend. I may have outdated understandings, but I do not approve of such friends with privileges. The man receives the physical benefits from a woman without actually committing to her and telling everyone that this is his girlfriend. He can sleep like that with many others besides you and shout at you, '' But we're just friends, not boyfriends, why are you jealous? ''. I guarantee you will say that. The next time he tells you he wants sex or touches you, step back and ask him directly what he wants from you. Surely you have no idea that you have feelings for him. For men, sex is sex. It is women who bond and develop illusions of love. Women think, '' Here, sleep with me, want me, so he loves me. '' Nothing of the kind. Tell him everything boldly, don't hold anything back. Find out what he expects from you and whether he expects anything at all. Learn to defend your positions, otherwise not only this one, but others will use you. If he cares about you, even a little, he will back off if he can't give you what you want. Otherwise it will parasitize and use you.
The number of Bulgarian women married to foreigners is many times higher than the number of Bulgarians married to foreigners. The task in the task is who is wanted? !!
16, from absolutely every nation, women are more exogamous (prone to relationships outside the ethnic group). And in every ethnic group, lone men are more than lonely women, childless men are more than childless women, and suicides are more common among men than women. Nature, what to do. However, it has nothing to do with the "qualities of the Bulgarian woman".
Foreigners themselves claim that Bulgarian women are definitely easy, cheap and unpretentious, good maids and even better fitters, so even compared to Filipinos they are preferred, but for sex foreigners prefer not them, but completely different women! As a person who has traveled half the world, these are my impressions from the long conversations with them, as I speak 5 languages and I have not studied in the USSR !!!
18, you make up a lot, which is obviously caused by malice. There was no one to love you, and that's why you have such dirty feelings. The same goes for numbers 10 and 12. But it's not too late, maybe ... The first step is to shake off the hatred and look at things soberly. A large percentage of women are bad and do not get up. Ok. But admit it, we all know that men are just as bad. Even in some respects much more. Change is only possible with joint efforts, but we must start with ourselves. Spitting on others has not made anyone better. The energy and time you waste in vomiting slop will be much better for you to "waste" in cultivation. Try it. Success!
Bulgarian women do not want to hear about our people simply because they DO NOT GET UP from wherever you look. 1. They are ugly and unattractive. Probably out of 1000, at most 20 to catch the eye. The rest are complete grief from head to toe. 2. They are stupid. Nor can a normal conversation take place. When dating, they start with banalities. 3. They are hellishly perverted, mentally ill and selfish beings. They are too lazy to fuck or have complexes about the size of their penis, so this is a tension for blowjobs and anal crap. The purpose of women's mouths and anuses is not sex. Of all living things on Earth, only man practices perversions, and as I look, he has blossomed and bound everywhere. Especially in Bulgaria. The women you make in rags look like nothing. And they, like those who brought them to such a situation. Interestingly, as you are not attracted to the female genitals, why don't you find men ??? They also have anuses and mouths. Gay and bisexual - as much as you want. The other naughty thing that spoils men is porn. When you start with him from a young age and regularly watch the perversions there, your idea of normal and proper sex goes to hell. You become even more repulsive when you deny it. Porn mania is also a DISEASE that requires TREATMENT. Your penises are not the center of the universe and no normal woman will serve them. 4. They are deceived that women should agree with them about everything, that we should not have our own opinion, that they should limit us as they wish. Yes, but it will not happen. Women, as for your oriental mentality, exist in the Arab world. They agree on absolutely everything. Try it there. 5. They are full of mental disorders (manifested mostly in sexuality) and complexes. Last year 12 Bulgarian women were killed by their husbands (I'm not sure if exactly 12, but they were not few) 6. They are drones. They expect everything ready from women - housework, child care, and from women who work. That is, the woman is first enslaved to work, then to home, then to man. And, meanwhile, she must always find time for sports, a hairdresser, a manicure, a haircut, so that her "handsome man" can brag left and right about how beautiful a slave she is. Well, they didn't recognize me here again. There are no freaks who can tolerate such an attitude. 7. They are whores. In every sense of the word. They try to lie (but it doesn't work), cheat (but it doesn't work) and then justify that this is male nature, haha. The nature of the Bulgarian is like that, not the male one. 8. Do not bring criticism. When someone tells them their mistakes, they go crazy with malice. They start with ridiculous, ridiculous and mostly banal excuses and even try to convince others that they are wrong, when in fact they are not. That's why we go with foreigners. They are better at everything and most importantly - they behave like people, not stray dogs. I do not want to offend anyone, there are exceptions among ours, but super rare and not enough for everyone. We women just want a mentally healthy man (or at least willing to get better), decent, understanding, faithful, honest, to pay attention to us and take care of his appearance. That's all we need. :) We women just want a mentally healthy man (or at least willing to get better), decent, understanding, faithful, honest, to pay attention to us and take care of his appearance. That's all we need. :) We women just want a mentally healthy man (or at least willing to get better), decent, understanding, faithful, honest, to pay attention to us and take care of his appearance. That's all we need. :)
From the author: and yet I sought advice from you ... How to deal with the problem?
№19 = very hasty assessments by the Chairman of the OF-organization - stupid, hollow and unfounded, disregarding the facts and from the position of a naked feminist at a party meeting, without a Komsomol order! Tired of morals, yet we are not in constructive socialism? The education studied at AONSU is simply not on the agenda, but obsolete !!!
To the author: There are two options. Either he is emotionally impotent, that is, he cannot love, or he is afraid to admit his feelings. He may have been injured before, or he may have had some childhood injuries (they are not treatable). Or that his parents raised him wrong and, accordingly, that he has a wrong idea about the relations between the sexes ... There are countless options. Try to talk to him and clarify. Many people make the mistake of not talking to each other and taking advice from outsiders who often turn out to be wrong.
20, your whole speech is based on hatred, prejudice, racism, superficial views on things. I don't know what Bulgarian men you interacted with, but obviously due to your personal feminist complexes and shortcomings you failed to communicate with these nice and quality Bulgarian men you are talking about and that's why you reconciled with a foreigner. I understand you - in the West, women are already extreme feminists and men there do not want them, so many Westerners are looking for women from Eastern Europe. You, despite all your complexes, are still much more feminine than Western women. But wait just one or two more generations and your daughters and granddaughters will be the same extreme feminists who would happily wave their castration complex everywhere. I recommend reading the excerpt "Women-Men" from "Woman and Her Deep Psychology" by Pierre Daco.
Something similar has happened to me, but in half a year. As he explained that he was not looking for a serious relationship, he started living on a family basis with another woman. It's just excuses. You don't like it. But you are in love. Let me tell you the story. After two years of relationship with her, he started looking for me again for sex. He was cheating on her with me. Rarely, because there is no way. They are currently separated. We saw each other again, but this time nothing is the same. Ham is super talented and I've always looked for one. I started to dislike him so much. Before, only I called him. Now only him. We finally got there. That I told him to remove the condom. I thought that was the problem, but no. Do you know where the problem is? I'm in love with someone else. Come on, think again, is this just sex or love for you? Ps I can't recognize myself, I just know that these sex relationships are a complete nightmare ....