Guidelines And Questions During Sex

   And my husband has a habit of counting orgasms. It's very stupid and funny. I have never simulated and will not do it, but I do not understand who he is competing with. I always feel good, sometimes I have ten orgasms, sometimes not enough - for me a lot depends on what period of my cycle I am in. The problem I think is that his previous partners have simulated orgasms and now he has unrealistic expectations - for example to end up with a quickie :) for 2-3 minutes of pure sex. Men! ... and yet I do not give up spontaneity in sex, from frequent sex - I have a desire and I feel satisfied even if I have not had an orgasm, which men seem to have a hard time understanding. So much the worse for them ...

   Men ask this question because when they feel that we are done, they have a lot of fun, thus "caressing" their ego. T. is "I'm very good, she's done how many times." For men it is important to be proud of the fact that they manage to satisfy a woman :) N1, do you seriously reach 10 orgasms at once?

   My husband doesn't ask me if I'm done. He understands for himself when this happens, because the vagina starts to shrink and I get slight contractions, he also knows my body and movements.

   Asking a man if I'm done sounds like asking me how old I am, if you know what a comparison I'm doing. In other words, it is a manifestation of bad taste. Such a question can be asked and such a conversation can be held out of bed when we are resting or walking or when we are having such topics. It happened when it was too nice and "orgasmic" for me :), I brag to myself. I don't like to be asked. If this is constant and irritates me, I tell my partner. This usually happens to me with younger and insecure men, always asking and always when they shouldn't. The more experienced, who have been at least 35 years old, already know how to behave :) For the rest you ask, whether we will change the pace or not, it depends on how close the man is to orgasm, this is not done by asking, but by knowledge, at least for me. If I see that the member is too erect, already quite red on the head and I know my partner well, I know he is close to ejaculation, then I do not speed up the pace because I will cause orgasm and ejaculation. These are quite personal things that are stupid to define with a conversation, but it is permissible, why not, as long as the one next to you is open to something like that. For me as a woman, a man's orgasm is the leading one. If I'm "late" with mine, there are ways to get it, right? But even if I finish before him, it's no problem. Not to end is not a problem either and my partners know it. I let them know that a woman does not always end every time, like men. Anyone who claims otherwise is simply lying. So, a tip for sex - be honest and candid with the partner next to you and you will not go wrong. This way you can achieve really interesting things in sex together!

   Here the answers are related to "my husband", "my husband", the author is a girl, she has no experience and that's where her worries come from. I guess like most very young and green young men in sex, they rather play Uncle Doctor "than to have really sensual sex. That's where I think the whole problem comes from, not just about questioning and orgasm, but in general. Guidelines for sex, so what? The right direction, not direction, I think is to have sex not out of curiosity and boredom, but to be terribly in love, to soften your legs not only from excitement but also from love. You have no idea what is happening, things flow by themselves like a raging river, they just happen, no one makes accounts and "records" where he went and what he did, things just happen. I hope it happens to you too, then you will not think of any technique in sex, of duration, or of anything. My personal opinion is that at 17 you are too, too small and physically underdeveloped, to understand what it is about, you have to experience it, at least at the age of 25-26, and in general only after 30 you will understand what sex is. and what an orgasm!

   My friend also counts them ... men, as someone said above. Last time I "cut" him a little: "Honey, this isn't a championship of some kind." But the dumbest question was, "Am I doing better than the last one?" He stalked the moment I had finished for the third time. How to answer - I feel like melted butter in his hands and respond to such nonsense - I simply do not have the strength. I just kissed him and told him he was the best. Men need encouragement. The previous one kept asking, "Are you okay?" I screamed and winced under him - he said, "Are you okay?" I once said no to him and he fell. Crazy work !!! But these things definitely don't irritate me. on the contrary, men are so sweetly charming that they worry about performing well. And guidelines ... for pace, postures, places, etc. Yes, we give! But not like directing a stranger to the bus station. And with somehow more playful things like: "Right there, I adore him ..." - my line and an example of his: "Give your ass here" "Come, come closer" My friend tells me that I cost millions when I look at him before I swallow him and ask, "Slower or faster" I also direct him to the poses. for example, I want to be in the dog house and I just look at him playfully and tell him something like "Will you go behind me?" Other times, however, we relax, caress and almost do not exchange such instructions - we just make love, roll, we adjust. and so a woman of 26 Give me your ass over here. "" Come on, come closer. "My friend tells me I'm worth millions when I look at him before I swallow him and ask," Slower or faster. "I also direct him to the poses. I wish we were in the dog house and I just look at him playfully and tell him something like "Will you go behind me? "Other times, however, we relax, caress and almost do not exchange such instructions - we just make love, roll, adjust. And so a woman of 26 Give me your ass over here. "" Come on, come closer. "My friend tells me I'm worth millions when I look at him before I swallow him and ask," Slower or faster. "I also direct him to the poses. I wish we were in the dog house and I just look at him playfully and tell him something like "Will you go behind me? "Other times, however, we relax, caress and almost do not exchange such instructions - we just make love, roll, adjust. And so a woman of 26 Other times, however, we relax, caress and hardly exchange such instructions - we just make love, roll, adjust. and so a woman of 26 Other times, however, we relax, caress and hardly exchange such instructions - we just make love, roll, adjust. and so a woman of 26

   I am the author. Number 5, was the comment directed at me? I'm not 17. My boyfriend and I are both great people, but you're still right for my little experience. What you describe happened to us when we haven't seen each other for a while, but sometimes it's just a little more mechanical and a kind of marathon on his part. Anyway, the idea of ​​this topic was not advice to me, but the exchange of other people's experience :)