Hello! I am an 18 year old girl and I need advice. I hope some boy will answer me, because all the advice I get from girls for now does not help. For several months I have been looking at one of the boys in our company with "other" eyes. Until now, we have always been friends, not even very close, but lately we go out more often in a narrower circle. In most cases, it's me, him and a couple (my best friend and his best friend). If they see us from the sides, they will think that we are in a double meeting, but this is not the case at all. He's changed lately, he's not the same guy he was when we met years ago. He has become more mature, moderate, much more fun and, I'm not mistaken, much nicer and more masculine. He is also romantic and has said several times that he wants a relationship in which to make romantic, kind gestures to his girlfriend. The problem is, I don't know if it ever occurs to him to think of me that way. I noticed some changes in his behavior towards me - he laughs at my jokes, compliments me, sometimes defends me in front of a company mansion, recently even hugs me when he talks to me, looks me in the eyes all the time, which sometimes slightly I get nervous because I feel electricity (or imagine). But his mood is very changeable and he can listen to me carefully for one minute and pretend I don't exist the next. Because we are not very close when we are alone, we do not have much to say to each other, but I want to change that. I'm afraid that if I take the first step, he will push me away. And since we are in one company, then it will be awkward for everyone. So my plan is to show him I'm interested, but not to be too intrusive, to present myself in the best light and make him want me. But ... I don't know how this happens, I don't want to be accepted as someone who is too funny or too sensitive, I don't want to pretend to be super smart or heavy, but when I'm around him I can't behave quite naturally. Despite everything, we have a lot in common and we have a very similar view of life, but we also differ in many ways, so that we are interesting together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes? I don't want to be taken for someone who is too funny or too sensitive, I don't want to pretend to be super smart or heavy, but when I'm around him I can't behave quite naturally. Despite everything, we have a lot in common and we have a very similar view of life, but we also differ in many ways, so that we are interesting together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes? I don't want to be taken for someone who is too funny or too sensitive, I don't want to pretend to be super smart or heavy, but when I'm around him I can't behave quite naturally. Despite everything, we have a lot in common and we have a very similar view of life, but we also differ in many ways, so that we are interesting together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes? so that we have fun together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes? so that we have fun together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes?
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Hi :) I'm a boy and I hope to help you as much as I can. However, keep in mind that every boy is different, respectively likes and notices different things in a girl. In general, the most important thing is to maintain balance in your relationship. Don't dig too deep into things, don't think about them, always leave a little intrigue. In no case do not admit to him directly about your feelings, you have to keep him under constant pressure. I say that because at the moment I am in this situation with a girl and I know how my heart beats as I saw: D. It will probably happen to him as well. But the goal is to get his attention first. Smile! But not violently, but sincerely. Don't agree with everything he says, you can sometimes pick on him in a friendly way, joking about something with him. The goal is for him to both like you and know that you will not give in to him easily. Otherwise you will become uninteresting. Find common topics to talk about. Even the biggest stupidity you can think of. The important thing is to always have something to say to yourself. From the small things come the big ones. Everything turns very easily, as long as you hit the topics of conversation. Do not rush anywhere, if there is something between you, sooner or later it will happen, so do not press him boy, it is very annoying and can run away. In general, there are many tricks and tactics to attract someone's attention, yet in love everything is allowed. And most importantly - be yourself! If you like it the way you are, you won't have any problems. If you start playing roles to please him, forget it, there are a lot of licking wounds afterwards. You are a woman and you have to act like one, let him flatter you, you have to pull to take his mind. And one piece of advice about appearance - hair! Take great care of her, this is one of the things we adore the most, except for the so-called heavy artillery: D Good luck !!! :)))
I absolutely agree with number 1. First of all, be natural .. And by the way, what does heavy artillery mean? : Д
And so ... you yourself are Voodoo magic like F-101 !!! Looking at how you describe things, it's nice to tell you my point of view !!! For your hair completely straight - clean beautiful hair, whether you let it go or some nice hairstyle, it will still be good! How will it be ... let it be a surprise! For the "heavy artillery" (you probably don't mean a 105 or 120mm howitzer), but breasts (tits) and hips (ass)! I don't know what size they are, but the best for me is the golden mean! I rather like tall women with nice thighs, they attract more, but I do not refuse to comment on how she looks from a different angle, both in front and behind! I will tell you the following about the clothes! I like all kinds (usually with jeans, jeans or trousers), but if it surprises me with a short skirt, dress or clove to draw the body, I can go crazy! It will be a bonus, if there's pantyhose or something, I'm going to lose my mind! The smile is very important, it will be nice to have a light lipstick to emphasize it, and for a manicure it is already a bonus! Many people say that men take the first step! That's not exactly right!!! Women (girls) with their behavior predispose whether a man will fall for you or not, provocative appearance, smile, look, contact, etc., ie everything comes from you, albeit indirectly, until you provoke the direct approach of men, ie "girls go around, men hunt", but I've seen couples from a woman's collared dump, why not! In order to get it, however, the merit is the same as "the lady provokes and the man analyzes" !!! If you liked it, don't make it wait too long! You have already shown that you are a babe with a position and he just wants you to reveal yourself to him !!! The other thing comes with time! When you get to know each other quite well, then everything will be fine. Only if you know how I want my kiss! I'm out of breath already! ..., but that's why I have time, and I've been waiting for a long time ... at least I'm patient, but until when?
Pretend you don't care about him and he'll pay attention to you. And best read "Men fall for bitches" and you'll understand why I'm telling you this. Success!
People, thank you very much !! I didn't expect anyone to answer me, I even forgot to check! : D Good luck to you and your chick, even though you wrote almost a month ago, things must have happened to you already. I will follow your advice, and if it doesn't work out, it's not a pain to die. :))
Well, he's ready to be taken down. And what are you waiting for ???
You tell him you like him. A boy (decently) will never push you away.1 :)
Hello! I am a 23 year old boy, I advise you to play Black Donka together!
Hi, I'm a girl, not a boy, but my story is similar. I like one boy, but until a long time ago I thought he hated me and loved another. I think she is the coolest, sweetest, most beautiful and everything else on earth. But unfortunately almost all the girls in the class had procreated on him and I thought I had no chance with him, but one day shortly after school I wrote to him on viber. There was a conversation. In the end, I couldn't stand to hide him from him anymore, and I thought he already knew, because his best friend already knew. And if he was the best, he should have told him, but I was obviously wrong. He knew nothing. I wrote him that I liked him. From the beginning, he wrote that he was shocked and that he liked another. The next day at school we didn't talk, we sat at the same desk. it was very awkward. A month later, I dared to ask him if he liked me too, but I never received an answer. Our last class was English. Then he explained to me that he didn't like anyone but me. I was shocked. The next day he offered to become his boyfriend. I was very happy, I would just faint, and when I woke up I would faint. But I didn't show my emotions to him because he would think I was crazy. I accepted and so we are still boyfriends. But before that, the whole thing happened in the bar of a friend of mine from class, there was a Christmas party at the class. There, 15 of my classmates, including me and my boyfriend, played on a bottle. There, by chance, he and I always sat facing each other, and the bottle pointed at us quite often and we kissed quite often. This brought us much closer. Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success! Then he explained to me that he didn't like anyone but me. I was shocked. The next day he offered to become his boyfriend. I was very happy, I would just faint, and when I woke up I would faint. But I didn't show my emotions to him because he would think I was crazy. I accepted and so we are still boyfriends. But before that, the whole thing happened in the bar of a friend of mine from class, there was a Christmas party at the class. There, 15 of my classmates, including me and my boyfriend, played on a bottle. There, by chance, he and I always sat facing each other, and the bottle pointed at us quite often and we kissed quite often. This brought us much closer. Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success! Then he explained to me that he didn't like anyone but me. I was shocked. The next day he offered to become his boyfriend. I was very happy, I would just faint, and when I woke up I would faint. But I didn't show my emotions to him because he would think I was crazy. I accepted and so we are still boyfriends. But before that, the whole thing happened in the bar of a friend of mine from class, there was a Christmas party at the class. There, 15 of my classmates, including me and my boyfriend, played on a bottle. There, by chance, he and I always sat facing each other, and the bottle pointed at us quite often and we kissed quite often. This brought us much closer. Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success! The next day he offered to become his boyfriend. I was very happy, I would just faint, and when I woke up I would faint. But I didn't show my emotions to him because he would think I was crazy. I accepted and so we are still boyfriends. But before that, the whole thing happened in the bar of a friend of mine from class, there was a Christmas party at the class. There, 15 of my classmates, including me and my boyfriend, played on a bottle. There, by chance, he and I always sat facing each other, and the bottle pointed at us quite often and we kissed quite often. This brought us much closer. Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success! The next day he offered to become his boyfriend. I was very happy, I would just faint, and when I woke up I would faint. But I didn't show my emotions to him because he would think I was crazy. I accepted and so we are still boyfriends. But before that, the whole thing happened in the bar of a friend of mine from class, there was a Christmas party at the class. There, 15 of my classmates, including me and my boyfriend, played on a bottle. There, by chance, he and I always sat facing each other, and the bottle pointed at us quite often and we kissed quite often. This brought us much closer. Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success! I accepted and so we are still boyfriends. But before that, the whole thing happened in the bar of a friend of mine from class, there was a Christmas party at the class. There, 15 of my classmates, including me and my boyfriend, played on a bottle. There, by chance, he and I always sat facing each other, and the bottle pointed at us quite often and we kissed quite often. This brought us much closer. Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success! I accepted and so we are still boyfriends. But before that, the whole thing happened in the bar of a friend of mine from class, there was a Christmas party at the class. There, 15 of my classmates, including me and my boyfriend, played on a bottle. There, by chance, he and I always sat facing each other, and the bottle pointed at us quite often and we kissed quite often. This brought us much closer. Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success! Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success! Then my friends and I started moving together. In the end, it just happened. I wish you success!
I like a boy with 1 and a half less than me, but he is very charming, I can't resist him. I have his number I know everything about him. There was a dump. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I have known him for 3 to 4 days. But we are quite close for that. Thanks in advance!