My friend has hair on her arms. They are not big, but they are visible and I do not know for what reason he does not want to part with them. Basically, I still like her, because I like her because of the person she is. Rather, the problem is that when we go out among people and see each other, I start to be ashamed of her .... a strange feeling. After all, how could it be more tactful to tell her to get rid of them?
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Um, what nonsense? I also have hair on my hands, but I don't remove them, because if I start they will become like men's beards! Better sparse and thin than needles. Grow up a little, it's high time women are not ashamed of the fact that the most natural thing grows on their skin - hair! It is socially accepted to have hair and eyebrows, but not everything else. Think about whether she really has to remove her hair anywhere or does it for the comfort of others and especially yours, because I'll tell you a secret - a single woman, especially if she doesn't have an active sex life, doesn't bother to get hairless (because there is no one for), very few women do it really because they do not like to have hair. And the other thing, when you're in a long relationship, you see the person in front of you, you know him, and such little things shouldn't be an obstacle,
You take the mower and remove it while she sleeps.
Get rid of her. This is her body if she decides and teases her she will get rid of them. Plus it hurts a lot on the hands. And you have to accept your girlfriend as she is! I doubt you're super handsome, but she accepted you for who you are. It's super funny to me when I'm in Bulgaria and in a cafe a few typical Bulgarian belly boys discuss women: D
Hey, as a girl who has the same "problem" as your girlfriend, I'll tell you this: First, I purposely wrote the word problem in quotes. Having hair on our hands does not make us less women. Second, don't think she didn't like it. I was ashamed of such "hair" and when I was little I gave up a lot of extracurricular activities, not to laugh at me. Now I am very sorry, this complex haunted me throughout my childhood and now I am cramped and have difficulty communicating with people. This is something normal, the girl, if she hasn't had them by now, is not ashamed of them. I even congratulate her. And you "men" are terribly contradictory. You are looking for natural beauty, and some fucking hairs on your hands repel you. I hope you understand me and stop thinking about what people will say to each other.
And how much time do you spend on your appearance to be with such pretensions?
You don't have a problem, you are ashamed? So which of the two? I guess it's the latter. If you are ashamed of that, and you are sitting here writing - then you are not all that.
I also have hair on my hands and a lot of it. In our family we have a gene to be hairier, and after a hormonal treatment (unnecessary, as it turned out), my hair became even thicker and longer. Well, I've never removed them, and I won't, because they don't bother me, because I don't care if others like me, and because I consider them a natural filter that keeps the wrong men away from me. I'm in my 30s, but I've never considered myself less feminine because of them, and there have always been men who have liked me over the years, despite them. I even think that many men do not notice them, but rather look at the woman as a whole. You have a problem that you consider a defect to be something that is a natural part of the human body, and that you don't care what others think. You don't deserve your girlfriend. You deserve a muffin, who will be preoccupied only with her appearance and will dump you for the first person you meet who has more money than you. Then you will learn to appreciate some other things in man, not only the hairless body.
You're right, young man, it's more aesthetically pleasing to see hairy women, and I'm ashamed. I'm a woman, years ago I started removing them because they were dark, I'm brunette, not long or thick, under the arms, too. The first few times on a wax mask, then with an epilator and I can safely say that very rarely I have to clean. What kind of nonsense did she write number 1? !! That and the rest! My advice is - find a friend of hers or a relative who is supported, let her prompt her, show her, can your girlfriend roll up? Dano!
I remembered something else - gave her a voucher for a beauty center, to pamper herself, talk to the staff for assistance, calm down, let the final decision be hers, a young girl is sure, she will learn! Success!