Hello, This is another topic for troubled neighbors, which I'm sure everyone knows. If a person tries to get along with them in a civilized way, he gets insulting and mocking. I no longer know who to turn to and I ask you to share in your comments what you would do in my place. The problems with the neighbors date back to the time we moved in. It is a new building with three apartments per floor. In the apartment, which is directly opposite me, live many understanding young people - they are a couple, but do not have a child (and I think they can not have). They don't have a lot of money because the girl is a student and the boy is doing something, but he obviously doesn't get a good salary. However, the neighbors in the apartment, which is located in the middle, are intolerant. They are constantly shopping, going on vacation, they soon bought a jeep, which my son says is one of the most expensive, currently sold. They make noise and disturb everyone. They are married and have three children, one big boy and two small ones - a girl and a boy. The little boy runs around the apartment and the stairs almost around the clock. There are some musical toys that make very loud sounds heard through the walls. I have been harassed all day. I have repeatedly asked his mother to limit him to at least these noisier toys, but she told me with all her audacity that I should not complain, because everything was normal for a child his age! Their father allegedly imports alcohol, cigarettes and confectionery. He goes out early every day. I know him because he slams the door and wakes me up before 7:00. He also goes on business trips abroad every month, and his tickets are for business class. The mother buys from expensive stores in the malls almost every day and comes home with a few bags. Makes such a noise, that I can't help but notice her. It happened to me late at night that I tried to fall asleep, and they first parked the car, then made noise on the stairs with the paper envelopes from the purchases. They do not comply at all! The highlight was yesterday when I saw their eldest son carrying a large TV box up the stairs. I asked him how much it cost and he answered BGN 11,000 !!! The TV is huge and I'm sure it will bother me because they watch TV until late at night. In the winter I had problems with them again because their air conditioner was right next to my balcony and it made an unbearable noise all day. I tried to talk humanely to my neighbor, but she behaved extremely rudely and with undisguised irony told me not to interfere in their lives. The other neighbors have raised their hands, no one is doing anything. I also don't know what to do. I settled here with great desire, and I'm almost forced to leave because of this rude family who's probably doing something illegal to make so much money. In January, everyone went on vacation in Dubai !!! If any of you can advise me something, I will be infinitely grateful to him! Thanks for reading my story!
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It will be healthiest for your whole family to get out of there. It is unknown at this time what he will do after leaving the post.
You buy 10 bottles of iodine tincture and 10 bottles of ammonia from the pharmacy. Maybe 20-30 if you are an extremist! :) You mix them in the dark and cool in a large glass container (for example in the bathroom). Stir the mixture well and let it stand in the dark for an hour and a half - two. Then, when you look at the solution, a dark and cloudy precipitate must have fallen. Carefully pour the clear liquid on top, and as it begins to flow from the sediment - stop. You put filter paper in a kitchen funnel (maybe one for a coffee machine) or, in the worst case, gauze and cotton on it. Filter the precipitate, collecting it on paper or cotton, and the clear solution should flow down through the funnel (you don't need it). With the sediment you start to lubricate everything - their door handle, the bell, the stairs, you make 5-6 big spots around their door, under their doormat, the door handles of their jeep, its tires, the muffler ... Act while the sediment is wet! For example, do it late at night after going to bed so that it can dry completely by morning. After smearing everything, get rid of all the remnants of the sediment and wash your hands well and in general everywhere around you, where there are remnants of it and the solution. If you treat yourself with iodine, it is cleaned with a fixing solution (sodium thiosulfate - once widely used in photography). By chance! And report the results! :) If you treat yourself with iodine, it is cleaned with a fixing solution (sodium thiosulfate - once widely used in photography). By chance! And report the results! :) If you treat yourself with iodine, it is cleaned with a fixing solution (sodium thiosulfate - once widely used in photography). By chance! And report the results! :)
Which annoys you more, that they make noise or that they have more money than you? And what is this nonsense that they bother by parking their car or carrying paper bags on the stairs. Is there any insulation at all in this home? Other things sound more logical, but I have a feeling that you are exaggerating a bit because they are annoying with your high income.
You remind me of my elderly neighbors sitting on the bench by the front door, and the neighbors watching what they carry in their bags as they go home! Ugly, very ugly! Besides, to know so many personal things about the young couple, you turn your nose 100% left and right and listen. So keep calm and drink mint, hawthorn and valerian! :)
It's not your neighbors who are the problem, it's your painful envy. You just envy them why they have and you don't. If this is the peak of your problem, then envy certainly torments you. Here's what you write - "The tip was yesterday, when I saw their eldest son carrying a big box of TV on the stairs. I asked him how much it cost and he answered BGN 11,000 !!!" What does it matter how much the TV costs? It hurts that they will have a TV for 11 thousand, and you do not have and because you can not have, you consider their TV as your "harassment." They are a young and lively family, living more dynamically, like everyone If the noise annoys you so much, there are methods to soundproof the walls to these neighbors. With modern windows, their air conditioning will not be heard.
Okay, weren't you a little ashamed to ask him how much the TV costs? !! If I were, I wouldn't answer you at all! You just envy people! Hey, such gossips who wonder out of envy where to go, I can't stand you. You seem to be writing here to tell us who had children and who did not, and where your neighbors went on vacation and what car they were in, rather than asking for help in "harassing" them. Think about it, don't you harass them with questions like "how much does a TV set cost" and scold them for a toy? They are not nasty neighbors, but you. And if the noise bothers you, go to a block with poor people so that your heart doesn't hurt: x
Are you serious about such nonsense? Your neighbors annoyed you because they bought a TV set for 11,000, or when they parked their car, is it only theirs that is heard around your building? You expose yourself, don't be so jealous, and if they bother you, just get out of there and let people live their lives, and in order not to hear the noise of their paper shopping bags, just don't listen to the door and the noise. Number 6, you have no other business but to make up nonsense, don't you?
As long as you attacked the author, she is 70 years old, she is wondering what to gossip about and she is bored. I can't explain in any other way listening to her, rummaging over who bought what, where he went, why, when, and whether
Did it only become clear to me that the story was made up?
author, you dramatize a lot! :-)) where do they go on vacation, what do they buy, what cars do they drive, in what class do they fly, etc. I don't see what's bothering you at all - the money is theirs and they can do whatever they want with it. you are also wrong about the toys, the child is really a child and can play with whatever he wants. in general, silence should be observed from 2 pm to 4 pm and from 10 pm to 6 am, during the rest of the time it is normal to have noises, people are alive, and with children. and don't think that only your neighbors have them, and children live elsewhere, and elsewhere you knock and make noise. show a little more understanding and you may find one on the other side. if you're picky about everything, they might start doing things to you if they haven't already. I don't know how old you are, but it's as if you don't have a life of your own, but you are staring at that of your neighbors (some of them didn't have money, they could not have a child, the others annoyed you ...). look at things more positively. F43
And what should people do so as not to irritate you? Don't shop? Do not go on vacation? Don't buy things for the home? Have no children? Don't have a car? To go bankrupt? Because, in fact, what irritates you is related to the standard of this family. Otherwise, we all have neighbors who watch TV, make noise on the stairs, have small children and air conditioners, but this is life in a cooperative. If you are looking for privacy, you are selling the apartment and buying a small house in the suburbs. They are at the same price.
I also have a problem with noisy neighbors, and there are hardly many lucky people who don't. That's why I opened the topic. But it is not about noisy neighbors, but a chronicle of their lives. Especially ugly is the statement about the young couple, who are 'known' from somewhere that they can't have children. Disgusting! And when people have money what? They irritate you. If they are poor and 'childless' - no. I have nothing else to say.
Wow, you're a gossip girl! Better from a rural babier! I even laughed at what you resent and what you know about your neighbors ... Manny ... and God forbid!
You have money in your gut out of envy for your family. Drink an amidofenche with the pieces tonight.
First, don't expect single-celled brazen organisms to understand you. At home, for example, I don't even allow the hinge on my door to creak because I respect the right to privacy of others around me, so I didn't have to be reprimanded. Just a matter of elementary resourcefulness and upbringing. And if I inadvertently make a loud noise, I feel guilty because it's the same as throwing your garbage in a neighbor's apartment. It is still pollution that enters his own home and makes him uncomfortable. But explain this to a simpleton - he will understand you as much as an animal! Second. The only good thing about our Aboriginal country is that there is a law for such neighbors. So you go quietly to the other neighbors of the cooperative and everyone signs in your notebook that they are disturbed by noise from the people in question. Then, with the notebook, you go to a prosecutor who, based on the collected signatures, issues an order forcibly selling the slippers and amoebas in question to sell their apartment and move out. Success!
The woman wrote very well how the modern liberated simpletons of the so-called middle class make noise. And, of course, she was immediately attacked by the class here. And they write as many pros as they want. It's not bad to have money - it's not the job. Having money does not mean that you should not raise your children, and that you should behave as if you live alone on an island and there are no other people around you. There is no envy - the home is a place for comfort and relaxation, but in this case rude egocentrics prevent this.
The peasant and with a TV set for 100 bucks, still remains a peasant.
They may be annoying, but I think you're a little jealous of their lifestyle. After all, what do you care about, what kind of car do they drive and how much does the TV cost? !! If it's for making noise and with Opel you can drive the neighborhood crazy, and you can play the chalga loudly on a regular TV and you will still make your neighbors crazy. So it seems that the problem is not only in the noise ... but if they irritate you, they must irritate the other people in the block, talk about it with the others and raise the issue at the next general meeting. However, it's really ugly to ask how much the TV costs and get annoyed about it.
It is normal for people with money to be educated and brought up, and in this case it is obviously not so. That is why the author speaks about their financial possibilities, not out of envy. Squid with money is not a good combination. The middle class is not only measured by income. Are the gypsies middle-class scammers?
I'm 19th and I'm writing again because I can't believe that there are so many comments on the topic of the topic that not only don't call those who make noise, but also almost justify them, and the woman is called envious. Don't you understand that the author introduces these details for the TV set of 11 vouchers and the expensive car not because she envies, but to show that these are people with money who think they are above the others because of that and can humiliate and disturb them ? Too bad for our nation!
Does it irritate you that they make noise with the bags, do you sleep in the corridor? And so it is in new construction. Everything is heard. I'm in a massive brick building and there's no sound. And what bothers you that their TV is expensive? Insulate yourself or blow them with envelopes and so they can insulate themselves.
25 (19), before you qualify who is a worm, look at yourself. You are still illiterate and you give advice to others. "NashEta" is written with A- our nation. That's why there are "worms", that's why we are such a nation, because we have illiterate polygamists.
Wow, author, you're straight for Reuters! I understand, number 25, the author had mentioned in two words that they have a good income, but even such details ... And the comment about the "childless" couple threw me into jazz! Author, you must have files for all your neighbors! By the way, are you the only one who has problems with the noise that the "rich" make?
I am surprised by most of the comments that I envy my neighbors. It is not clear to me what I could envy people deprived of culture and upbringing. I am not interested in their income at all, and I am one of those people who are sincerely happy for someone, if there is a high standard. The problem is not there. Their way of life only affects me as long as we live wall to wall and I would like to live in peace. But this does not happen. The other reason I mentioned some things is my fear that my parents are doing something illegal. For example, on June 18, the father left for San Francisco, as the tickets are again for business class and each of them (in one direction) costs BGN 5,300 !!! And he doesn't return until July 15. These financial opportunities are atypical for most Bulgarians and therefore raise doubts in me. Someone had suggested a subscription to the neighbors. I have suggested it, although I do not believe it will have much effect, but a large part of the neighbors are reluctant to participate, justifying that the concern caused by the family in question is not so serious that such measures should be taken. In my opinion, it is rather a fear of quarrels and I understand them to some extent. I'm not a hooligan to resort to the method of number 6. And as someone had asked - the soundproofing of the apartment is good. When they were on holiday in Dubai in January, nothing was heard from other neighbors or outside. But as soon as they returned, the familiar story began: their young son wandered around the building with his singing toys, the mother demonstratively distributed her purchases, etc. I would talk to the other neighbors again, and if nothing changed, I would move. the author although I do not believe there will be much of a result, a large number of neighbors are reluctant to participate, justifying that the concern caused by the family in question is not so serious that such measures should be taken. In my opinion, it is rather a fear of quarrels and I understand them to some extent. I'm not a hooligan to resort to the method of number 6. And as someone had asked - the soundproofing of the apartment is good. When they were on holiday in Dubai in January, nothing was heard from other neighbors or outside. But as soon as they returned, the familiar story began: their young son wandered around the building with his singing toys, the mother demonstratively distributed her purchases, etc. I would talk to the other neighbors again, and if nothing changed, I would move. the author although I do not believe there will be much of a result, a large part of the neighbors are reluctant to participate, justifying that the anxiety caused by the family in question is not so serious as to take such measures. In my opinion, it is rather a fear of quarrels and I understand them to some extent. I'm not a hooligan to resort to the method of number 6. And as someone had asked - the soundproofing of the apartment is good. When they were on holiday in Dubai in January, nothing was heard from other neighbors or outside. But as soon as they returned, the familiar story began: their young son wandered around the building with his singing toys, the mother demonstratively distributed her purchases, etc. I would talk to the other neighbors again, and if nothing changed, I would move. the author justifying that the anxiety caused by the family in question is not so serious as to take such measures. In my opinion, it is rather a fear of quarrels and I understand them to some extent. I'm not a hooligan to resort to the method of number 6. And as someone had asked - the soundproofing of the apartment is good. When they were on holiday in Dubai in January, nothing was heard from other neighbors or outside. But as soon as they returned, the familiar story began: their young son was walking around the building with his singing toys, the mother was demonstratively delivering her purchases, etc. I would talk to the other neighbors again, and if nothing changed, I would move. the author justifying that the anxiety caused by the family in question is not so serious as to take such measures. In my opinion, it is rather a fear of quarrels and I understand them to some extent. I'm not a hooligan to resort to the method of number 6. And as someone had asked - the soundproofing of the apartment is good. When they were on holiday in Dubai in January, nothing was heard from other neighbors or outside. But as soon as they returned, the familiar story began: their young son wandered around the building with his singing toys, the mother demonstratively distributed her purchases, etc. I would talk to the other neighbors again, and if nothing changed, I would move. the author I'm not a hooligan to resort to the method of number 6. And as someone had asked - the soundproofing of the apartment is good. When they were on holiday in Dubai in January, nothing was heard from other neighbors or outside. But as soon as they returned, the familiar story began: their young son was walking around the building with his singing toys, the mother was demonstratively delivering her purchases, etc. I would talk to the other neighbors again, and if nothing changed, I would move. the author I'm not a hooligan to resort to the method of number 6. And as someone had asked - the soundproofing of the apartment is good. When they were on holiday in Dubai in January, nothing was heard from other neighbors or outside. But as soon as they returned, the familiar story began: their young son wandered around the building with his singing toys, the mother demonstratively distributed her purchases, etc. I would talk to the other neighbors again, and if nothing changed, I would move. the author I will talk to the other neighbors again and if nothing changes, I will move. the author I will talk to the other neighbors again and if nothing changes, I will move. the author
Safe from gossip and lost people in this country. Instead of everyone looking after their own work, they set out to dig into other people's lives. Funny and pathetic people. And what's the problem with getting richer than you. Balkan envy Then we wonder that the state does not work Simple people - a weak state
The opinion of 25 is written competently enough, just in the speed he pressed the wrong key. The fact that there are no other mistakes is indicative. And we are worms and we are such a nation, because we are in a hurry to summarize and spit because of a small technical error. And the fact that these paralyzes are squirrels is indisputable.
Author, but you keep talking about their financial capabilities, and that was not the reason? !! That's exactly it! What do you care about what the person is doing and how much money does the ticket cost? You're a typical gossip girl who doesn't work all day. How did he know on what date he was leaving, where and how much money it would cost him? You obviously only think about these people and listen to when they will go out, where and what they will buy? You're exposing yourself! If you don't like to move, the other neighbors of the cooperative obviously don't mind the "rich" and don't have a problem with the noise from their purchases. It's just super funny to complain that people are as rich as you want to deny, but it's clear that you envy them terribly.
As far as I understand, your problem is pure and simple envy. And in order not to admit in front of you and the others that you are angry because they are richer than you, you invent various pure everyday life for which to apply. Like musical toys, for example. I don't believe children play with them around the clock. Besides, I didn't see any other household problem, on the other hand, he told us in great detail when and how much he traveled abroad and in what class (btv, how do you know what class he travels with)? Safe from petty enviers ...