I will start from here that I am the most ordinary 15-year-old girl who has a really difficult life, I will not share, because even if I talk and no problems remain and there are no fixes. I will say what bothers me the most, it is very hard for me to be alone that I have no one by my side and I want to be loved and understood as much as everyone else. Even if I had at least one girlfriend, but it was really not like my old "friends" with the words "we will always be by your side" and when I needed them I was dumped for no reason, there was no point in asking them why because they would turn over. This happened 2 years ago and since then my loneliness has started, since then no one has said "I love you" looking me in the eyes and feeling it, since then no one has hugged me and I want to hug someone so much: because he has no feelings for me and it's hard for me to accept him yet, because I still love him you will probably say "ahahaha how will you love him you are 15" I was ready for anything for him and I still am! There is no need to talk to my father from there again, everything is upside down for me, I don't want to live like that anymore! You will tell me to go out, communicate more, yes, but it doesn't happen like most of you will say, I'm just here and I'm alone and I have the feeling that I will always be alone and I don't want it to be like that: ((( because he has no feelings for me and it's hard for me to accept him yet, because I still love him you will probably say "ahahaha how will you love him you are 15" I was ready for anything for him and I still am! There is no need to talk to my father from there again, everything is upside down for me, I don't want to live like that anymore! You will tell me to go out, communicate more, yes, but it doesn't happen like most of you will say, I'm just here and I'm alone and I have the feeling that I will always be alone and I don't want it to be like that: (((
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Hello! I am 17, almost 18, I have no friends since I was little, I understand you completely, but there is no getting rid of this loneliness. If you want, write to me on my email, I will give you Skype [email protected]
You can find many real friends here, if you want to write me an email. It's never too late for new online dating. One does not know when and where he will find a true friend, I found a lot in common with what you wrote ... Obviously not only my life is so boring and lonely .... Bate Mitko :)))
quote "I want to be loved understood like everyone else" who are all these and since when is it right to be loved and understood? Since friends are here to be with you in difficult times - I'll tell you something, just at your age I realized that they evaporate just then. Even my friend, who loves me, etc. (I'm sure of that) seems to evaporate on purpose, just then. Learn to live for yourself, deal with your problems on your own and not wait for others. You yourself give with love, affection and understanding, but it depends on the others whether they will be by your side, whether they will return what you have been given. When you give, don't wait to receive. "I love you" I heard for the first time on the 23rd. Today I hear it every day. I gave for a long time and received nothing, now I give 70% to receive 30% - such is life. Learn to be happy yourself, to live for yourself, then for others, and don't think that only, because there is someone other than your parents who is obliged to love and understand you - there is no such thing. It will not even apply to your children - many people give birth to children and expect that they will love them unconditionally, but the truth is that everyone sets conditions - the most important thing is to understand and love yourself, then if others DECIDE you will respond, but they may not do it!
shh hey to number 3 what is the point of me giving love, etc. after I need someone does not give me ???
ot the author: I wanted to say what is the point of me giving love, etc. since I have no one to give and help people without coming back to me ..
spokich was a girl ... I was the same .. I was 13 when I met a fool and I fell in love with him and he didn't feel anything for me .. as well as yes .. I followed his gas for 3 years without any success .. and kfo became a boy appeared with whom I am alone at the moment and whom I love much more .. and I, like you, was depressed .. I was lonely all the time .. I went through this path that you are walking at the moment .. and believe me it will end soon ...
I want to ask for advice ... so I go with a boy of 8 months ... but we see each other 1-2 times a week, because he goes to Gabrovo .. and he comes on Saturday and Sunday .. he was my first, and I became very attached to him ... and I told him that I loved him, and he replied that he had not yet experienced this feeling and unwilling ladies said that he loved me as it was not so ... and that when he tested him he would tell me. .apak for me is ready for anything and proves it to me .. I can not understand this as it is not love what is ..? I always stay to sleep with them ... when we are both he is very happy .. but when we are not together he constantly tells me how much he misses me ..! i can't figure out what to do that lady loves ..
Hi, I think it would be best to move to another school, meet other people and forget the past, I know it's easy to say, but doing so will make you feel great :). If you don't have that opportunity, find a hobby that interests you, I know it can't replace friends, but still, it's better than standing and feeling sorry for yourself. Good luck :)
I really understand you, may God be with you and give you something good. There is no one better to understand you than a person who has also had a very difficult life.