I have some super big problem! I had a serious friend for almost 2 years, but in the end things didn't work out ... so, we haven't been together for about 2-3 months. Then I was completely satisfied, when I wanted sex I just got it ... but now it's different. A month after the end of our relationship, I went back to a so-called ex-boyfriend just to have sex. He was expecting me to come back to him, which I don't want to happen. We ended our relationship. So I haven't had sex in almost a month or more. I hadn't noticed anything, but my girlfriend had found in the last few days that I was in a bad mood, sour and didn't talk to anyone about anything (which usually doesn't happen because I'm quite talkative), so I sat down and thought about the reason. and I realized I missed sex. I've never experienced anything like this in my life, you just feel like a routine .. The problem is that I'm not a person who can have sex with anyone he wants, I have to know the person very well. I am categorically against self-satisfaction and there is no one to "help" me? I am writing here simply because I want advice! :)
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darling, it's normal, sex is like a drug, I can only help with natural, quality, hormonally balancing and relaxing sex
This is temporary, you will soon find a partner again or you will stop at a good acquaintance for sex :) In the meantime, start doing sports, something non-committal, but stressful - yoga, aerobics, cycling ... It helps a lot, personally I had a pretty hard time after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend and I was, to put it mildly, crooked :) I started doing yoga hard and things worked out - first on a psychological level (I calmed down and changed my life more philosophically), and then on a physical level. . Of course, being cheerful, smiling and not desperate in no time is a cool man :)))))
Well ... just don't be so 'categorical' against masturbation. We all do it sometimes. :))
Yes, why are you against self-satisfaction, there is nothing wrong with that, everyone does it when they need to, you probably did it during puberty, don't tell me that you are not, if you have a desire and since things are so you don't have a person next to you, you can rush to self-satisfaction, you will calm down and relax, and your man will show up, don't think about it, usually this happens when you least expect it, but until then you should not refrain for so long, once you see for yourself that this has a negative effect on you. Regards, CUPIDON.
I sympathize with you very much! I'm in the same situation, except that in the end you can't stand principles, not principles, I bought a vibrator. I'm not saying that he can take a real man, but at least he helps you to a certain extent, so as not to freak out, but for pleasure and not a word.
Dear girl! You take me back 22-23 years. I am now a 44-woman. Then I had a very difficult moment after the separation. At that time, I did not listen to my relatives, who told me not to get into relationships quickly just for the sake of sex. Without sex is bad, but such reckless relationships even more so. So my advice is not to find any good activity that will help you in any way, and at some point everything falls into place. Don't get obsessed with sex. Everything is good when it is in moderation. Don't listen to girlfriends and people who say they have sex every day and all sorts of other things.
Pffff ... even if I saw it, I wouldn't believe it - that you are so hopelessly addicted to sex ... Come on, aren't you women more mentally resilient? At the age of 24-25, I was left without sex for 3-4 years. And what - have I blown away? Nothing like that - you find some interesting activities, you have your right hand (there was no porn then). And then everything falls into place - you meet a suitable partner, love flares up and in a few weeks, not even months, you wake up from sexual lethargy. From now on, everything is great.
Well done, I'm a young man №8. Here I read a lot of stories written by women who literally roar that they lack sex. My husband and I have been married for 20 years and I can say that there have been times when we have had sex less often and now more often. Moments of all kinds, but to "go crazy without sex" as I read somewhere here, I do not understand. Are we so prone to belittle ourselves? Are we so bored and not working that we think only with the genitals and not with the gray matter.