Hello, a girl of 20 from a big city, a student, wrote to you. Recently, by coincidence, I resumed contacts with a boy with whom we studied together until 7th grade. We started going out, dinners, cinemas, walks, so far so good. The boy is very well-mannered, I like him very much, he is as cheerful as I am, he works and I dare say that he has a pretty good income, he lives alone, he has a car, I tell you no, because his financial condition impressed me, because and I work, I never asked him to buy me something or I tried to abuse the fact that there are opportunities, I just point out the facts to be as objective as possible :) shows great interest in me, gestures, proves that he wants to is with me, and only with me, whatever I want we do, whatever I say, this we even eat .. and here you will say "So what's the problem with this?". The problem is this, have you ever found such a perfect man, but still something does not attract you, you do not want to kiss the person, you do not want any intimacy with him? The boy, I must say, looks very good, I like the look terribly and yet he does not attract me sexually? My friends say give me time, the desire may arise, but I don't seem to believe much. Has it happened to you and what could be the reason? Thank you in advance for the answers, tips, etc. :) as a vision I really like and yet I am not sexually attracted? My friends say give me time, the desire may arise, but I don't seem to believe much. Has it happened to you and what could be the reason? Thank you in advance for the answers, tips, etc. :) as a vision I really like and yet I am not sexually attracted? My friends say give me time, the desire may arise, but I don't seem to believe much. Has it happened to you and what could be the reason? Thank you in advance for the answers, tips, etc. :)
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You seem to like it, but as a friend. However, when I read, he is one of the fat people without his own opinion, and that sucks. You may feel that he is not sincere without realizing it. It is possible to be lonely and want to have a friend, especially such an "exemplary boy", but internally you do not respect him, precisely because he is a "good boy". My advice is, if you don't feel your man, don't deal with him. Let me just ask you, are you sure you don't mind the thought of kissing him ??? Come on, success.
Time does not help, I am a man of 28, the women who arouse me are not the ones who "should like them"! Routine relationships are difficult, you want to get rid of this burden, but relationships with passion bring a lot of pain!
It doesn't attract you sexually, because it's "nice guy", it always agrees with you, it's always "at hand" ... that is, the intrigue between you is gone. It remains to get married and live happily for 67 years and have 2 children, a girl and a blonde girl. Boring! You women, if they ask you, will always say that you want someone just like this ... only the reality is quite different. Such men are boring, predictable, soft and lack passion. The other side of the coin is the hundreds of topics posted by such men here, who generally say - "I love her so much, I also give her flowers, we talk all night ... and she told me that she wants us to be just friends ... what to do? She's the only one I ever want to be with "Nobody likes nice guy!