What's wrong with me? Do I have mild mental disorders? I've been losing my desire to live lately. Daily worries and lack of free time crush me and I almost don't smile, I'm no longer positive. I mainly deal with cooking, cleaning, work. These are normal things and in a person's life there comes a moment when you have to take care of yourself, to support yourself and feed yourself, not to be a burden to your parents, to create your own family. But somehow I started to feel nostalgic for being 20 years old and everything being easy and carefree for me. I am very responsible, but it already weighs on me, I obviously feel that it will be so in the future and that scares me. I also feel apathy towards my partner. We understand each other, but I feel that I am constantly wandering and obsessed with various things. I'm watching some sci-fi action and I think I'm falling in love with the lead actor, who is super sexy, he has a great voice and is very confident. Then I start reading crazy articles about him, interviews and I don't stop dreaming about him. This does not seem normal to me at all. Why aim for a famous actor who would never notice me and why a normal boy doesn't impress me like that. In fact, the actor wouldn't impress me live, but somehow in these movies they are made by super men and that's where it all comes from. Besides, I've never been with a man who made me lose my mind when I saw him. It happened to me several times to see a handsome man and worry in his presence, but then I was already married and could not think of anything else. Somehow, real life doesn't seem to excite me. I don't have romances with real men, I just dream of an exciting world like in the movies, where there is dynamism and there is no talk of care and work. Eh ... have you ever been like that? Am I crazy?
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You just want to be saved by these superheroes.
He played this stupid topic 300 times
Well, because life in the movies is more interesting. There the men are strong, brave, heroic, self-sacrificing. They have ideals, goals, they sacrifice for the homeland, the family, a woman. They do the impossible. Basically everything they really aren't. And I have actors that I like because of their roles, because of the way they think and behave according to the interviews. Some are just very charming and radiate something. It's just that men in reality are not like that, they don't talk like that, they are not brave and strong.
Hi, I understand what's wrong with you. Lately, I've been feeling bored with life. In less than a month I will start a new school away from my parents and I am afraid that whatever is lazy, I will not be able to do without them. I don't go out or stay home, I don't know what I want anymore. I think I'm antisocial. I'm afraid to talk to people, I don't express any emotions, I'm tired, even though I'm lying all day. I'm on vacation now, but I can't enjoy it at all. I wonder how people are so happy and have no problems, and I have. They gave me BGN 1,000 for All Inclusions, and I have no appetite. I look at one point all day and wonder what failure it will be in the future if I continue like this. The strange thing is that I have never been like that, as if something suddenly caught me and I lost interest in life.
You're not crazy, you just have a more imaginative imagination. So am I to some extent. I used to have a collection of photos of famous cool men and a friend with whom we had the same taste, we even celebrated the birthdays of the top 10 of them. However, you have to distinguish between liking and love. For example, I've been crazy about Rock - Dwayne Johnson for 20 years, but I know I'll never be with him or any other man like that. I watch his movies and performances, I'm glad he has children and he recently got married. I can list many more of my "loves" - Jason Momoa, Adrian Paul, Lorenzo Lamas, Johnny Depp, Sean Michaels and others, mostly long-haired. I am married and often in front of my husband I enjoy various cool actors and we discuss them. I love him very much, but he would not enter my ranking with cool. However, he is an excellent husband and I know he will be a good father, and these are the most important criteria for me. The reality is always different from the movies. Watch your favorite actors, fall in love and study them, but don't think that your life is boring because it's not like a movie. The best thing is to write the script of your own life.
Those who have commented so far have focused on the films, but I will emphasize what is happening to me. Author, you are not alone! After reading your topic, I was reassured that there is someone other than me in this situation. I also feel apathy, everything is boring and annoying to me and it is the lack of time that sends me into a monotonous everyday life, from which I get out once or twice a month or on the weekend. I miss my carefree years when I was 19. I miss the thrill of every new endeavor - university, internship, work. I miss the crazy falling in love that makes you fly. Now everything is more aware and you have already realized that not everything that flies is eaten. Up and down you know the rules of the game whether in work or personal relationships and it's not that interesting. I understand you .... I don't know if it's exactly the same with you as with me.