Have You Ever Fallen In Love With Someone You Think You Don't Stand A Chance With?

   My most painful topic is currently hitting. For several months I have been liking a boy, the sweetest, coolest and funniest boy I know. How much nonsense I did to meet and even get closer to him, only I know. But despite all the positive things, there is a downside and that is that he is a great womanizer. He is not looking for a serious girlfriend at the moment. And eventually, if I admit to him how I feel, I will get nothing but intimate relationships. Sometimes I am terribly tempted by this option, I just want to be with him, I don't care how, but I know that this "relationship" will not last long and I give up. Not to mention that I am 7 years younger than him and because of that there is an even greater danger that he will use me. In short, as wonderful as it may seem to me, it is not for me at all. And I have to give up,

   Always! I always fall in love with the impossible. Somehow it attracts me, I don't know. First in my teacher, then in the manager and finally in the boss. I shared my feelings with the boss after a few (quite) drinks at a company party. Well, I don't work there anymore, but I still see my boss ...

   I fell in love with a man who is the complete opposite of me. He is an extrovert, he likes to go out, party, drink, and I am an introvert and I don't like going out much and I hate alcohol. He thinks about fun, while I think about building the future. There was something between us, we were attracted, but the conversation was not very special. It is clear that he tried, but nothing came of it.

   Well, that's one of the reasons a person falls head over heels - when you meet someone who seems so cool that you kind of don't feel worthy of him. The unknown and the exotic for us always attract and provoke both beautiful and depressive feelings. But it's all in our heads. We are all human and we are equal, we just have different qualities. Of course, you have a chance with the person in question, you just have to shake off your complexes. Unfortunately, this is not so quick and easy.

   1. Yes. 2. No, I never found the courage to admit my feelings. 3. - 4. -

   Well, this is a fairly common phenomenon. Especially if you have the misfortune to be gay. I can't say about falling in love, but I've happened to like heterosexual boys, and at the same time I like girls. I even have a very recent example, but I was on the other side. An acquaintance admitted that she was in love with me. The situation was bad because she didn't know she had gay feelings. And even though she's the coolest girl I know, I cut her off, telling her the truth about myself. It didn't go very well. We keep in touch now, but our communication is quite sluggish and as if sick. Something lasting and negative has taken root in our relationship and it hurts me that I can't change things. It's not nice to have feelings for someone that can't grow into something more and be aware of it, but it's part of growing up and experiencing,

   I fell in love with someone I think I don't stand a chance with. I don't think I will impress him, much less that if we survive, it will be successful. He taught me to believe more in the things I feel. If so, did you acknowledge your feelings to him / her? -Yes. It wasn't easy if you were wondering. How does he / she react? - He confessed a little before me. It was harder to believe than to admit. In the end, did your relationship continue to develop, and if so, in what direction? -They continued and developed very well until the day when our paths did not part. We were different, there was a distance, we decided not to suffer. It's not a big drama, it remains a great love that has taught me everything I know about these feelings. This is not a bad thing and I do not regret the risks I took. Thank you very much for your time and I wish everyone a nice day! : ) - Thank you for your trust. I hope your story survives. And if it doesn't happen, don't grieve. Give yourself a chance, otherwise you will regret not making an attempt.

   From the author: Thank you all for the comments and especially for helping me look at things from a different angle (even several)! I'm still hesitant to share my feelings with the boy, but I think I'll procrastinate for now. HDD Thank you very much to number 7 for the super nice, meaningful and positive comment! ;)

   Actually yes. And it is still there - in a secret place in my heart. It made me feel feelings long forgotten. I even thought that love would not happen to me again. I knew it was reciprocated by his smile on me and his special look. We talked nonsense and jokes. He could do my whole day with just one smile. Is this love - to be happy for no reason? !! But I did not find the strength to admit anything. And he was 9 years younger than me. Other people intervened and broke the spell. :(

   Oooo to always fall in love with girls who are the complete opposite of me .. They study, do not smoke or drink and I am garbage Boy 16

   I've always fallen in love with or liked guys I don't stand a chance with for one reason or another. : D I have only admitted feelings twice, when we kept in touch with the people in question on the Internet, but there is something else. She never had the courage to live. But I remember that two years ago I had just gathered the courage to admit my feelings for a boy, and that's when I realized that he had been in a relationship with another girl for several months, but they just didn't show their relationship clearly. I was very upset when I learned it, but I decided to keep quiet and retire so as not to create unnecessary dramas and warriors, and the girl he was in a relationship with, I respected him and I still respect him. Black Sabbath

   yes, i have fallen in love and i still still love such a person. Yes, he knows I have feelings, in the beginning maybe he had, now he's with another. We are close friends, inseparable, but there is nothing more than friendship lately.