Hello, a 20-year-old girl writes to you. I have had a serious friend for 3 years, we love each other very much. I had many obstacles in the beginning with my parents but they passed. He is a poor boy indeed this is a problem of ours. My favorite left 1 year. was abroad recently came, and the problems started again. In general, they treat him well, but they bother me a lot ... I'm tired of this hell. My life is good, they look at me very much, I can't deny I have a good life ... but my friend is very poor. He lives in a small house, their electricity was recently cut off .. In short, they have no living conditions .. I don't mind, I love him very much, but our people drive me crazy. And he knows that. He manages on his own, nobody helps him, he came abroad and bought a car .. which is a mistake for ours .. I know, but he, like any boy, wants a car .. Give me advice please .. what to do if not I can do without it .. I've never watched the material ... Every day they tell me to dump it. I have an older sister and a brother, they are also against .. I have no support from anyone .. Give me advice .. Please .. He is 24 years old. he is a little lower than me which is still a problem for ours .. but I can't give it up .. Thank you !!!
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I think only you are smart in your family. I have no advice to give, except that I really sympathize with your friend, because one day I may be in his place, because that's where things seem to go. I don't think you should give up, but in the end I think that this mental harassment of you by your family will make you take their side by force.
Go to the hut and dump yours.
It is absurd to give up because he was poor and short. I just wonder if parents like yours don't feel guilty for questioning him at all. If you love each other and the boy deserves not to leave him, they will smell over time. And life is in front of you, you are young, one day you will certainly be better materially. I wish you many years together and people with prejudices completely ignored !!!
If the boy is serious, responsible, hardworking, does not drink, does not use drugs and loves you, fuck your relatives, tell them that you are big and it is your job. That if they don't accept it, they will lose you. The boy, if he is hardworking, in time you will have a normal life. Some rich boys become addicted to gambling and drugs and become poor / prisoners / deceased. M34
"Yours" has a very archaic mentality. I raised an eyebrow when I saw that his height was a problem. I hadn't heard that nonsense since I was a student. As you describe the boy, misery has made him a good man, it will not be easy for you, because you are pampered and a mother's child, but it will only benefit you. You are 20 years old and it is time to let go of your mother's skirt and learn to cope with life on your own. You need to make your parents understand that you are not their pet, but an adult. You should not be afraid to even come into conflict, for the people you love. Of course, be honest about which is more expensive, the boy or the comfort of mom and dad. Grandpa Torbalan
Hello. I don't think your family's only problem is that it's poor. There are many poor people in Bulgaria, but most of them are very well received in society, have many friends and are not treated badly, as is the case with your friend. Haven't you thought that there is another reason why they don't want you to be together? Maybe it's too below your level and stops you from growing? Maybe you're too focused on it and forget that you need to evolve? Maybe take advantage of you? Maybe he's a bad person or doing things that are bad for you? Keep in mind that it is also very important for partners to be on the same level in a relationship. Otherwise, one always pulls the other down. I tell you this because my relative recently married such a person - a seasonal worker abroad, without a secure income, without education (only primary), with almost zero intelligence. And she is as young as you, only 20. She clung to this man and, as if stubborn, married him. Because of him she did not enroll in higher education, she gave him her house, her car, everything. She is now a housewife and eternally dissatisfied with her life. And he could become a prestigious lawyer, find far more valuable people in his life. And by valuable do not mean materially secured, but really valuable people, with normal intellect, with respect for their partner, with values and many others. Sometimes others see much more clearly than we do (especially when we are in love) what reality is and what is better for us. I advise you to listen to your loved ones and think carefully about whether you want to be with this person. give him your house, your car, everything. She is now a housewife and eternally dissatisfied with her life. And he could become a prestigious lawyer, find far more valuable people in his life. And by value do not mean materially secured, but really valuable people, with normal intellect, with respect for their partner, with values and many others. Sometimes others see much more clearly than we do (especially when we are in love) what reality is and what is better for us. I advise you to listen to your loved ones and think carefully about whether you want to be with this person. give him your house, your car, everything. She is now a housewife and eternally dissatisfied with her life. And he could become a prestigious lawyer, find far more valuable people in his life. And by valuable do not mean materially secured, but really valuable people, with normal intellect, with respect for their partner, with values and many others. Sometimes others see much more clearly than we do (especially when we are in love) what reality is and what is better for us. I advise you to listen to your loved ones and think carefully about whether you want to be with this person. Sometimes others see much more clearly than we do (especially when we are in love) what reality is and what is better for us. I advise you to listen to your loved ones and think carefully about whether you want to be with this person. Sometimes others see much more clearly than we do (especially when we are in love) what reality is and what is better for us. I advise you to listen to your loved ones and think carefully about whether you want to be with this person.
You are 20, the choice is yours. Get up, go, fight and so on.
And in which country is this foreign country? Turkey, Iran - what are you so afraid to specify. The big abroad. Say that in addition to being poor and petty, he is also a cut Turk to support you properly.
There is no money for electricity, but there is money for gasoline. Something is wrong with me.
You are not 5 years old to determine if you are rich or poor according to what your parents have. Find a job, move out together and support yourself. It doesn't matter who comes from what family, but what you will achieve apart from your parents.
How tall are you and how tall is he? What help do you want? A person in this life makes choices very often and very difficult. As I look at it, at some point you will have to choose between him and your family and you will choose your family.
My heart broke reading your story. Really, but I'm really sorry. You have my condolences and I wholeheartedly wish you improvements. Not in your relationship, it's hopeless there - your spelling needs therapy.
He was in Italy .. he is not a Turk I will never give him up .. Never .. Thank you!
if it doesn't bother you that they live in a hut without electricity, get out and go to him. Are you working or waiting for yours to support you, but without grumbling about your choice of a friend? If you depend on them, you will tolerate grumbling, otherwise as they say: the bag for bread. However, I suspect that he is a gypsy, so yours are not his fans
If you love living together, I was also shorter than my girlfriend but now I'm taller than her. Mani yours only irritate them and they ax Why? It's not worth it and since your friend doesn't like it, no one wanted the opinion
To work .. For 1 year now
Well go out to stay this is the 100% solution