My boyfriend beat me once. He said I was guilty because I annoyed him with my behavior. He is also very jealous, but takes care of me gives me money sometimes is kind tells me that he loves me. However, he is constantly drawn to aggression for the smallest things, and sometimes without anything. He is one of those people who hide in themselves and eventually explode. As much as I ask him and I want him to relax in front of me to tell me the things that irritate him calmly - it doesn't work. I abandoned him. I know that once he hits you - it will happen again and for a while it would really happen again. Maybe I love him, I don't know. With terrible reservations, I made him not look for me anymore. It's been a whole week Does anyone think our relationship has a chance It all depends on me. If I call him, he will come back to me. But this with the beating, how to stop ... give advice
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You did the right thing. There are women who can't find the strength to dump such a man for 20 years and end up in the hearse. You don't write whether he drinks, takes drugs, uses any medications ... But in the end you decide. If you feel weak and decide to give him a second chance, do not apply to him in any case and oblige him to go to a psychiatrist, a psychologist. If he doesn't want to, don't deal with him under any circumstances. Such aggression can generally be treated, but he must see for himself that it is a problem and ask. Tomorrow he will start forcing you again, beating your children as well. not worth it.
Dear how the fault is not in you but in him. Don't be sad, find another boy, like my brother, for example, he neither hits nor reaches, dumps him, this is not for you. I'm a child yet and I don't have a boyfriend but I know how to look. You are a smart, beautiful and very cool girl and it is not worth suffering for this malnourished mother. Valeria - 8 years
Abe, what are these comments from 8 year old children here, we will laugh, hahahaha An old mare writes a topic, kids with green snot and give advice, hahahahaha
Of course, you will miss it once you have been - this is in your nature :)
It would be foolish to go back to him. I can't understand such women. He beats you, insults you, humiliates you and you look for him again. What, aren't there any more men left in the world? !! Can't you find another one? Does he just like you or are you dependent on him?
Oooo darling, please don't look for it !!! How will he beat you because you irritate him, and now you will look for him ??? Do you hear what you're saying? HE wants just that - you to feel guilty and look for him first ... and then he will be sure that he is rightly beating you !! If you look for him and get along, and he beats you up with a fight - to know that you are to blame!
"He's also very jealous, but taking care of me sometimes gives me money." Do you hear what you're saying? Tighten it and get to your feet. Are you ready to look like those yellow pennies on a punching bag? You do not say how old you are, but the above applies to any age. Good luck and find a real man soon.
Number 4 - it is not in our nature at all !!! You have a lot of wrong impressions. It seems that the author's friend is a pretty good manipulator to make her feel guilty and she decides she wants to go back to him :)
It won't stop this with paint! Don't look for him! You don't need someone to beat you. If you take it back, it would be a very stupid thing to do!
NO NO NO!!! By no means look for it! You did the right thing by throwing it away! If you want him to beat you every day, go back to him. She just turned her back on him and found a normal boy. * Yasa
I can't understand you, don't you have a drop of self-esteem? And even if it stopped and that was the only way, can you swallow it?
Your job is a bit like "beat me, I love you." If you want this to happen again, look for it, it will happen for sure, you don't believe in the second chance. So go ahead, dear girl, run away from this man, but very burzoi, and don't look back, there is nothing there.
This reminds me a little of what the Russians say in such cases - "If he beats, then he loves."
Alooo number 3, be careful how you speak, this is my sister's comment, what are you calling when it's not your job and she's already making fun of what she's like when she's 8, a boy of 25 has the right to write