My problem may seem a bit boring to you, I am also aware of it and this is the first time I have met such a person. I didn't think it would ever happen to me .. My friend is 27 years old and I am 20. 7 years older than me, but he behaves like a child .. literally like a child .. I am angry for the most The smallest thing, not to mention if something more serious happens. . It has happened SOMETIMES that we argue about something and I call him, for example, "you are very stupid", but just for fun and he no longer picks up my phone for days, and if he picks me up, he starts talking so much and only insults me and he forces me to close the phone in his face, then he is offended that I close it in his face and so I don't know until when .. not to mention jealousy - there is just a comment .. always waiting for me to apologize .. NEVER, ABSOLUTELY NEVER takes the first step, always blames me .. When he is angry he starts insulting me .. I wonder what to I do .. Otherwise, as a person he is very good, he would always help me, but these paw behaviors of his kill me. I don't know what to do, how to do it, so as not to offend him, that he is offended by everything. None of my previous friends were like that, not even my family or me. I like to joke, to make jokes sometimes .. He hurts from everything, I just don't know what to do .. Am he angry when I call him? In fact, if I don't call him, he won't do it, because as I said, I'M GUILTY AGAIN. And so I have to call him a lot, it happened and I went to them .. I do not know what this man aims ..
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talk to him, tell him how you feel, and if he gets offended again, let him get angry, don't call ... if he doesn't call, it will become clear to you how much he cares about you
For you, the phrases uttered may be harmless, but for him it is a violation of his dignity, humiliation and crushing of self-esteem. It is even worse for him because it is said by the woman he loves. If you want to be with him, you have to compromise and try not to get lost. Be more tolerant.
It's as if I'm listening to myself, this situation is so intolerable that I don't think anything you do will change. I do so, I let it break for some nonsense and I don't look for it at all and I remember. Try it and the more you apologize to him and put up with him, the worse it will get. Next time, leave him alone for as long as possible, it should be clear to him that you also have your life and your activities. I guess when he realizes that he can lose you, he will change, if that doesn't work for you, leave him, it's not just worth the unnecessary nerves.
Total liglio and selfish. As angry as he is, he will be angry with you - just don't ask him to explain himself to him and apologize for such nonsense.
Could it be egocentric?
Horror, what are you looking for with this ....
From the author: We ended our relationship and relationship from yesterday, we haven't heard or seen each other .. And let me tell you, this Man dumped me on the PHONE with the following words: "You never respected me, you always try to crush me, at first it wasn't like that, it changed over time, you think only of yourself, I leave you to do what you want, you will never change "then I asked: - Do you still love me? -No, you killed everything in me, I loved you very much, maybe like no other, but you killed everything in me, I DON'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE, I DON'T LOVE YOU. Then I just couldn't stand it and said to him: -Listen, but open your ears very well: I PROMISE YOU, I REALLY PROMISE YOU THAT ONE DAY YOU WILL REGRET THESE WORDS. OK Bye. And do you know what the worst thing about the whole thing is? That we are neighbors and live against each other, and I will not see him every day and participate terribly .. How do you think if I did the right thing with my last words, and if he will regret it ... Because believe me, he is really angry about nonsense. I have always respected him. Both him and his family. I got along very well with his mother, his sister ... I don't know ... what do you think, will he look for me soon?
Author, in this case you are behaving like a child - why would he look for you? Because you got along with his family? Well, why don't you look for his sister and his mother then, what are you looking for? The man wants to live without you. Respect him - he's very masculine. Maybe for the first time since he's been with you. Who knows - he may have been right, don't you think?
In my opinion, it's all over, he doesn't even have the courage to say these things to you in your eyes, only a relationship is based on a discussion of the problems, and you didn't have that. You go ahead and find someone who will be a real man like this. It's not worth thinking about anymore.
What zodiac signs are you both? You may not be compatible.