I loved a man. I felt that he had me, or at least had some feelings. However, other people began to interfere in our relationship. We fell in love. Jealousy, pride and stubbornness became the reasons for our separation. I wanted to talk. He was silent and thoughtful. I got angry and told him not to think I wanted a serious relationship from him, just fun. Six months have passed. During this time I worked, studied and went out with friends. But I didn't let anyone in. I know about him that you wrote and saw girls, slept with some of them. But during this time, his relationship with none of them deepened. We got along after the emotions had subsided. I was very happy because we were together again. He behaved as before. But sometimes he gets withdrawn and cold and doesn't seem to want me. I wonder what the reason is. Doesn't he love me anymore? Are you sorry
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I don't know, darling, I never managed to understand men, but to cheer you up a little, I'll tell you a funny story I read in a book. A woman comes home from work and watches the man sour, drinks beer and is silent. She was worried, but said nothing. They went to bed and had great sex, but then the man was sour again, at breakfast, too. What does the woman think? "There must be another one! I knew, you recently mentioned that she has a new colleague. It must be some cool babe and she quickly charmed him and now mine doesn't dare tell me. Etc." What does he think? "Hell, my favorite team lost the most important game of the season, but what great sex you had afterwards !!!" So this is an example that it's not easy to understand what's going on in men's heads and that's why you don't care. and try. Enjoy what you have and don't worry about trifles,
Author, the problem is in you. You have changed too. Stop being a passive princess. Be proactive. Otherwise you will get bored of him.
Thanks for the comments! And I started to think that the problem was in me. I didn't want him to think I was obsessing over him. But I think I went to the other extreme. by the author
I think he's afraid he might fall in love with you a lot and lose his freedom
"I know about him that you wrote and saw girls, slept with some of them." How do you know? From intriguing girlfriends?
slept and for you it's nothing le le le le how far people have come if he slept you have nothing to do with him as he calls slept and does not care ....
The author writes again. Thanks for the comments! Number 6, I really hope so, but ... you don't know. Number 7, we told him what we did during the separation and he told me himself. Number 8, I can't look for an account since we were separated at the time. It worries me more not to fall in love with anyone else
it worries you more not to fall in love with another, but make sure you don't have worries, it's up to you
Many men who love their freedom do just that. I also had a relationship with a man, as described above, in the beginning it was a fire, but after 3 months he said that I was pressing him, he needed space ... and so on until our first separation. We didn't talk for two months, we broke up with a bang and I just decided to erase it from my life. Two months later he came back and asked us to reconnect, he tried 2-3 ... had sex, but it wasn't the same ... so he told me. Well, I'm back ... it was great. Two new months on the wings of love, this time it was even better and real, but 15 days ago it started again. He stepped back ... I asked what was going on, he couldn't fully meet my expectations, he didn't love me as much as I loved him. Emmy ok I accepted the explanations, although they are strange to say the least and now we are only as acquaintances. I can't give you advice, I never understood why he did it. Is he afraid of himself or me? But the fact is - there is a distance and things are no longer the same.