My friend claims that he loves me very much and I think so, but there is only one thing I can't understand - why he constantly writes to other girls on Skype, all 15-16 years old. And we are both 25 years old. When I make a problem for him, he calls me to see what he's writing and what I really see is that he's kidding these little ones. But why he does it and why he doesn't mess with boys. We recently broke up because of stupidity, and he said we would only get together if I let him have personal space on the computer, and I don't forbid him to write to them. It's true that they don't even know each other, but why does he do it? I'm very confused and I don't know what to do, but I won't give up - I don't like it. What do you think - do I have cause for concern? I will be happy for you to write to me and give me good advice!
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Let me tell you, darling, this writing with girls is not at all harmless. It's a kind of mania. My niece met a 26-year-old and left with him, and she is .... 13 ... Your man either doesn't have a job to fill his time with or he doesn't like it, but the family life he has. of course you want to count. My husband is 34 years old and is still a small child. my son is better understood by him. if it will help you I will give you an example of how we both live. We love each other again, but he also has a hobby. He watches porn, I drink coffee with friends. It's just that over the years I've realized that it's better for everyone to have personal freedom. And you don't pay attention to him. Start looking at your life and going out with friends, always look to be engaged and yours will one day realize if he loves you that you are much more important to him than these little ones.
To have. If he respects you he will stop doing it. Well, everyone has the right to personal abstinence, you do not need to completely ban these contacts, but if this is too much and it irritates you very clearly that you will not allow it. You have to decide for yourself whether you want to give him another chance or not, but tell him what you think about it and, depending on the answer, make your choice. Good luck
The only way to stop him is to start texting with men on Skype as your argument will be that you also need personal space, on the other hand you have to be convinced that what he does is not harmless conversations and one hundred percent is also related to meetings outside the virtual space and I tell you this as a man who knows our animal nature to perfection! When you ask him why he does it, the answer is that you are bored and his feelings for you, if any, are superficial, no matter how much he declares other arguments to you! This is definitely not your man and if your relationship continues it will continue and his breakup, although it is impossible to find a man who will be only yours - such has not yet been born and the reason is that we are just arranged and never miss when there is an opportunity!
Of course, there is room for concern. As they do not know each other, so they can meet. And then ..... From your confession I come to the conclusion that he cares more for those little ones than for you. Such a person has no place next to you, he will never support you and will never understand you. I do not understand this about personal space - above all in life together you need to comply with the person next to you. The decision remains yours, but keep in mind that such small pickles have ruined many families.
Well, since he considers this a personal space and so, according to him, he will spend his time .......... start writing with men! Let's see then how he will react and whether he will be happy! But don't give up in any case, no matter how much you love him! You have no idea what relationships and love stories are tied in this way! I have experienced it! Even if it looks like a fool and is completely innocent at first glance! Not so! Trust me! Success!
Extremely simple thinking. Let the man who wrote to someone on icq startle him - not only does he SHOW you what he writes to them. If my girlfriend starts behaving in such a stupid way, she will leave very soon and very quickly :) I envy your friend for his tolerance for your stupidity
It doesn't have to be something to worry about, but you should always be careful about such things. My friend also wrote to others with the argument that it was nothing serious, but when I told him that if he continued, I would go out with others (in a friendly and not serious) way, he quickly finished with these things :)
This is not harmless at all, at least in my opinion! His personal space is his, but he must respect you! You, why don't you tell him that you will do the same and so you will be even :) And look how he will light the wick :)
That's right, don't give up! It is true that everyone should have personal space, but if he sticks to you, he will not do it. You are the one who will have to change it. If it doesn't happen, in my opinion, there is no point in continuing to suffer .. :)
Let them write all night and be as they please.
and when it's not like that, I tried what not to do, but it didn't work. I even tried to write to others and he caused me a scandal.