Hello! I am writing here for advice. We like each other a lot with a boy, but there is one problem - there is no way to go. He deals with grass. We are very different, but I think that complements us. I really love him and in his words he loves me too ... The problem is that my mother is a doctor and my father is a former police officer. We really want to be together and I don't know how to act anymore. He is constantly in my head! Please tell me some option to be together ... I do not want to hide from ours because they have always supported me and have not deprived me. I don't want to lie to them and keep it a secret!
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How does it work? Does this weed smoke, does it spread? Justify yourself! And not everyone smokes weed, but since he has decided to smoke, you may not tell yours!
Have you clarified to us,, Smoked, and sold weed? If the sale stops in time, when you give birth to a child, I guess he will get a decent job because of the child. But if you smoke weed, it's not for a father, your mother as a doctor, just lie to her,,, Mom, a friend of mine has a friend who smokes weed, can this in any way harm the unborn baby,,. In my opinion, if you smoke weed, see how much you can leave it earlier. Or set him a condition to choose between you and the grass, one of the two ..
Honestly, nowadays it is very difficult to find someone our age who does not smoke weed. If you like it, I don't think grass is the thing that can stop you from being together. I see that your parents are strict, but you don't have to tell them about it (if you go), because they will hardly be happy, because it's easier for people nowadays to label people (and I think this should not determine a person at all). I personally know a lot of decent people "who deal with grass." So try your luck with it. You don't know what can come out of this whole thing. Success!
If it sells, dump it. If he just smokes, just ignore his attempts to make you smoke, and eventually he will either find another, or he will learn from you and stop smoking.
To number 1. Just smoke ... and how can I not say ... This means that I have to hide and lie to him about who I'm going out with ... In the end, everything will come to light
Why you have to hide. He won't smoke in front of yours, will he? In time, your friend will get bored and prefer to have fun with you.
Just smoking only shouldn't bother you. There is nothing wrong, as long as it is not constant, but from time to time. My girlfriend and I smoke 1-2 times a month and sex when you're high just can't be described in words. If you do not want to smoke - do not smoke. If you don't want him to smoke, tell him. There's nothing else you can do in the end, and you're probably for another boy if you really can't accept the fact. ~ Days
Thanks a lot for the tips! I'm glad that there are people who can help and not spit :)