Здравейте! Момиче на 17 години съм. Не мога да кажа, че съм от най-красивите с най-прекрасното тяло и меко казано ми е комплекс. Всеки път преди да изляза с момче се притеснявам дали ще ме хареса, дали няма да ме остави.. Последният такъв случай завърши по възможно най-ужасният начин. Писах си с въпросното момче доста време и постоянно отлагах излизането ни. Казах му притесненията си относно това дали ще ме хареса. Той ми обещаваше, че всичко ще е наред, че ще му харесам, правехме доста планове за бъдещето си заедно. С много колебания от своя страна, склоних да излезем. Бяхме в компания с приятелката ми и негов приятел. Приятелката ми дойде при мен и ми сподели, че той не ме е харесал, че се чувствал излъган за това как изглеждам, че на снимки съм му била по-симпатична.. меко казано ми стана зле. Самочувствието ми падна долу в краката. Той ми каза как между нас няма да се получи, как това е краят. Вече 3ти ден откакто се случи всичко това, а аз се чувствам все толкова унизена и съсипана. Може би трябваше да излезем още преди да почна да свиквам с него, преди да се привържа. Сега се чувствам сама.. Пиша тук, за да ми дадете някакъв съвет, да ми вдъхнете кураж за в бъдеще.. Благодаря Ви, че прочетохте историята ми!
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My advice is without more notes. You need to see each other right away and see if you like yourself. Also start exercising and diet, there is a lot of information.
Well, no one benefits from a lot of Photoshop on Facebook and abnormal shooting angles. He feels cheated, in pictures - Miss World, and in reality - a normal person. You feel bad too. There is nothing to grieve, just draw the appropriate conclusions for the future: watch live to communicate and make acquaintances and then share fr or at least be with natural photos on social networks.
You are 17, my dear! So I'll tell you how I see things. First, thank your girlfriend for telling you the truth. Friends need to tell the truth, whether or not they hurt us. But ... If someone insults my girlfriend in front of me, at the first bad word, I will shut his mouth. Rule one - always protect your friends. And you always expect to be protected! In front of others is when you are left alone you say what you want. Rule two - no one has to like you! Nor do you have to like someone. But you always find a delicate way out of the situation. A person who allows himself to comment on you in front of your friends does not deserve your tears. He doesn't have to like you, but he does have to show respect for your personality. Rule three - learn to love yourself! Everyone has something - weight loss, sparse hair, oily skin, easy sweating. There is no person without a complex and something to worry about. Love your body! But not that passive love! Love it by working so that it will reward you. Healthy food and more sports. The road is difficult. My change started a few days ago. But my body deserves more ... Yours too. Rule four - never, but never share your complexes! Especially a man! It will hit you where it hurts the most! And you won't know why - because he fell in love with another, because his boss shouted or because his dick is small. But there are men who will know your complexes. And no, because you told them. They will not use them against you. They deserve our respect, tears and smiles ... Now wipe the tears and put on your crown! Deciding whether you will go to dances, to fitness, to volleyball ... Read! Have fun! Laugh! Live! I hug you! Woman, 27
That you have been dating men since the chat .... wow, if you sleep with someone, ... then there is no getting rid of you for sure ...
Keep your head up! One day you will meet a boy who will appreciate you! Me
Learn not to touch your photos with Photoshop for starters ..
Look, on the one hand, I don't think he's guilty. When I first met my friend, he told me later that he thought I would be fuller live because I was photographed as you were, etc. Then he told me that once he met a girl who had nothing to do with her photos. One tip for all the girls reading this: 1. Go on a first date with no or minimal makeup to see your true self and if you like it, be real; 2. Don't just upload photos with a lot of makeup, upload natural ones as well; 3. Don't use apps to make yourself thinner in face, body, with bigger breasts, etc. And in the end, this boy has obviously lost a very good girl, so up head chick, there's more lots of fish in the sea!
Another piece of advice from me - make yourself and your girlfriends girls night - that is, go to the movies, haircut, disco, shopping, manicure, buy chocolate and forget it!
As a recent topic puts it, women don't like men shorter than them. So if he was shorter than you, you would probably dump him for his looks. What are you crying about now, after he has acted as every woman does.
If he doesn't like to go, you don't need him.
Learn to love yourself no matter what you look like. Everyone has complexes for something, but try not to show them in front of others, because as you can see they can use it against you. And with this procrastination to see what you want to achieve? Either way, you'll get out someday, the sooner the better. Live things are different and I'm not just talking about looks.
Well lose weight, but healthy of course! The main problem is not that he did not like you, but that it is obvious that you do not like yourself, but do something about it! F19