I always wanted to have a little tattoo, but I didn't decide exactly what I wanted, so I left it for later. However, I'm sure I want a piercing and finally decided to have it on my nose. (I want to clarify that I myself do not like crazy things and I want something simple, ordinary and beautiful) I always without realizing it asked my friend what he thinks about these topics and he frowns every time. He doesn't like tattoos and piercings. He says it looked ugly. I only wear earrings and he didn't say anything about them, obviously at least they are acceptable to him. Today I told him for the first time more seriously that I wanted to. We have been together for almost a year and throughout the period he always complimented me and said that everything was going well for me. (I've noticed that he doesn't say anything when I try something different.) That's how it was until today, and he told me directly, "I'll be honest, it won't work for you. I'm disgusted." These words from him just killed my happiness. I felt dumb and stupid to tell him I wanted to try something new, and he didn't support me. I told him "If you are very disgusted, I will take off my earrings" and we ended the topic with his words "Stop talking nonsense". And now I myself do not know what to do - whether to give up or do whatever I want. I know he loves me, he accepted me even in the moments when I look awful, but when it comes to such topics, when I talk about something different .. And now I myself do not know what to do - to give up or to do whatever I want. I know he loves me, he accepted me even in the moments when I look awful, but when it comes to such topics, when I talk about something different .. And now I myself do not know what to do - whether to give up or do whatever I want. I know he loves me, he accepted me even in the moments when I look awful, but when it comes to such topics, when I talk about something different ..
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He may simply associate them with a girl or woman who repulses him. That's why I don't like boys with shaved heads, they just remind me of a disgusting person who is a relative of mine ... The stupid thing is that no matter what you do, you can't change it. Don't be mad at him - at least he's honest with you. But if you dream so much of having a piercing or a tattoo, you should not be stopped by the opinion of anyone, not even your friend. I don't think he'll dump you for it, but he'll definitely need some time to get used to it and accept you.
I would consider my husband (if we live together and have a serious relationship), he would be the only person who has the right to tell me how to look, I will explain why. First, because vision is important, you like it visually and as a person, I guess? However, a drastic change in your vision will change things, not only in terms of visual liking. First you will change the vision that he liked initially and second - it will show him that you do not like natural, that you are fickle and changeable ... it is a kind of betrayal, you show disrespect to him. How would you feel if the man you love very much takes it for granted .... modifications, look on the internet for people who put steel implants under their skin, or scarification ... I mention these two things because they come from exactly the pelvic type of tribal cultures from which tattooing and piercing come. Imagine that you made them and you don't like what it looks like, and you warned him that you didn't like it, but he did it - it's disrespectful to you. Keep in mind that one tattoo does not stop, they are stocky, the same with piercings. I can list thousands of disadvantages of both tattoos and piercings, although I like to look at them differently if they are beautiful, but I would not do it. A nose piercing will bend your nasal septum towards the end of your nose, in time you will see, it is completely imperceptible, but it happens to everyone. If you want to have body piercing marks - ok ... I say that because sooner or later you will remove it, the other option is to do more, and to have a typical vision of this type of people, which is not bad, you just have to you are sure that you are such a person. I don't think you're ... and you warned him that you didn't like him, but he did - disrespect to you. Keep in mind that one tattoo does not stop, they are stocky, the same with piercings. I can list thousands of disadvantages of both tattoos and piercings, although I like to look at them differently if they are beautiful, but I would not do it. A nose piercing will bend your nasal septum towards the end of your nose, in time you will see, it is completely imperceptible, but it happens to everyone. If you want to have body piercing marks - ok ... I say that because sooner or later you will remove it, the other option is to do more, and to have a typical vision of this type of people, which is not bad, you just have to you are sure that you are such a person. I don't think you're ... and you warned him that you didn't like him, but he did - disrespect to you. Keep in mind that one tattoo does not stop, they are stocky, the same with piercings. I can list thousands of disadvantages of both tattoos and piercings, although I like to look at them differently if they are beautiful, but I would not do it. A nose piercing will bend your nasal septum towards the end of your nose, in time you will see, it is completely imperceptible, but it happens to everyone. If you want to have body piercing marks - ok ... I say that because sooner or later you will remove it, the other option is to do more, and to have a typical vision of this type of people, which is not bad, you just have to you are sure that you are such a person. I don't think you're ... I can list thousands of disadvantages of both tattoos and piercings, although I like to look at them differently if they are beautiful, but I would not do it. A nose piercing will bend your nasal septum towards the end of your nose, in time you will see, it is completely imperceptible, but it happens to everyone. If you want to have body piercing marks - ok ... I say that because sooner or later you will remove it, the other option is to do more, and to have a typical vision of this type of people, which is not bad, you just have to you are sure that you are such a person. I don't think you're ... I can list thousands of disadvantages of both tattoos and piercings, although I like to look at them differently if they are beautiful, but I would not do it. A nose piercing will bend your nasal septum towards the end of your nose, in time you will see, it is completely imperceptible, but it happens to everyone. If you want to have body piercing marks - ok ... I say that because sooner or later you will remove it, the other option is to do more, and to have a typical vision of this type of people, which is not bad, you just have to you are sure that you are such a person. I don't think you're ... If you want to have body piercing marks - ok ... I say that because sooner or later you will remove it, the other option is to do more, and to have a typical vision of this type of people, which is not bad, you just have to you are sure that you are such a person. I don't think you're ... If you want to have body piercing marks - ok ... I say that because sooner or later you will remove it, the other option is to do more, and to have a typical vision of this type of people, which is not bad, you just have to you are sure that you are such a person. I don't think you're ...
Well, decide for yourself what you want more - a drawing of the skin and a pierced nose or this boyfriend? Keep in mind that as he gets used to determining what to do with himself from now on, if you get together, you will get angry.
He told you his sincere opinion, and he did what you wanted. Earrings are something acceptable in our civilization, so there is nothing against them. Nose earrings are very popular in the Mayan civilization and some African peoples, and there if you do not have a nose piercing, no self-respecting man will look at you. These are just different cultures. And your body is yours, ie you can do with it whatever you want. But if you decide to cut off one ear because you want to, don't expect everyone to look at you with admiration. So your friend has an inner attitude about what is attractive and what is not, and he has clearly told you that he would not like the earring on your nose.
Well, number 2, the fact is that often one tattoo doesn't stop, but often one boyfriend doesn't stay for life. People grow, change both externally and as tastes, ideas, character. And if you consider the person next to you all your life, one day you will hate him without being guilty. Simply because you will look in the mirror, you will see a stranger there and you will feel cheated - as if you were limiting yourself for someone else. But this other one is not guilty. Her boyfriend won't even suspect it, because he's unlikely to lock her up at home so she doesn't get a piercing. He just shared his opinion with her. From then on, she decides for herself. It may be their only disagreement and they will be happy together forever, or they may gradually diverge in everything and move away from each other to find a new person with whom they will get along better.
And why exactly do you want to pretend to be a monkey? What normal person (and especially a young woman) pierces his nose and disfigures himself just like that? Is it clear to you that with such a vision you have no chance with employers, men or anyone. Your friend is right. These are teenage, I would even say childish nonsense.
To number 2: Yeah, so he tells her that he doesn't like tattoos and piercings and she disrespects him, and for him to forbid her (indirectly through "I'm disgusted" and the like) is a great respect? Today they are together, tomorrow they are not, let's stop nonsense. Not to mention that this is a kind of manipulation. Author, as long as you really want it, you're right. And if you break up or stop liking him for it, you can only be grateful to him. From what I have written, I come to the conclusion that he loves himself, not you. If you think that the piercing does not work for you, it is as if you will not be able to remove it. I have to accept you as you are.
Abe, where did this stupid mania to disfigure yourself with piercings, tattoos, juki and similar perversions come from? I was upset when I saw a supposedly beautiful young girl with a duck's beak, streaked like a Christmas tree and with a pierced nose like a cow. You have a natural beauty and wonderful radiance that no tattoo, piercing or even hair dye can imitate. Appreciate them more and accept yourself better. Only if you knew how wonderful you look when you are yourself.
From number 2 Well people ... I don't think like you "what do you care what your husband / wife likes, they are not eternal, people separate, they die ..." I'm sorry, but with people who think like that, I wouldn't want to I have a relationship. Who do you respect? Yourself - do not count, because it is easy to be self-centered, and this is misunderstood self-esteem. To do something OPPOSITE to the person you love is disrespectful, but it is best for such people to be alone, then they will simply be free-spirited without hurting the person they are with. Author, always put yourself in the other person's shoes and then act. It is better to live this way.
I have tattoos and piercings and most people don't know. Probably most people, when they read it, will think of me as a drug addict listening to metal, and when people see me, they think of me as an innocent girl. Don't live for human opinion.
I tattooed would not even look, for piercings and the like not to mention. But in this case, if he didn't have a problem, it wouldn't be bad (from your perspective) to do it. But now that he obviously can't stand such "surgeries," you can't give up a piercing and a tattoo.
I support number 8. What is the beauty of the earring on the nose? Are you a bear to show off? Or a pygmy? A lot of girls and women at the age of 35 wear earrings on her lips or nose. They are usually not immediately noticeable, but with your peripheral vision you see something glistening on your face. And immediately the association is ready. Is this snot that shone? So what's so beautiful about being a needle in the face? And when they start to pierce their nipples, my labia rise! You look at a beautiful female body. Leg, chest, ass, beautiful face, hair, eyes. And by removing the rotten bra; IRON! Beautiful breasts! Uniquely beautiful nipples and areolas! And drilled with two videos! There was a stupidity. A man and a great babe get off. They reach the bed at the hotel. The chick is great. Chest, legs, ass. He starts kissing everything on her. And he reached the navel. He looks inside the bolt. He found something to develop it and ass and fell! Is this what these nipple views are for? Don't gold, silver, platinum leave a patina on the skin? Isn't your body sweating? Sweat and germs do not collect around the earrings? If you want to cover yourself with earrings or platinum and diamonds, you will not become more beautiful and accepted. On the contrary. Personally, this repulses me.
My father's logic in such life situations is more than iron. He is still of the opinion that everyone should listen to the opinion of their relatives, especially if they have asked for it. Still, the final decision is up to one person, in this case yours. The piercing affects your body, you will wear it, you will look after it and you will protect it from inflammation. Your friend told you he didn't like it, but you decide if you want to pierce your nose. I don't think he dumped you for it, but he probably won't like you doing it. He told you his opinion, you make your own decision. If it so happens that you decide to pierce your nose and he decides to leave you, it's his job and he had the right to do so. Everyone is free to do everything with their own lives, as long as they can bear the consequences. You have the right to pierce your nose,
Number 9, sorry - I wanted to give you 5 stars, and I put 1 mistake. Up to 13 - everything written by you is true, the bad thing is that most things are done at the first sign and under some momentary whim, without realizing the consequences of the moment, and then when they realize it is too late. And presumably, young people are more likely to do stupid things, the consequences of which would then cost them a lot. So I think that a person before doing something is not bad to take into account other people's opinions, but impartially, not stubbornly. Not to listen to them, but only to realize the possible consequences and only then make a decision, but already aware of the possible consequences, and not then to wonder who is shit in his pants. If the author wants, let her do it, but don't wonder why many people don't accept her. This could affect future careers, future relationships, etc. There is a risk of infections, this piercing must be maintained. And after 20-30 years he will not be in this child's mind and may want to remove them, and a tattoo is difficult, expensive and painful to remove. If he thinks it's all worth it, let him do it.
I don't know how old you are, you're obviously quite young. It never occurred to you that someday this fashion will pass, and your skin is not an old rag to throw it out of the closet. Do you introduce yourself as a grandmother, with a drooping and wrinkled tattoo and a pierced nose? What is cute at 20, funny at 40-50, is ugly. And don't tell me what kind of freshmen you will be in the critical one, that I also move on the Bulgarian streets ... Author, think if your friend, for example, always wanted to look like the Joker or Am Gul or something from which they are disgusting, how would you feel if, despite your opinion, you did exactly that? Because, is rush fashionable and very cool?
Number 7, he accepts her better than she obviously does ... hey, the "thinking" of some people is completely distorted.
"It never crossed your mind that someday this fashion will pass, and your skin is not an old rag to throw out of the closet." I'm not a fan of tattoos, but this fashion has not passed for 40 years.
And I think that piercing is silly. And tattoos are cretinous especially style "sleeve", but piercing especially on the tongue is the pinnacle of simplicity. I'd be a jerk to you if I saw something like that. Even just saying that you like and want is a serious reason for separation. But when you are so smart, you will find a kind of idiot.
As you get older, technology will be advanced enough to erase all scars - from tattoos or earrings. However, it is disgusting, vulgar and rustic to look at a lady with such things.
"These words from him just killed my happiness." And is this your happiness - mottled and puffy skin ?! : D Once again I see reasons to think that the human species is totally confused. In many cases, not just 20, but several decades, or even a lifetime, is not enough to learn to distinguish important things from nonsense.
He said it best № 19 - with tattoos, piercings, etc. you will never look like a lady with style and class, author. But obviously you have no desire, no qualities and no mind for such, you want to be a simple girl.
Hmmm, 22, because by keeping your skin clean, you instantly become the British Queen. Abe, I was impressed that there is a breed of people who do not have any positive qualities (neither mind, originality, courage, nor good character, stability or beauty) and begin to brag about what they do NOT do. Puritans one species. I have a colleague who claims that she has never vomited in her life. Saint straight! So, since you have nothing else to brag about, your skin was clean, and ladies? Author, do not listen to them, see that they are closely tailored from the last century.
Bray, for a woman to find someone to "like her" and for her to hurry to change ... Where is this world going? ... Those with tattoos became more than normal. Bass horror. I can't stand tattoos. It is as if they are members of a sect or are from the Yakuza. Exactly how many men like pierced and painted women? Investigate this question before you say to yourself - fuck, I'll find another one that "likes me the way I am".
In Bulgarian it is called tattoos and piercing! Tattoos and piercings are translated into English, respectively. The new generation - be a little more literate! :) Piercing: A small hole in a part of the body, typically other than the ears, made so as to insert a ring, stud, or other piece of jewelery.
24 I put on my hat so I can take it off! Not only are they painted like calendars, but try to understand some scribbles. They weren't Pokemon, they weren't butterflies. After 4-5 years, because they are used to seeing them every day, this butterfly became a dragon with a mantle. And how many Chinese characters are there? And then why did it say "drisla" in Japanese? !! They take off their clothes, take off their clothes and when they stay on the tutu you ask them: - "Won't you undress?" They paint like eggs and think it's beautiful. Nature has made us beautiful enough.
I like them a lot. As soon as we met, I saw that there were tattoos, I just fell in love with her. It may sound like a fetish, but I really like them. I even wonder how to convince her to do more.
If your husband does not support the hobbies, interests and at least what you like yourself ... change the man.